Thread: Wife help please, guys...is she lying?

I'm married to a "good" Thai girl who is educated and living here in LA with me. In a nutshell, she got a phone message from her sister that she was listening to on speakerphone, that I was unable to completely hear. I asked her if I could hear what her sister said so she played the first 5 seconds of the 20 second message and paused it. I said "let me listen to the whole message" and then she said "I have to go call my sister" and quickly walked to another room and she called her. After a few minutes I picked up her phone and tried to replay the message, but she erased it, which she never normally does to any message. A heated argument ensued and I pressed her on what the message said. She said it was nothing, only that if she was coming over to visit her soon. I asked her to "Swear to Buddha" that she wasn't lying about erasing a phone message to have me avoid hearing the rest of the message. She said "I do". I looked at her and said I want you to say you swear to Buddha that there is nothing you're hiding. She then nervously said "I swear to Buddha" while raising her left hand and doing a "peace" sign with her three inner fingers. I asked a Thai person what this gesture means and she said it means that she is not serious or only kidding. Do any of you guys know that this hand gesture means this, just to be sure? I'd be very appreciative if you can help. Regards,

Jack

FFS, there's nothing like trust in a relationship, is there?

Perhaps she's a star trek fan.

And what's with the 'good Thai girl' label?

I see you have redded again Sir Wilson, you are a fukkin cock, the 3 fingers do mean Sanya, or I Promise.

why use the speakerphone if a secret ?
a relationship with no trust factor is shaky ground to be on
suspicious minds an all that.

You sure it aint the Mork and Mindy sign? 'Nano Nano'?

Originally Posted by SiamLover

while raising her left hand a

She lied to you

Ahkeyla, I promise that I will do my best,
dib Dib dib, dob Dob Dob

Kwanda, why should you be upset about this? Are you one of these blokes that thinks all white guys should stick together or something?

^ I'm a bit down about the football result TBH, fukkin stayin up til 5 am

Originally Posted by Sir Wilson

Are you one of these blokes that thinks all white guys should stick together or something?

I have no problems with any ethnicity,

maybe the Pakis

Originally Posted by Kwang

^ I'm a bit down about the football result TBH, fukkin stayin up til 5 am

Oh well, you're gonna be more down when you check your own repos again... Itchy trigger finger and all that. Sorry.

I just saw that , why you up so early anyway ?

Originally Posted by billy the kid

why use the speakerphone if a secret ?
a relationship with no trust factor is shaky ground to be on
suspicious minds an all that.

Why demand to hear the whole conversation with her sister, why snope around behind her back?

The lack of trust starts with him, she should Fuck him off for being untrusting.

Originally Posted by SiamLover

She then nervously said "I swear to Buddha" while raising her left hand and doing a "peace" sign with her three inner fingers.

I asked the girlfriend (who’s Thai) if holding up your left hand and swearing with three fingers up had any meaning to it with Thai’s.

She told me that’s what Boy Scouts do.

You sure she's female?

Fuk it, i'm gonna red him too for the lack of paragraphs

Originally Posted by S Landreth

I asked the girlfriend (who’s Thai) if holding up your left hand and swearing with three fingers up had any meaning to it with Thai’s.

She told me that’s what Boy Scouts do.

You sure she's female?

I got my verdict from my Missus, but she says that's only effective with the right hand, even though she's ambidextrous

Originally Posted by Kwang

I just saw that , why you up so early anyway ?

I start work in 30 mins, so already had breakfast and watching the news on TV. But I also have a three month old baby daughter, so I wake up around 3.00Ish most mornings now, I tend not to go back to sleep after she feeds.

Originally Posted by Kwang

Fuk it, i'm gonna red him too for the lack of paragraphs

Fuckn A! Now you're gettin the hang of it.

Originally Posted by S Landreth

Originally Posted by SiamLover

She then nervously said "I swear to Buddha" while raising her left hand and doing a "peace" sign with her three inner fingers.

I asked the girlfriend (who’s Thai) if holding up your left hand and swearing with three fingers up had any meaning to it with Thai’s.

She told me that’s what Boy Scouts do.

You sure she's female?

3 months hey ?
aww, great age,

you have all the "Dadda", crawling, first steps, to come.

Mines a 17 month old Diva, you wanna see her dance though. i'll put a videoi on here

Get a lot of photos Sir Wilson, the time flies

My first born is 9 years old, so I have an idea of what's to come. (though I'd forgotten about the lack of sleep).

17 months is cool, first days of kindy and school to come, first concert, basketball games etc. It's all good!

Why don't you two go have coffee together or something?

Originally Posted by Sir Wilson

I'd forgotten about the lack of sleep

I would sleep through a bomb me, good on ya though, have a great day