What would you do if your wife // boyfriend left you ??

**nigelandjan** · 12-02-2014, 08:00 PM

This aint a poll , its just an oppurtunity for you express honestly how things would go .

I for one would be in checkmate , as I have never been so happy as in the last 6 years , I am however under no illusion one day because of our age difference she might well kick me into touch , and I wouldnt blame her. ( allthough at the moment there is nothing to suggest she will )

Mind I also have to add I thought the same about my ex of 30 years ( I know I joke about her ) but I was on the floor when it was all final ,, so glad and suprised I got going again.

I also have to add a good old mate of mine used to moan like hell about his old lady , wished all sorts of terrible things would happen , and one day they did.

He,s still alone now many years on hugging her pillow as he goes to sleep .

So come on ,, is your other half really as good / bad as you make out??

**Bettyboo** · 12-02-2014, 08:03 PM

I'm not too emotional. If my wife left me, that'd be ok; peace and quiet at last... But, if my bf left me I'd be heartbroken.

**withnallstoke** · 12-02-2014, 08:04 PM

Balls.

**chassamui** · 12-02-2014, 08:20 PM

I am under no illusions about my current relationship. It does seem the longer we stay together, the stronger the bonds get.
If things did go tits up, I would probably mope for a bit then start all over again, with a bit more experience behind me. Same as I did with the last two.
It all seems a bit unlikely but you never can tell.

**xanax** · 12-02-2014, 08:23 PM

No way would I stay living in this shitty madhouse, I'd be on the first plane home

**Marmite the Dog** · 12-02-2014, 08:25 PM

I don't need to tell you, Nige.

**Necron99** · 12-02-2014, 08:28 PM

She's a bitch.
Death's too good....

**nigelandjan** · 12-02-2014, 08:30 PM

Yeah I know Marmite , were in the same boat here mate.

**harrybarracuda** · 12-02-2014, 08:32 PM

Why have a cow when you can buy a pint of milk?

**NOREPINEPHRINEforME2** · 12-02-2014, 08:42 PM

NOTHING

**Albert Shagnastier** · 12-02-2014, 08:51 PM

Life's short - look at the big picture - enjoy every day.

If my bird left me I'd be gutted.

2 days later I'd get on with it.

**patsycat** · 12-02-2014, 08:56 PM

Having been in this situation a few times, it was devastating, heartbreaking etc. But i did get up and carry on, and would hope i could do the same again.

Being single has helped me get my life, as i want it, to where i want it emotionally. Not always depending or thinking about someone else.

Sometimes i do miss having that "other" to laugh at a stupid thing on the telly, or eat my crap food with. But all in all, at the moment, i am ok with just me to shout at. And i'm set in my ways and stubborn.

And i shout at me alot!!

**alwarner** · 12-02-2014, 08:58 PM

If she left me? I'd be fucking shocked! Been trying to get shut for 10 years.

**DJ Pat** · 12-02-2014, 09:59 PM

Depends. I've loved a few birds who ran off with other guys but looking back I probably got too stale for their liking.

My solution was whisky and lots of it.

When I discovered my wife was sneaking about behind my back I was so happy and relieved. I think I jerked off to it a few times.

**wasabi** · 12-02-2014, 10:12 PM

In the U.K the age for a moving into a Houseing association ,self contained flat is 55.
It is where most of the U.K population eventually end up anyway,most by loosing their partners in death,but it is going to happen anyway.
So the answer is I hope it never happens but if it was premature,then an early move into sheltered accommodation would be the choice.
Back to where I was before marriage, summer in the U.K and a long winter break to a warm country.
Life goes on.

**November Rain** · 12-02-2014, 11:18 PM

Without being too melodramatic, but being totally truthful...

It would destroy me.

**astasinim** · 12-02-2014, 11:36 PM

Only one person broke my heart and I vowed to myself, that it would never happen again and it hasn`t been since.

I`d probably mooch and over analyze things for a while (pick out any learning points), then just crack on, same as always. If she took my son, thats a different matter. I`d probably feature on news at 10.

Right now though, things aren`t too bad, so best not to dwell on the what ifs.

**patsycat** · 12-02-2014, 11:38 PM

See. We can have a nice thread. Or am i asking too much too soon....

**astasinim** · 13-02-2014, 12:26 AM

Your asking waaaay too much Patsy.

**bangkokbonecollector** · 13-02-2014, 12:48 AM

Then she obviously don't like me so why am I going to lose sleep over someone who doesn't like me. I mean if she doesn't like you, find someone who does. Loves tough but it is worth it for those few moments, that's what life is about, capturing those special moments and ignoring the bullshit.

**roger77** · 13-02-2014, 02:37 AM

Originally Posted by harrybarracuda

Why have a cow when you can buy a pint of milk?

Some times you might want cream.

**nigelandjan** · 13-02-2014, 03:34 AM

Well I guess were all diferent for sure , I kinda had a 5 year gap between my ex wife and this one and apart from the (fun) I had in Thailand it was awfull for me going back home alone.

I actually enjoy going to work to look after and provide for my wife , yeah ok living alone for 5 years you come and go as you please , but the loneliness of it all was killing me.

Well I hope it never happens again , but if it ever did it would deffo be another far eastern lady for me , mabe not Thailand , but then again

**Stumpy** · 13-02-2014, 03:50 AM

Answering your question Nige, I would be upset for a few hours until I got into one of my saved unopened "Special Occasions" tequila bottles I have and after that was gone...... Nexxxxxt!!!!. But I have to say I wasn't looking when I met the gal I am with and would probably never really look again.

With that said, I enjoy where I am in my new relationship as its more of a companionship and we are great together. However there is a one way ticket waiting either way if the nonsense starts. I simply have zero patience for BS any more.

As someone posted earlier I will never do an "All In" deal again. I told myself I would never be codependent again.

**sabang** · 13-02-2014, 03:54 AM

I'd be saddened, might mope for a while, and hum to myself that old tune "Never gonna fall in Love again". Then promptly fall in love again. The main question really would be where- "should I stay or should I go" (another song

). Have to cross that bridge if I come to it- but I'm basically quite happy here in the moo ban. Unlikely anyway, 'cus mrs sab & I are just like a pair of well worn shoes now- well, assuming shoes could squabble- but the future is a big place.

**bangkokbonecollector** · 13-02-2014, 05:42 AM

Originally Posted by JPPR2

Answering your question Nige, I would be upset for a few hours until I got into one of my saved unopened "Special Occasions" tequila bottles I have and after that was gone...... Nexxxxxt!!!!. But I have to say I wasn't looking when I met the gal I am with and would probably never really look again.

I enjoy where I am in my new relationship as its more of a companionship. But there is a one way ticket waiting either way if the nonsense starts. I simply have zero patience for women BS anymore.

As someone posted earlier I will never do an "All In" deal again. First one lasted 20 years almost to the day. I told myself I would never depend on a woman again and I will not.

I think I am a bit younger than you but your last point rings true, I just had my first experience of not loving someone but depending on them. Glad to say I had the balls to end it but lesson severely learnt. Never again

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