I have just whacked the fok out of my son, well, not that bad as he aint down and bleeding, second time in 15 years, do kids need a good beating every now and again?
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I have just whacked the fok out of my son, well, not that bad as he aint down and bleeding, second time in 15 years, do kids need a good beating every now and again?
Yes, they do. But chances are good he'll become a beater himself. One must have a heart to heart after a beating to re-assure him it was wrong to do it, IMO.
was there any reason DD did he do wrong?
Never did me any harm, my Thai mum had a stick specifically for the purpose, my dad just used his hands.
I got some good beatings, nearly always deserved them and as Pat says doesn't seem to have done me any harm.
What did he do? How old is he?Quote:
Originally Posted by dirtydog
parental corporal punishment is both valid and lifesaving :)
Left some nasty looking lumps on yer chest.:)Quote:
Originally Posted by jizzybloke
Nothing wrong with a smack, and I don't think kids are 'brutalised' by it or turn into monsters; more likely to develop into spoiled brats if they're not nudged into line occasionally.
But much like a dog, if the kid doesn't understand what set you off it's wasted, so once the blood is hosed off the good dad should make a show.
Cant say as I beat my kids. Plenty of wrestling style headlocks and slams, the eldest is only 6 though and loves it. My dad only hit me once, crashed my 18th birthday present into a bus stop, telegraph pole and junction box, might have deserved that one.
Looks like abused kids end up preferring big boobs, eh?;)Quote:
Originally Posted by jizzybloke
I have slapped the hooligan a few times but he just looks at me and laughs with a look of "is that the bet you've got" and i have to walk away so he can't see me laughing too!
Nothing wrong with it.
But do resist the urge to give them a kicking when you've knocked them down. It's not a bar fight. :)
With today's laws in the US, my dad would problem due some serious time for the beatings he gave me! Helped to make me the man I am today! :)
Billy breaks a window in his neighbor's car and his Dad gives him a whipping with his belt.
1957 - Billy is more careful next time, grows up normal, goes to college, and becomes a successful businessman.
2008 - Billy's dad is arrested for child abuse. Billy removed to foster care and joins a gang. State psychologist tells Billy's sister that she remembers being abused herself and their dad goes to prison. Billy's mom has affair with psychologist.
My old man used to whack us with bamboo. When I was about 10 he made me help him plant some bamboo and told me it was to hit me when I fucked up. Didn't do much damage to me, we laugh about it these days. I never hit Wayne Jnr as his mother and aunt are much better than me at the corporal punishment stuff.
I did go over the top, he is as big as me and i whacked the fok out of him which was totally unfair on him, fok I feel real guilty now :( a few weeks ago he was skiving from college and hitting the internet cafes for a couple of days, then today he said he couldn't rewire a plug, it annoyed me too much, he is doing electronics at college.
I feel like a real piece of shite, you don't punch kids.....
can the family room be seen by guests or is it like members?
Cross that bridge when I come to it, not an issue yet. Would like to think not but bit hard to say conclusively right now.
But what I don't get is how adults who were brought up with corporal punishment at home and at school suddenly decided that it was detrimental to them. Did they just wake up one morning and decide it had screwed them up or something?
especially for failure to re wire a plug, hope he can change a lightbulb or he could be well and truly fukkled.Quote:
Originally Posted by dirtydog
I deal with stoopid Thais everyday, I don't expect my son to be one.
I have cuts on all my knuckles anyway so i wouldn't know if I whacked him hard enough to learn a lesson :(
You used the old telephone book trick did you DD!Quote:
Originally Posted by dirtydog
A really good wack every now and then does any kid the world of good IMO!
Then again all I have to do with my youngest girl is raise my voice and she is heart broken.
Teachers have been denied this form of discipline and look what has happened. :(
"As the twig is bent, so grows the tree"Quote:
Originally Posted by dirtydog
A good smack when deserved is a reality check for 'em...:)
how very republican.Quote:
Originally Posted by Boon Mee
I think I have broken my ankle as well, foking shite day.
Actually, I'm 'Independent'..:rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by ChiangMai noon
Did the same when my oldest was 18. An OTT reaction to a minor issue. Think these conflicts between a father and teenage son often happen. From all the posts I've read you are proud of your son and he seems a right fine lad.Quote:
Originally Posted by dirtydog
Good you feel like a piece of shit so will be easy to mend. Simply tell him you over reacted and are very sorry. Let it rest a few days and explain to him he is being given the chance to go to school and needs to take learning serious.
Then show him how to wire a plug!
I always deserved my beatings and took them like a man.
Which is what it turned me into, not some knife-weilding yob who can't throw two simple punches.
yep pretty sure it is broken, don't normally fall down when I stand up, got to admit the falling down was a suprise to me, it don't feel broken though, hurts a lot, but5 not that much.
^^ But DJ Pat, don't you punch someone at least once a year?
Falling down from a standing position much more painful than your normal barstool altitude. Must have been quite a surprise.;)Quote:
Originally Posted by dirtydog
a cuddle never hurt either, but can't be wrong to set him straightQuote:
Originally Posted by dirtydog
I stood up and fell down :( ok it aint broken, never had that happen before though, seems to be usable now.
At the end of the day its not like you were picking on a little kid like some of the tossers out there do..
Seems to me it was out of frustration...
Your only human, these things happen
more likely muscular, if it was broken you'd know about it...good rest and a dose of tiger balm should have you up and kicking in no time
I believe that's what caused it in the first place :)Quote:
Originally Posted by keda
A kid... who's in college...
That ain't a kid.
As long as he knows that it was for fuking up his education by hanging out in internet cafes, and has learned that doing so from now on will fuk up the rest of his education it was the right thing to do...
if he stops hanging out there because his dad is gonna fuk him up it won't do much, he needs to understand and learn how important his education is, and you need to motivate him to want to be learning about electronics rather than playing some virtual world game in the net cafe.
That'd be good parenting.
Don't take too much advice from me, I'm not that much older than him. And if my Dad came at me, I'd laugh... then floor him.
You are sick, in your own words "wacked the fok out of my son". Hope he sees what you are and leaves. There is no reason to do that to anyone - let alone your own son.
You do need some help, get it soon son.
Oh no left myself open to a red from the sad btards on this forum. Go on, come round and give me a red - the best an uneducated man can do, is strike out.