Hear, hear! Great post. You put words to my thoughts, 'bro.
My hitting slumped back in little league when I got beaned. From that point on, I was a weakling at the plate. I could field and throw a little bit so continued playing through high school but was never a competitor because I didn't realize that competition can be an internal struggle (beat that fear demon first). That's part of the individual aspect of the sport.
And A Rod is A Fraud.