Originally Posted by
Loy Toy
A very difficult situation that may need a life changing move to remedy.
My suggestion would be, and when she is stable, is to tell her you have decided to move the family back to Laos ASAP and see what her reaction is.
If her response is positive you know she could be play acting, and as a bizarre ploy, to go back home.
I have no idea about whether you are in a position to arrange this move but it seems other more conventional attempts to solve your problem is failing.
I really feel sorry for you and the boys but something has to be done.