Addicted to Internet porn?
I was looking for internet porn blockers yesterday to stop my child viewing porn on his pc, it seems from the adverts in google though that these porn blockers are aimed at adult men.
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Did you know that most men on the net are accessing porn? I knew that I needed get away from this tremendously harmful material. That's why I started WiseChoice. For my personal struggle with internet pornography-click here
Many of our clients are wives who are horrified to learn of their husband's porn use. They are disgusted that their husbands are cheating on them through their viewing of porn - Block It !
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Let me tell you how I got involved with this subject. I have been married for thirty one years, have my own business, and my kids are grown. I have been a Christian for eighteen years, been a missionary, home school parent-the whole nine yards.I would have thought that I was porn proof!
I got onto the Internet about five years ago the same as most of us. I needed the net for my business and plus it was simply fascinating. Along the way I was being bombarded with emails and advertisements for Internet sex. We have all seen them-hot teens! Girls girls girls!. I finally got curious and clicked on one of the links and I was blown away by the raw sexual material provided absolutely free. Well I can tell you that I got off that site as quickly as I could! What if anybody saw that stuff on my computer not to mention what my wife would think!
The next day I was back on the net and I was drawn to have another look, so I did . Again I was shocked and angry. The next day I was back again and again and again. You get the picture....I suddenly was confronted with my own self. What would happen to my reputation-my Christian influence? What would happen to my marriage, what would this say to my kids-my prayer life? The answer was obvious. So what could I do- get off the Internet? Amazingly the same day that the Lord was speaking to me on the subject, my web master for my business site walked in and asked if I had ever heard of internet filtering?(he didn't even know what I was struggling with). He explained that filtering could keep one out of porn sites. Unfortunately at the time there were no filtered providers accessible from my city. Since I couldn't get it, I decided to provide it. The result was Wisechoice.net which is proof that "what the enemy meant for evil, God will turn to the good for those that love Him."
Does this mean that I am now "cured" of the desire to access porn? Absolutely not-however having a filter on my computer has removed the constant onslaught of porn sites and removed the easy temptation just to click and......
Please don't ignore or minimize the danger of internet porn.
The more I got into the subject of Internet porn the more I discovered the impact to be. I found out that nine out of ten kids between 8 and 16 years old have been into Internet pornography-that’s 90%!
One of our customers told me that she discovered that her husband was into Internet porn when he wouldn’t visit her while she was in labor in the hospital with her fourth child- it turned out that he was back at the home gorging on Internet pornography-their marriage was shattered.
Another customer told me that he spent 1000 hours on Internet porn last year. That works out to forty 24 hour days- over a month of Internet porn out of a year. It cost him his marriage, his job and his position in the community.
A local pastor and friend of mine, a good man and powerful leader in the Christian community-had his ministry destroyed after it was discovered that he had been accessing internet pornography.
People don't plan to get involved with internet pornography, suddenly it is front of you and you are involved-that fast. The only way to stay out of harm's way is to either stay off the internet or to install filtering. I think Wisechoice is the best available and I urge you to try our no risk trial.
What will Internet Porn cost you?
Ned Dominick, Founder and President
Wisechoice Internet Services, Inc.
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How To Fight Pornography
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- The Male and Female Brains -- How Men and Women Are Wired Differently
Author's Thoughts About the "Victims" of Pornography
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- What If Your Spouse Suffers From a Pornography Problem?
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If You Are Struggling With Pornography
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- Chapter One
- Chapter Two
- Chapter Three
- Chapter Six
Important Note — Stop! and complete every exercise in each of the four chapters.
If You Are the Spouse of Someone Struggling With Pornography
If you are the spouse of someone struggling with pornography, please refer to the following book sections in this order:
- Chapter Seven (Stop! and complete every exercise in this chapter.)
- Chapter One
- Chapter Two
- Chapter Three
If You Are the Parent of a Teenager Struggling with Pornography
If you are the parent of a teenager struggling with pornography, please refer to the following book sections in this order:
- Read What To Do If Your Child or Teenager Has Been Exposed to Pornography on page 183 through page 186.
- Chapter One
- Chapter Two
- Chapter Three
- If your child or teen has a pornography addiction problem, read Chapter Six, then go to Chapter Five.
- If the problem is minor, read Chapter Five. (Stop! and complete every exercise in this chapter.)
If You Are a Spouse or Parent Trying to Protect Your Family From Pornography
If You Are a Spouse or Parent Trying to Protect Your Family From Pornography, please refer to the following book sections in this order:
- Chapter One
- Chapter Two
- Chapter Three
- Chapter Five (Stop! and complete every exercise in this chapter.)
If You Are a Religious Leader or Counselor Helping Someone with a Pornography Problem
If You Are a Religious Leader or Counselor Helping Someone with a Pornography Problem, please refer to the following book sections in this order:
- Chapter Eight
- Chapter One
- Chapter Two
- Chapter Three
- Chapter Six
If You Are a Religious Leader Trying to Protect Your Congregation From Pornography
If You Are a Religious Leader Trying to Protect Your Congregation From Pornography, please refer to the following book sections in this order:
- Chapter One
- Chapter Two
- Chapter Three
- Chapter Five
Addicted to Internet porn?
For children - Cut it off (tv - comp) or at least filter it.
However I go in the opposite direction for adults - forget that porn
nonesense and go for the real thing.
