Originally Posted by
Slick
Assuming the 80k is to "go back & stay with family no work bar anymore" money.
Man these things rarely workout for the good. Very rarely.
And just from what you say this is total typical bargirl behavior.
Cut ties now and don't send shit. Its way easier now than it will be later.
You don't, in any culture, on this planet, have to pay a woman who loves & cares about you, not be a prostitute. Has nothing to do with 'culture' at all. Its money.
And trust me, if she genuinely loved you & cared about you, the money thing wouldn't even be brought up.
Just don't do it. Cut contact. Dont even try and justify in your mind whatever horseshit she may have said or talk yourself into believing anything.
Of course, just like this relationship, this advice is rarely ever followed and works out for the good.