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    Quote Originally Posted by Looper View Post
    Humans are evolved as a pair bonding species for reproductive purposes (some sexually reproducing species are not pair-bonding). Marriage is the cultural ceremony recognising this evolved behaviour.
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    I am just stating that marriage has evolved as a heterosexual cultural institution between a man and a woman for reproductive/family reasons.
    As marriage is a "cultural institution", it can be whatever society wants it to be. If society changes, and society does change, and says marriage can be between two people of the same sex (as it has in some countries), then your claim that ....

    Quote Originally Posted by Looper View Post
    It can only be between a man and a woman.
    is clearly wrong and out-dated in those countries - from a societal point of view. Of course, that does not mean that everyone will agree, but that is the modern reality of the "cultural institution" of marriage in some countries.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Neverna
    As marriage is a "cultural institution", it can be whatever society wants it to be. If society changes, and society does change, and says marriage can be between two people of the same sex (as it has in some countries), then your claim that ....
    That has been explained to him a thousand times. He doesn't like that it knocks the legs out of his position, so he ignores it.
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    Originally Posted by MrG If "these types of laws" just elucidate cultural beliefs, then homosexual marriage has just been elucidated as a cultural belief. No it hasn't. Homosexual partnerships have recently been recognised as worthy of limited toleration on compassionate grounds.
    Still in denial.
    Limited toleration is what I'm giving you right now, please don't mistake it for respect for your arguments.
    Quote Originally Posted by Looper
    Marriage has not been recognised as redefined to include bum-ticklers.
    Tell it to the Irish.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MrG View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Neverna
    As marriage is a "cultural institution", it can be whatever society wants it to be. If society changes, and society does change, and says marriage can be between two people of the same sex (as it has in some countries), then your claim that ....
    That has been explained to him a thousand times. He doesn't like that it knocks the legs out of his position, so he ignores it.
    Quote Originally Posted by Looper
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    Originally Posted by MrG If "these types of laws" just elucidate cultural beliefs, then homosexual marriage has just been elucidated as a cultural belief. No it hasn't. Homosexual partnerships have recently been recognised as worthy of limited toleration on compassionate grounds.
    Still in denial.
    Limited toleration is what I'm giving you right now, please don't mistake it for respect for your arguments.
    Quote Originally Posted by Looper
    Marriage has not been recognised as redefined to include bum-ticklers.
    Tell it to the Irish.
    I don't think it could be any clearer:

    “Marriage may be contracted in accordance with law by two persons without distinction as to their sex".

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    Quote Originally Posted by harrybarracuda
    “Marriage may be contracted in accordance with law by two persons without distinction as to their sex".
    It's a fine tradition.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Neverna
    As marriage is a "cultural institution", it can be whatever society wants it to be. If society changes, and society does change, and says marriage can be between two people of the same sex
    No. because that does not take into account the factor of 'tradition'.

    Just because we now tolerate homosexual relationships up to a point that does not change the traditional definition of marriage.

    Marriage has a traditional and correct definition. That being between a man and a woman.

    Now we also tolerate homosexual couplings.

    So, yes, societies attitudes have shifted.

    Before we had Marriage and lynchings of homosexual couples.

    Now we have marriage and accepted homosexual partnerships but the latter are not marriages.

    Quote Originally Posted by MrG
    It's a fine tradition.
    Homosexual partnerships are not a tradition at all since they have only been partially tolerated in very recent history.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Looper View Post
    Homosexual partnerships are not a tradition at all since they have only been partially tolerated in very recent history.
    Yes, but like all good traditions, they've got to start somewhere.

    And they have.


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    ^So they can start a new tradition of homosexual partnership and good luck to them.

    They don't need to, and are not entitled to, co-opt and then distort the existing and very long-standing heterosexual tradition of marriage.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Looper
    Marriage is a cultural institution of thousands of years standing. Recently we also have a legal structure called a marriage which is used to regulate the cultural institution.
    As far back as written history goes marriage has been a legal contract, that's its purpose. You are confusing marriage with pairing, they are not the same thing at all. As before your entire argument fails because your fundamental definitions are false, the classic sign of somebody who doesn't know how debate works.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DrB0b View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Looper
    Marriage is a cultural institution of thousands of years standing. Recently we also have a legal structure called a marriage which is used to regulate the cultural institution.
    As far back as written history goes marriage has been a legal contract, that's its purpose. You are confusing marriage with pairing, they are not the same thing at all. As before your entire argument fails because your fundamental definitions are false, the classic sign of somebody who doesn't know how debate works.
    Well let's face it the clueless cnut doesn't really know what he's talking about, he's making it up as he goes along and failing dismally.


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    Quote Originally Posted by DrB0b
    As far back as written history goes marriage has been a legal contract, that's its purpose.
    B0b you really do talk an amazing amount of bollix for such a 'clever' fella!

    The common law system has only existed for a matter of centuries. Primitive legal systems existed before that, but marriage has existed since pagan times before organised religion, organised law, organised anything. It is programmed into human nature by evolution.

    So marriage as cultural institution came a long long way before marriage as a legal structure.


    Quote Originally Posted by DrB0b
    You are confusing marriage with pairing, they are not the same thing at all.
    Marriage is just the recognition, through cultural ceremony, of the evolved pairing behaviour of homo-sapiens. Marriage would have been one of the first features of culture to form when culture itself emerged at the dawn of human civilisation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Looper
    The common law system has only existed for a matter of centuries. Primitive legal systems existed before that
    I see that as well as knowing nothing about history you don't even know what Common Law means. Harry is right, Looper, you genuinely have no idea what you're talking about. That a man your age should have such a shaky grasp of such basic knowledge is shameful. Still, it's your loss and nobody elses.

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    ^B0b trying sidetrack the argument and get away from the inescapable fact that marriage was a cultural institution long before it was regulated by a modern legal system!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Looper
    Marriage would have been one of the first features of culture to form when culture itself emerged at the dawn of human civilisation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Looper View Post
    ^B0b trying sidetrack the argument and get away from the inescapable fact that marriage was a cultural institution long before it was regulated by a modern legal system!

    Tell us again about Common Law, Lopper, you know, about how there was no such thing as law before the English created Common Law (you DO know what Common Law means, right?)

    What the hell are you talking about, modern legal system? You mention the dawn of human civilization, which would be ancient Mesopotamia and Ancient Egypt. We can, conveniently, read their writings, and, conveniently, some of the earliest records we have from the "dawn of human civilization" are legal contracts regarding marriage and there are lots of them

    Here's one from 2200 BC

    RIMUM, son of Shamkhatum, has taken as a wife and spouse Bashtum, the daughter of Belizunu, the priestess (?) of Shamash, daughter of Uzibitum. Her bridal present shall be _____ shekels of money. When she receives it she shall be free. If Bashtum to Rimum, her husband shall say, "You are not my husband," they shall strangle her and cast her into the river. If Rimum to Bashtum, his wife, shall say, "You are not my wife," he shall pay ten shekels of money as her alimony. They swore by Shamash, Marduk, their king Shamshu-ilu-na, and Sippar.


    And of course, the famous Code of Hammurabi

    128: If a man has taken a wife and has not executed a marriage contract, that woman is not a wife.

    Not forgetting Ancient Egypt,

    A Twenty-Seventh Dynasty Marriage Contract from Saqqara


    Year 11, 4th month of the peret-season of the pharaoh Darius.
    The woman Smith[is], daughter of Pediese, her mother being Ashsedjemes, is speaking to the wab-priest of Bastet Tjaisopedenimu, son of Horur///, his mother being Naenesbastet:
    You have made me (your) wife. You have given me 1 silver deben in pieces of sterling silver as my bride money. If I leave you I shall give you 5 silver deben in pieces of sterling. But if you should dismiss me as (your) wife, you shall give me 1 silver deben in pieces of sterling apart from the silver deben in pieces of sterling which you have already given me, together 2 silver deben in pieces of sterling, while the woman Ashsedjemes, daughter of Ankhpsamtek, [her mother being] Teteyris, [her] mother being present, saying: "Write (and) do everything as it is (written) above."

    My heart is content with it.
    Written by Tjaihepe[nimu, son of ///]rh (?).

    There is no shortage of legal marriage contracts from the dawn of civilization, they're among the more common documents it's a little surprising (Beware, Irony!) that you didn't know that.

    Summing up, clearly marriage has been a legal, contractual scenario from the dawn of civilization and you, my dear little fellow, are, as usual, talking nonsense.
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    And every one of them was probably about division of property, which is all it's really about anyway.

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    ^^So primitive legal systems existed in some ancient civilisations and 'surprise surprise' they had marriage contracts.

    That still does not undermine my assertion that the legal contract is only there to support the human cultural phenomenon i.e. marriage, and that it has historically been between a man and a woman.

    The same as legal injunctions against murder are only there to support the inherent moral belief that murder is wrong.

    You can be sure marriages (ceremonially witnessed pair-bonding of a man and a woman to start a family) existed before these civilisations got started and began generating recorded history for you to refer to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Looper
    So primitive legal systems existed in some ancient civilisations and 'surprise surprise' they had marriage contracts
    Primitive? Babylon, Egypt, Greece, Rome? Primitive? Where do you think OUR legal systems come from?

    Quote Originally Posted by Looper
    That still does not undermine my assertion that the legal contract is only there to support the human cultural phenomenon
    Hah, nice bit of wriggling there. That was exactly the OPPOSITE of your assertion, which was

    Quote Originally Posted by Looper
    ^B0b trying sidetrack the argument and get away from the inescapable fact that marriage was a cultural institution long before it was regulated by a modern legal system!


    You're boring me now, you silly little man. Go debate with somebody on your own level, goldfish are cheap and readily available.

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    B0b I believe you may truly be stupid after all and that it is not some cunning subterfuge to put people off their guard.

    My 2 quoted assertions are in no way contradictory.

    The cultural institution came first. Later came a legal system with laws to support/regulate the operation of the cultural institution.

    That is what both those statements say.

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    I don't know what thread to put this in. I thought this was an interesting way of using Homosexual Panic for national defense.
    A Swedish organization found a hilarious way to ward off Russian submarines
    A Swedish peace group says it has lowered a sonar device into the Baltic Sea off Stockholm to deter Russian submarines, emitting the message “This Way if You Are Gay”.

    The Swedish Peace and Arbitration Society’s (SPAS) cheeky device emits the message in Morse code and is designed to scare off subs from Russia, which does not share Sweden’s acceptance of homosexuality.

    The so-called Singing Sailor also features a flashing pink neon outline of a seaman clad only in white underpants and a boater’s hat, gyrating his hips above the text “Welcome to Sweden — Gay Since 1944.”

    That was the year when Sweden decriminalised homosexuality. In contrast, rights groups have recently sounded the alarm over a rising number of homophobic attacks in Russia, saying that a ban on “gay propaganda” effectively legalises discrimination.

    SPAS said on its website that its device was made to provide “interesting info for any submarines passing close by”.

    In October last year, Sweden’s navy launched a massive hunt for a foreign submarine, suspected to be Russian, in the Stockholm archipelago.

    The military subsequently confirmed that “a mini submarine” had violated its territorial waters, but was never able to establish the vessel’s nationality.

    Following the incident, as well as several airspace violations by Russian jets over the last year, the Swedish government announced in April that it would raise defence spending by 10.2 billion kronor (1.1 billion euros, $1.2 billion) for the period 2016 to 2020, largely due to concerns over Russia’s military resurgence.

    SPAS said its campaign was aimed at urging the Swedish government “to think in new ways instead of falling back on territorial defence, conscription and rearmament -– the world doesn’t need more weapons”.

    “Military rearmament in itself is a major contributing cause of conflict,” it added.

    This story was originally published by journal.ie.
    A Swedish organization found a hilarious way to ward off Russian submarines - Business Insider

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    Vladimir Vladimirovich is on the money.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Looper
    What is your point?
    Quote Originally Posted by Looper
    it does follow that a partnership between 2 people other than a man and a woman is not a marriage.
    Point proven wrong.

    http://www.nytimes.com/2015/05/24/wo...eferendum.html

    Rainbow love.

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    Hey Jofrey,

    as I am somewhat time-constrained could you extract the relevant point from the article and the state it here?

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    Bill Shorten introduces same sex marriage bill – politics live

    The Labor leader ignores calls for delay and brings forward a private member’s bill to legalise same sex marriage.


    Opposition leader Bill Shorten in the caucus room with supporters of marriage equality at Parliament House this morning, Monday 1 June 2015.

    Bill Shorten says today is about securing a free vote on this issue.

    I believe if there is a free vote in the parliament of Australia, then marriage equality will pass.

    Tony Abbott is asked whether he accepts that a majority of Australians now support gay marriage?

    Abbott:

    Let’s see where the community debate goes.

    (Um, breaking: it’s gone. 70%+ support according to the Liberal party pollster.)

    Public attitudes to marriage equality in Australia have completely transformed in the past decade. From only 38% in 2004, support for same-sex marriage now stands at 70-plus per cent in Australia, according to public opinion polls.
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    ^I think they should have a vote for lesbianism and only women are allowed to vote and then a vote for male homosexuality and only men are allowed to vote.

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    Quote Originally Posted by baldrick View Post
    marriage - what twaddle - this is the year 2015

    this gay marriage has just created more avenues for lawyers
    your quite wrong. its a clever trick by the catholic church who have worked out that the CE were right when they said homosexuality is on as long as your celibate.

    And as someone pointed out on bbd radio 4.... "if thats the case, why don't you let them marry... thin in 12 months they will be as celibate as the rest of us."
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