Thread: The Fine line between love and hate

Why does that honeymoon period always end ?
Is it me ?
She's gone now, I'm gonna pack up and move to Pattaya. I'm sick and tired of the bickering. These 4 bottles of Chang will see me right

probably

Originally Posted by Kwang

These 4 bottles of Chang

or maybe them?

Shall I call her ? I don't fancy Pattaya. Maybe I need a Sabbatical ?

Love does not exist, it is a wooly title given to a collection of feelings and emotions that bind people together. One of these emotions is lust, and whilst this is enough to start and cement a relationship in marriage, its an emotion that will be gone within three years. If during this time other reasons to bind you together do not cement the relationship, its doomed to failure. This is the honeymoon period and its why so many marriages break down in their first 5 years.

Should you call her, to answer that question you need to do some serious introspection into the nature of the relationship between you and her.

Best of luck

Originally Posted by hazz

its an emotion that will be gone within three years. If during this time other reasons to bind you together do not cement the relationship, its doomed to failure

Wow, that freaked me out. Thanks Hazz

Originally Posted by Kwang

Why does that honeymoon period always end ?
Is it me ?
She's gone now, I'm gonna pack up and move to Pattaya. I'm sick and tired of the bickering. These 4 bottles of Chang will see me right

Two things in life you should never give up. Being single and drinking.Seems to me you are ahead of the game. Don't fuck it up.

Originally Posted by Kwang

Why does that honeymoon period always end ?
Is it me ?
She's gone now, I'm gonna pack up and move to Pattaya. I'm sick and tired of the bickering. These 4 bottles of Chang will see me right

Maybe you should just go back and pay the barfine again.

I met my wife 3 years ago, and I'm still 100% satisfied with our relationship.
Before I met her, what I did was institute a "one strike and you're out" policy with meeting women.
In the first month or two, if they did or said something that I didn't like.....out they went.
I realized that in the past I rationalized.....made excuses for......previous girlfriends' behaviour or poor personality traits. And I decided that I didn't want to continue to waste time trying to make dysfunctional relationships work. So I kept moving till I met the right one.
We've had minor tiffs, and I'm sure that we will have future disagreements, but her actual personality traits passed my test. I will bear future tiffs with grace.
Try the "one strike and you're out" policy....it works.
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Originally Posted by hazz

Love does not exist

I don't agree.

Don't worry Kwang, relationships go up and down, sometimes they fall apart and sometimes they do not. Take a few days away, a week if you must, then see how you feel...

What are the odds that in this world of 7 billion people we could meet a person of the same race,religion,political bent and class living in the same country,city,suburb or school that is our perfect match and stay together forever?

My parents are two.

Originally Posted by crocman

What are the odds that in this world of 7 billion people we could meet a person of the same race,religion,political bent and class living in the same country,city,suburb or school that is our perfect match and stay together forever?

I have a couple of friends who met at our school (well, she was a classmate and he got done for burning the school)

they met when they were 14 and are still together

so....?

Originally Posted by DrAndy

Originally Posted by crocman

What are the odds that in this world of 7 billion people we could meet a person of the same race,religion,political bent and class living in the same country,city,suburb or school that is our perfect match and stay together forever?

I have a couple of friends who met at our school (well, she was a classmate and he got done for burning the school)

they met when they were 14 and are still together

so....?

So the odds are that great and we are generally that lazy that when we find someone that feels comfortable we tend to give up looking and settle for what we have.How many perfect matches remain unmade?

Why would you need th same race, religion, political bent (subliminal message there???) and class?

I've hate great girlfriends from Mongolia, Germany and Denmark that I would've been very happy living happily ever after with...

Originally Posted by hazz

its an emotion that will be gone within three years

Damn! I must be doing something wrong.

Don't all those bits and pieces coming together make it all a
little more possible?

You love your kids.



you love your parents when they get old.




Everything else is lust.

Thin and fine seem quite close to me to me. Listen to Chrissie, loud, then sit back and contemplate your navel for while, maybe even have a little pick at it. But do listen to this loud. Cheers. You have got three ways to look at it. Your brain, your heart, or your pecker.

Originally Posted by hazz

One of these emotions is lust, and whilst this is enough to start and cement a relationship in marriage, ......

a lot will depend on the adhesive properties of the sperm involved.

The fine line might be more familiarity.
The breeding ground for emotional conditions and how we interact.

Originally Posted by hazz

Love does not exist, it is a wooly title given to a collection of feelings and emotions that bind people together. One of these emotions is lust, and whilst this is enough to start and cement a relationship in marriage, its an emotion that will be gone within three years. If during this time other reasons to bind you together do not cement the relationship, its doomed to failure.

Spot on Bro, you should write a book on the subject.

Love is a steaming load of shit as the word is bantered around at the drop of a hat and any dumb fuk can utter it.

Whats left when the relationship breaks down ?

Fuk all, that's what and love leaves town at warp speed quickly followed by your Superannuation, house and foking Dog.

The word " Love " should be banned permanently and replaced with respect and mutual admiration and living together being given the priority with marriage being deemed Illegal.

Anyway fuk that as well, I love my freedom and watching what I want to watch on the Telli and farting in any direction I find suitable with out some bint chucking a foking sad because it foking stinks.

Anyway, Cheer up mate and celebrate your freedom, bitches are a dime a dozen bro.

^ no need c.s.lewis wrote a fairly definitive book on the nture of love.

I always wonder how these Bargirls' minds work when some farang declares his deepest love for them after thirty minutes of meeting them.

Apart from the financial security they'll get, they must find it baffling.

^ you think too mutt

^^ have you eaten yet ?