Thread: Thai women and voodoo.....

Horrible situation mate.

All the best.

Originally Posted by BLD

Sunday take her home for a trial to see how she goes.

Fingers crossed for you all.

Amen to that.

Originally Posted by BLD

Doc said tomorrow I can take her out of the ward for a coffee in the cafeteria and maybe Sunday take her home for a trial to see how she goes. But bring her straight back if anything not looking right.

he says that the same day as he says she tried to clean the hospital room? I know it’s hard but that’s sounds a bit quick to be talking about taking her home mate.

Yes the story seems to change daily depending on who I talk to. Arrived today and did as suggested And took her out of the ward for a coffee in the canteen, she was talking nonsense again and reckoned she can see into the future and some thing about her being the angel nong fa whatever that is . Back in the ward. She was adamant that I insist she goes home for the weekend , the doctor wasn't there but the nurse said it's definately not going to happen she was quite agitated and doesn't seem to realise she's not there voluntarily. I called a friend and asked her to call and see if she talks the same nonsense to her. She said later that she seemed reasonable and normal. Other friends have said the same and others report she is saying all kinds of bizarre shit. Told one friend. I'm not crazy, I'm just fooling these doctors and then launching into a big spiel about how she's protected but that fucker bld should be careful on the highway as Aliens are after him because he hasn't changed, unlike her who seems to be going by a new name now. Ive just called. She didn't want to video with me or the kids but has accepted she is there for the weekend she seemed calm. Also mentioned she had a nattervwith her mum. It's bloody confusing

I've been flat out fixing the mess she caused all week and am still at it. Got 2 out of 3 rooms laid with wood laminate the last one next week and all that shit in the yard I just loaded it on the ute and took it to the tip after making sure no documents or anything valuable in there. The nurse told me she had been cleaning the patients common room and threw out patients food . When I asked about this she said she knew by the barcode the food was 20 years to old. Tomorrow if she seems OK I will take her out of the hospital for something to eat but I'm worried she might try to run of. I wouldn't be able to catch her. It's like something out of one flew over the cuckoos nest. I keep looking around thinking any minute now I'm gonna see Jack Nicholson and a crazy indian

I also tried to explain to her that I am really trying hard to fix the house and don't want to take her home to see what she's done and spark of another cleaning frenzy

I hate to say it mate but its gonna take time for her medication to kick in, if shes taking it.

Sounds like she's a danger to you and your kids in this state.

Originally Posted by BLD

I also tried to explain to her that I am really trying hard to fix the house and don't want to take her home to see what she's done and spark of another cleaning frenzy

BLD have you got a mate to help out/lean on? has she got a sister / brother you can fly in to speak with her?

It's nearly impossible to get a tourist visa , my mate who's wife died recently had been trying to get a visa for her daughter in the philippines to get here before she passed

^ nightmare, well hang in there. Nothing you can really do except be there for her and the winks, try to stay sane and hope she pulls through.

Her sisters dead and the 2 brothers are morons. I'd like to fly in her mum or aunty but covids caused a massive backlog in the system even my kids , applied for new passports in June and just received one of them a few days ago

Mates have been helping and there's plenty of support there for her from the girls. She's quite popular and has a bubbly personality so there gobsmacked at what's happened, except for 1 pair of assholes that we thought were friends

I called this particular prick when it became apparent that something was wrong and asked him to put his wifevon the phone this prick told me that it's just a lao cultural thing and just leave her alone the wife talked to her and said she seemed fine. Just wanted to paint the house. Next I called her mum right about the time the hose went in the house. By the way we kind of got talked into accompanying these 2 coonts 3 kids in december when we are supposed to fly to lao with Scoot. As scoot don't accept under 15. A big ask, later on when things were really heating up at my place i called again and told her if you can see what I'm seeing you wouldn't say oh it's just cleaning

^ its a cliché but true, these times you find out your real friends.

The husband said were at lunch but can be there in a few hours. Nice friends eh. Since she was admitted they have neither inquired or visited her. I told him December's not that far away and if my wifes health hasn't improved I guess I'm not going so you should look for an alternative for your kids. He seemed to think that I was over thinking it and that him and his wife loved her little idiosyncrasies. I pointed out that her behaviour was hardly an idiosyncrasie.thennhe wanted to talk money. I mentioned he had not once asked about my wife and told him they were both heartless and cold coonts. And he could go fuck himself

A few hours later he told me that he had booked an earlier flight with his wife to accompany them. Why didn't the prick do this in the first place.

BLD, you have enough going on, these people are just an added distraction and not worth your time - park them, they aren't important. How are the kids holding up.

The kids are actually ok and helping out heaps but no doubt it will be a lasting memory in there young minds

Originally Posted by BLD

The kids are actually ok and helping out heaps but no doubt it will be a lasting memory in there young minds

good on them,must make you proud, young men. Not having gone through this with a Buddhist, have you and the ladies looked at getting her access to monks/lady monks as a way of reaching her?

edit

some serious downstream family talk tho, was with us, for at least a year

This guys not only a prize shit he's stunningly stupid to. Here's a few of his txt
BLD. She's still on hospital doctors don't know what's going on. I strongly suggest you consider an alternative arrangement for your kids, we may not be able to go. I am also not comfortable with being responsible for them with a sick wife if we travel.

HIM.. Yeah I was expecting this but unfortunately if you don't go we don't go.not much you can do about it.
One possibility entirely up to you is we can look after her and you and the boys go up there.NOTE. entirely up to you though.

BLD...ok. if there are no alternatives on the date were supposed to fly we will accompany them.

HIM..how about this. I agree our kids would be a burden for you and I don't want that.the arrangement we made was in good faith on both sides in circumstances like this which is essentially beyond our control, I would think that you could payment half, if and only if you think it's fair.
BLD....sure. cant have you loosing money

Him..cant have you loosing tickets

BLD..for me it's not about the money I'm worried sick that a vibrant and beautiful young women and mother might of lost her mind. You haven't even enquired about her or visited her. It's quite pathetic that you chose lunch rather than actually coming to see what was going on, perhaps a lot of this could of been averted.

HIM.. BLD, we have always tried to be good friends, we are not sure how we can help you but we are obviously not up to your standards, we both feel like we are your punching bags.


Hows that for a prize coont. Still couldn't give a fuck about her

Fuck him. Focus on your family.

Originally Posted by BLD

HIM.. BLD, we have always tried to be good friends, we are not sure how we can help you but we are obviously not up to your standards, we both feel like we are your punching bags.

just drop them, they are not important - seem its just getting you annoyed and you don't need it. just cancel the lot and fook them off, only money.