That just reminded me of our village idiot, Was at a wedding a few miles away a few years ago, and lotto was there (i call him lotto to myself) (because the locals ask him for the numbers) He lives in a sala out back of next doors house, He smells, doesnt wash, he's tall for a thai, he has a goatee, he plays with sticks, (scrapes them back and forth on the ground) he looks about 50 - 60 yrs but i never asked, he smiles sometimes, sometimes he say's "farang" and laughs. Anyway he was there, he usually is at all the local festivities, (just turns up, all by himself) after a few hours 4-5, i decided to go home (my thai wife was o/s at the time) and was noticing "lotto" taking drinks off the tables while they where dancing, we got him to the car and he wanted to sit inside, i just told him straight up "mai khun menn" he got in the tray and came home no probs, his fam said thanks and that was that.