To Gik or not To Gik

i am not sure if i have been more unfaithful to my wife than she has been to me.

in the first 6 years of marriage i dont remember being unfaithful, but it seems she was screwing everything which has a cock while i was away at sea.

now its my turn - except i dont screw anything which has a cock.

and she has become an old lady

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Originally Posted by cali kid

My best wishes in finding a girl like this for you as well.

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I have one of them too CK

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Originally Posted by FozzieBear

Sure I "mess about" in girlie bars ..but then doesn't everybody?

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I mess about after them too

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Originally Posted by slimboyfat

and she has become an old lady

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That's not to say anything against old ladies, hmm, I'll be due for a visa trip soon.

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Originally Posted by stroller

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Originally Posted by slimboyfat

and she has become an old lady

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That's not to say anything against old ladies, hmm, I'll be due for a visa trip soon.

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time to lock up my women and dogs then

^I'd be more worried about the dogs if I were you mate

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Originally Posted by William

^I'd be more worried about the dogs if I were you mate

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i am most worried about my 16 year old stepdaughter. she hasnt been sterilised like the dog has

^so long as she don't look like a dog, you should be OK

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Originally Posted by Butterfly

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Originally Posted by ceburat

clean pussy from a faithfull lady every day

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Prove it.

you said, for all we know she could be involved in a nasty threesome with the local pastor and his gay lover and you would still didn't know.

I won't comment on the clean pussy because that's just your opinion

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I never posted any such nonesense. That is what you wrote queer boy.

So I have a new one, always hinting that she wants to come around, and I dont mind, she is good fun but not for more than a night at a time.

The giggly type, its fun for just a couple hours, but then i got to go and she stays i come home and my house is spotless, but damn it, she's still there.

I dont mind if she stays for a day and a night but when it turns into three days.......... I stop acting like a nice guy.

Dont want to be like that but dont know how to let her know I want her to go .....

What do I do?

Send her down the shops and then change the locks :)

^^ do like everyone else, pay her and she will go, simple as that.:)

definatley giks and plenty of them. I got two phones now and im thinking of getting 2 more

^^I suppose I could give her money but i think she would be extremely offended, and would probably cry.

Think i may just have to tell her i am getting with my old girl but i will miss her visits.

Had to come back here..

Been single for a while a loven it..

It seems that being straight forward with a girl about the fact that you are only considering gik status can be very very beneficial and they tend to be very happy with it. Who doesnt like a bit of freedom right.. I talk to one on the phone in front of the other and everything is cool..

But it definitely helps if they are separated by great distances from each other and you so that there isnt a high frequency of any individual coming around... Example (I'll use mine)
China- Comes to CM once a month, for business.
Chiang rai- A couple hours on a bus away.
Bangkok- Hi-so girl can hop on a plane anytime.
Chiang mai- Well there has got to be hasnt there.

No moral obligations as everything is in the open.. I love Thailand... Please dont make me go home:theyareontome:

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you are most certainly going to be badly fukked at some point.
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Yeah I keep thinking that but it has worked out really well so far....

Gik - simply put is a shag mate. Nothing to do with being attached or not.

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Originally Posted by William

^SFB, not strictly speaking a mistress. A gik may not be someone with whom you are having sexual relations, but is someone who is more than just a freind

There's another stage on the development ladder between gik and mia noi, which I believe you write as g-a-r. A g-a-r is someone you are having sexual relations with, but they haven't been promoted to mia noi status just yet.

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To clarify, going upscale from friend would be gik, gar, mia noi, mia luang?

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Originally Posted by cali kid

555555..

Yeah I keep thinking that but it has worked out really well so far....

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It works for me too.
Oops!

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Originally Posted by slimboyfat

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Originally Posted by Jarvis

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Originally Posted by slimboyfat

now thats given me an idea for the bar i am planning on opening in Pattaya

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Great idea Slimboy - I'll go in with you on that one

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ok. great - the name of the joint will be Führers

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Don't you mean Mein Fuhrers?