Thread: Thai women and voodoo.....

Originally Posted by armstrong

Fuck him. Focus on your family.

I concur.

Have nothing.more to do with them.

Your priorities are your family!

Fvck him talking about money instead of your wife.

What a cvnt!!

He is saying that I should pay him half of what he paid for his portion of the 3 airfares for his kids. He was the one that booked the 7 seats after convincing my wife that we wouldn't get there in december unless he booked the Scoot tickets straight away. Against my better judgement I went for it. They both knew we were gagging to go after 2.5 years of covid. They wanted to go to new Zealand for a wedding while sending the kids to lao to see there relatives, so yes while fully knowing my wifes in hospital he thinks he's the victim.

Originally Posted by BLD

He is saying that I should pay him half of what he paid for his portion of the 3 airfares for his kids.

That's what I thought.

What a complete cvnt. Tell him to jog on.

He seems to have decided to make alternative arrangements.HIM....I can take one small burden of your shoulders,I'm buying tickets for the kids accompanied by Na on the 16th so your tickets are intact,you'll have to tell them at the airport at check in the others got lost.

If its easy for you for the hotel in the return Singapore stopover as you know it's all about money for me so every little bit helps.

BLD...


Oh so you've just realised that for example if she has an episode in Lao or in Singapore or even on the plane I would have your kids in tow making an already complicated situation worse.Im surprised that you really don't get it and you and na couldn't give a fuck. Not once have you mentioned her health or visited even though your both retired and live 5 minutes from the hospital, your wife did post a couple of get well soon emoji on her Facebook.

Cut them loose, BLD. It isn’t worth you getting upset. You have enough problems without sorting theirs.

Yet the kuntishness continues

Him
I had a nice talk with Scoot today, the following is for your information please don't read anything sinister into it.I am the only one who can make changes to our bookings and it seems that you would have no trouble getting a full refund for her if she chooses not to flythen it would be possible to apply for a refund for the other ticket. This must be done by the 1st week of December.

BLD.. as I've explained I'm not planning on changing anything until I'm sure she's OK to fly. If not then so be it.her health comes first. I'm not even Thinking about Scoot, but I see you are.you said you made an alternative arrangement to fly them on the 16th with Na accompanying them.and that my tickets are intact. So what is it your trying to say?

HIM... The message is simply that you can get some money back should it pan out this way. Please don't forget that my 3 kids will probably not be going on there holiday simply to take the pressure of you. You get everything. We loose everything. And with regard to me visiting her that won't be happening. She is not my close friend and never has been. But I wish her well.

It's a terrible story this one and my heart goes out to you.

I do wonder if it's the best idea to be posting all these updates about your wife and your mate on this thread though.

The Internet can be a very cruel place.

Probably best to just block the koont and forget him, so can focus on your own family at the moment. Can always unblock him once everything's better and start calling him right nasty names.

BLD...previously you said they were going on the 16th now notvthe 20th with us. And do you really think your taking the pressure of me? So what happened there. I'm still gobsmacked that you and your wife can be so cold and heartless, she looked up to na and respected her.But you think your family are the victims here? Wow.as I've said it's all about the money for you eh.Dont worry I'll reimburse your money.

HIM..I couldn't find a cheap fare for 4 people so the only chance my kids have to go is on the existing ticket. If that eventuates you will have no responsibility for them whatsoever. It was always meant to be that way and you probably won't even see them.

Weird how one minute they cant go unaccompanied but now I probably won't even see them

BLD. yes, those cheap fares are good aren't they.you still think it's all about you. And your kids missing out on a holiday. My kids got to witness there mum having a nervous breakdown.probably a lifelong memory, potentially a life changing thing. Yet here you are again banging on about cheap tickets.

BLD.. ok I'll make it simple for you. You have 2 choices 1 is to book alternative tickets if.you want them to definately go. How you do thatbor the price of thats nothing to do with me . The other option . Present at the airport with them on the day and we will check them in

Originally Posted by BLD

HIM...And with regard to me visiting her that won't be happening. She is not my close friend and never has been. But I wish her well.

Mate. Ignore the kunt, don’t even reply to him anymore. What a twat.

Exactly willy. As far as I was concerned I had pointed out his options and explained the situation but it seems he could care less. I've given no thought to scoot airlines or otherwise but he sure has. I've always thought this guy was a bit odd but my wife was friends with his wife and even looked up to her and gave her respect. She was constantly around there house party's etc. Now there kids can't fly because we threw a spanner in the works they reckon there aggrieved. She's better of not having friends like this I reckon. They took advantage of her sweet nature. Ordinarily I would like nothing more than to bixvthis guys ears but he's in his 70s and I'm a better person than that.

Originally Posted by hallelujah

It's a terrible story this one and my heart goes out to you.

I do wonder if it's the best idea to be posting all these updates about your wife and your mate on this thread though.

The Internet can be a very cruel place.

Hes not a mate though. He's an arsehole Married to a Lao lady that my wife looked up to in her naivety and she's now finding out who arevher real friends. . There are arseholes and there are complete arseholes these 2 simply can't get it into there head my wifes not in great shape mentaly she's been in a week now and no improvement. But how dare we fuck up there kids holidays . Yes the internet can be a very cruel place I hope he reads this or one day goes back and reads his texts to me to realise what an utter one sided argument he puts up. It's all about him not loosing any money evenbthough as far as I know he's not short

Yes maybe not a good idea as a few others have pointed out. But it helps ME to vent get it of my chest. Saw her today and the only thing that had changed was she was in a different room with 3 others. Lost the single room . I asked her auntie to call her before I got there to see if she sounded normal or was talking nonsense. Sadly the auntie reported back , just talking nonsense. Aliens. My mum visiting and protecting her. She can see the future. indians controlling the TV from there mind etc.and when I turned up I got more of the same. She's been medicated once and thought she was going to die now she refuses all medication. I don't see how she can improve without some sort of mefication

Sorry to hear about your situation, BLD. It can't be easy for you and the children.
Mental illness is no joke. All you can do is be there for her and the children. Meds normally help the situation. If she refuses the meds, I am not sure she will get better.

Hope for the best for you all. xx

I don’t understand why she can’t be coerced into taking medication or even forced to take it. After all, she is involuntarily there. Seems like they wouldn’t just leave it up to her to decide wherever or not to take medication when she is in an abnormal mental state.

Originally Posted by misskit

Seems like they wouldn’t just leave it up to her to decide wherever or not to take medication

I would think so too.

But given she is in there, what ever she says about taking medication or not has to be taken with a grain of salt...

I asked her again if they had given her some and still saying no. There was a vast improvement in her today at lunchtime but was still making reference to odd occurances . Likewise tonight when me and the kids video called she seemed super happy and coherent. Her docs back tomorrow so I'll get a bit more info . Hopefully she hasn't been trying to clean the communal area again or throwing the other patients snacks out of the fridge claiming the barcodes 20 years out

Few if any on this forum are qualified to give advice. I’m sure BLD has the smarts to realise this and I can only hope that his commentary on here, has provided some sort catharsis for him.

Wishing you all well mate.

^^Great to hear there has been an improvement.

Originally Posted by Switch

Few if any on this forum are qualified to give advice. I’m sure BLD has the smarts to realise this and I can only hope that his commentary on here, has provided some sort catharsis for him.

Wishing you all well mate.

Wise words.