Thread: Constant moaning farangs

Originally Posted by sabang

Other people just seem to be perpetually in conflict with everything and everyone

This should be on my gravestone. It is a bitch of a curse to have and I'm not proud of it but I've got as did my grandfather. Not an angry person I just don't like people and I detest the system.

From moaning to angry. Isn't this really about angry folks who complain all the time rather than moaning. Moaning isn't really the right word.

No matter, you can be happy here. You're just getting old and probably bored with all the things you used to enjoy. You need to get happy real real fast. Me too!

Originally Posted by Yasojack

reading and observing some posters recently, i came to the conclusion perhaps some therapy may help the lonely sad people.

I do understand that you may not realize your in need of help so i will go slowly for you,living in a country your not able to communicate in the language of course can be frustrating and makes you feel lonely and isolated.

let the intro begin

Hey Yaso, I know a Couple of Ex Pats who live only 2 houses away from each other in the next town who would love to be "lonely" cos they both made big mistakes , They bought Massive home studio TV's with surround sound in their stupid efforts to "keep up" with each other , now each of their houses are "invaded " almost every night by their wive's family and their screaming bad mannered kids ,and the weak Kunts are afraid to say anything , I called round to one last Monday , his gaff looked like the Vault in the "Black bull" pub back there in Blighty on a Sat night

Right ok so we have established there is something missing in your life,now its time to search within yourself why you moan a lot.

Unhappy people heres a guide, remember now denial is a contributing factor, why you moan a lot

12 Common Causes and Proven Cures for Unhappiness

Easy tiger start your own thread and not hijack mine

Originally Posted by AsGoodAsItGets

From moaning to angry. Isn't this really about angry folks who complain all the time rather than moaning. Moaning isn't really the right word.

No matter, you can be happy here. You're just getting old and probably bored with all the things you used to enjoy. You need to get happy real real fast. Me too!

I'll post something more depressing along with your mood next time.

Originally Posted by Yasojack

12 Common Causes and Proven Cures for Unhappiness

From the link:

1. Lack of meaning in one’s day to day life.

2. Obsession with the past or future.

3. Feeling out of shape and unhealthy.

4. Unfavorably comparing oneself to others.

5. Focusing on negatives.

6. Avoiding personal accountability.

7. Perfectionism and fear of failure.

8. A low self-esteem.

9. Financial debt.

10. All work and no play.

11. Neglecting personal relationships.

12. Procrastination.

Originally Posted by AsGoodAsItGets

Originally Posted by Yasojack

12 Common Causes and Proven Cures for Unhappiness

From the link:

1. Lack of meaning in one’s day to day life.

2. Obsession with the past or future.

3. Feeling out of shape and unhealthy.

4. Unfavorably comparing oneself to others.

5. Focusing on negatives.

6. Avoiding personal accountability.

7. Perfectionism and fear of failure.

8. A low self-esteem.

9. Financial debt.

10. All work and no play.

11. Neglecting personal relationships.

12. Procrastination.

I think the main one is do not allow any one to come to your property and either do or say some thing which annoys you ,without informing them were the door is ,many from what I've seen here "suffer in silence" , personally I'm just not wired up that way, whether its a plus or a minus I am not certain , but it seems to work OK for me , and luckily for me Jan thinks the same too , which here in Thailand is a definite plus

Your type of therapy is of no use,to these people, there disturbed using hocus pocus for clinical depression gives false hope, they need to search within themselves to come to a understanding that there lives are a failure, some come to Thailand to find happiness and find they are not able to run away from there demons.

Please leave to proffessional counselors you will only make them have a delayed reaction to therapy, most will see a easy option counselling is a long and hurtful process.

Originally Posted by AsGoodAsItGets

I'll post something more depressing along with your mood next time.

good boy Pi its a bit the 12 step progamme you went through at AA, youron the road, you will get the power within you to dismiss the negative and embrace the positivity of love and fear of the unknown.

Originally Posted by piwanoi

Originally Posted by AsGoodAsItGets

Originally Posted by Yasojack

12 Common Causes and Proven Cures for Unhappiness

From the link:

1. Lack of meaning in one’s day to day life.

2. Obsession with the past or future.

3. Feeling out of shape and unhealthy.

4. Unfavorably comparing oneself to others.

5. Focusing on negatives.

6. Avoiding personal accountability.

7. Perfectionism and fear of failure.

8. A low self-esteem.

9. Financial debt.

10. All work and no play.

11. Neglecting personal relationships.

12. Procrastination.

I think the main one is do not allow any one to come to your property and either do or say some thing which annoys you ,without informing them were the door is ,many from what I've seen here "suffer in silence" , personally I'm just not wired up that way, whether its a plus or a minus I am not certain , but it seems to work OK for me , and luckily for me Jan thinks the same too , which here in Thailand is a definite plus

Originally Posted by DJ Pat

Originally Posted by Yasojack

ghetto housing development 8 million baht which century are you in Pat?

Thats a chateau in isaan

I know someone in 2002 who bought a 'studio' in Yensabi Pattaya for just under £1million Baht, he was clueless, and it was the second place he looked at. It was his third visit to Pattaya.

He did his savings, had worked out an allowance that would take him up to his standard UK pension.

Now? I don't know him anymore. I wouldn't imagine he's living it up like his early days, even in his early days he was a Thai-hating moaning arsehole, same old shit.

Pat tell us ukpounds or Thai baht - a world of difference!

Originally Posted by Yasojack

Your type of therapy is of no use,to these people, there disturbed using hocus pocus for clinical depression gives false hope, they need to search within themselves to come to a understanding that there lives are a failure, some come to Thailand to find happiness and find they are not able to run away from there demons.

Please leave to proffessional counselors you will only make them have a delayed reaction to therapy, most will see a easy option counselling is a long and hurtful process.

Originally Posted by AsGoodAsItGets

I'll post something more depressing along with your mood next time.

Hey Yaso I get my "therapy" every night 7 days a week with a certain "Dr Chang" the soothing Golden elixir of life is the only counseling I ever need .

Originally Posted by Iceman123

Originally Posted by DJ Pat

Originally Posted by Yasojack

ghetto housing development 8 million baht which century are you in Pat?

Thats a chateau in isaan

I know someone in 2002 who bought a 'studio' in Yensabi Pattaya for just under £1million Baht, he was clueless, and it was the second place he looked at. It was his third visit to Pattaya.

He did his savings, had worked out an allowance that would take him up to his standard UK pension.

Now? I don't know him anymore. I wouldn't imagine he's living it up like his early days, even in his early days he was a Thai-hating moaning arsehole, same old shit.

Pat tell us ukpounds or Thai baht - a world of difference!

Nice to read we have a foreign exchange expert on the forum , but for your post no one would have had the foggiest idea there was one!

its a new currency

£1million Baht

Originally Posted by Yasojack

its a new currency

£1million Baht

Nice one!

Originally Posted by Yasojack

Easy tiger start your own thread and not hijack mine

Originally Posted by AsGoodAsItGets

From moaning to angry. Isn't this really about angry folks who complain all the time rather than moaning. Moaning isn't really the right word.

No matter, you can be happy here. You're just getting old and probably bored with all the things you used to enjoy. You need to get happy real real fast. Me too!

On the flip side

Originally Posted by bangkokbonecollector

Originally Posted by Yasojack

Easy tiger start your own thread and not hijack mine

Originally Posted by AsGoodAsItGets

From moaning to angry. Isn't this really about angry folks who complain all the time rather than moaning. Moaning isn't really the right word.

No matter, you can be happy here. You're just getting old and probably bored with all the things you used to enjoy. You need to get happy real real fast. Me too!

On the flip side

Yeah the "Kid Cudi" is the same song they play in funeral parlours in Tennessee ain't it , quite inspirational and totally invigorating to say the least (for the 1 minute 40 seconds I listened to it any way )

Any farangs living unhappy lives in Thailand should move to a village near YasoJack. According to a survey by Thailand's Mental Health Department, Yasothon is the happiest province in Thailand.

Yasothon happiest province in Thailand

Nervana not sure I'm happy you posted that, now we'll have all the moaning feks re-locating up here in search of happiness

To be honest, not sure why it was voted happy place.


There is nothing here believe me

Originally Posted by Neverna

Any farangs living unhappy lives in Thailand should move to a village near YasoJack. According to a survey by Thailand's Mental Health Department, Yasothon is the happiest province in Thailand.

Yasothon happiest province in Thailand

Just been thinking... If I lived in Udon Thani or Nong Khai 'd be a moaning farang as well

Pat anywhere in Thailand sure beats Cornywall.

Originally Posted by Neverna

Any farangs living unhappy lives in Thailand should move to a village near YasoJack. According to a survey by Thailand's Mental Health Department, Yasothon is the happiest province in Thailand.

Yasothon happiest province in Thailand

I think that Happiness is just a state of mind and some people would be miserable were ever they lived, on the other hand others would be blissfully happy ,(like me) IMHO Nervana it all depends on the partner you live with and the people in your immediate vicinity that really count

Originally Posted by Yasojack

Nervana not sure I'm happy you posted that, now we'll have all the moaning feks re-locating up here in search of happiness

To be honest, not sure why it was voted happy place.


There is nothing here believe me

Originally Posted by Neverna

Any farangs living unhappy lives in Thailand should move to a village near YasoJack. According to a survey by Thailand's Mental Health Department, Yasothon is the happiest province in Thailand.

Yasothon happiest province in Thailand

Are there many Danes in Yasothon, Jack? Apparently Denmark is the happiest country in the world, according to the United Nations.