I'm considering starting an Isaan forum

[kingwilly]

You're a very naughty chimp, KW.

yes I am.... now do you wanna come back around behind the shed with me again?

[Thetyim]

what's the address?

www.thaiteakexpatvisadoor.com

[November Rain]

^^Naaah. Once was far more than enough.

[kingwilly]

^ 2 minutes was a bit quick wasnt it?

Quote: Originally Posted by ChiangMai noon what's the address? www.thaiteakexpatvisadoor.com

tried to green ya !

[ChiangMai noon]

I don't think he wants to tell us.

[Bluecat]

I sure won't post the site address here.
I would not want to make DD's life easier by getting you interested in trolling elsewhere...

[Thetyim]

I've just signed up on an Isaan forum that has 23 members.

Is that yours, BC ?

[tcp]

I'm considering starting an Isaan forum

There's room for a Thai forum that is less anal and boring than TV and that has a much lower asshole count than TD. I think you'd have to work awfully hard to maintain a comfortable balance, though.

[Travelmate]

I would not bother. I have no interest in that place. Boring. What will they talk about. Beer, Buffalo, House project and the odd remaining Issarn girl. No thanks.,

[kingwilly]

I've just signed up on an Isaan forum that has 23 members. Is that yours, BC ?

excellent, whats the addy?

and the odd remaining Issarn girl.

she'd be the town bike, no?

[ChiangMai noon]

and that has a much lower asshole count than TD

do you often poke your heads around pub doors and call everyone a twat?

what a cock.

[kingwilly]

what a cock.

funnily enough, that's exactly wot my red to him said as well........

[buriramboy]

Slightly off topic but from reading the first page of this thread and the references to MacB, looks like he's left his wife and Buriram and has now become a Pattaya monger, here is a long and tedious post he made on a Pattaya board a few days ago............

My four year experience in Thailand


It all began in early 2003, I had a failed marriage in the UK. My mate was already over in LOS and being a very good friend and to try and take my mind off the situation at the time,( I would add this was his intention only) I was given the email address of a lass he knew.She worked in a Go Go bar which really didn't mean much to me at the time.

Emailing carried on for six months or so and I felt close to this lass from Thailand, bearing in mind I knew nothing of Thailand and the beauties that inhabited this 'Land of Smiles.I saw a picture of her and Wow I thought life could be good at last. As the months drifted by my first visit was planned for December 2003 to meet this beauty, but it was decided that a surprise visit would be made in October for 10 days:Well I was excited and made arrangements, but could not keep the secret, so this lass was informed of my arrival.

Excitement was not the word as the day arrived and me and my good friend flew to Thailand: We landed at Don Muang Airport and there to greet us was my mates (Now his wife) and the beauty I was seeing for the first time, Wow our first meeting it was like the scene from a Movie she came towards me with her long almost black hair flowing in the breeze absolutely stunning, if I remember correctly I swept her of the ground she was all smiles and immediatley we were hand in hand I was overwhelmed.

We travelled to the Hotel in Pattaya and my 10 day holiday began: A new Country I had not been to and a different culture to understand it was all very exciting.Prior to my visit I had already got my mate to buy her a new mobile phone for which I reimbursed him on his return to UK.The relationship was going well, I bought her a Diamond ring just before I left to return to UK for 5 Weeks my intention to return in December 2003 as mentioned earlier for a three months stay over.

Leaving Thailand after 10 days to say I was miserable is an understatement. Five weeks seemed like five months work was boring in that time I was emailing this lass and texting her,sometimes her mobile was not available and I would worry and ring my mates wife or text her, some money was sent to her,(being Naive to Thailand).

Well the return day arrived I beleive it was 10th December 2003: Again met by my beauty at the airport and again off to a different Hotel as I had to work the Budget out for a three month stay. Now bearing in mind I had been away for 5 weeks, when we got to the Hotel her Mobile rang and her friend arrived, now I was expecting to be alone with her for obvious sexual reasons, but never mind I thought.

I managed a quick hug before her pal arrived, I noticed she was not wearing her ring I had bought and the mobile she had was not the one I had financed,I asked about the mobile and was told it was hocked because she had no money, not thinking I paid to get it back, as for the ring I was told its at her mothers,South Pattaya for safe keeping, my request was okay well get it back now okay.

The visit was made to visit the family who were running a small road side restaurant,I spent days there sat reading a book and she would go off on the motor bike with her brother running errands, I asked about the ring again she said it was in a wardrobe but it had gone missing, I was not amused I asked to see where they live, she took me to this very sparsely furnished Condo, I persisted in my asking of the ring she said a friend had stole it, of course my response was 'Where does this friend live I will get the ring back (I was not amused). The family could see my displeasure at this situation, I went back to the Hotel she went off with her brother and some hours later returned and low and behold she had the ring. Where had the ring been I thought was this hocked as well: We were not far from Xmas now and one night she said I have to go get some envelopes for Buddha this meant not much to me I said okay I stay Hotel as she intermated she would only be a short while, it was about 9-30pm when she left. Midnight arrived still no return so I ring her. Reply I am at Excite Disco now coming back, mmmm 2-30 am she returned I was not happy, from this point the relationship seemed different.She then went off with her brother one day and I was confiding with my best mate and we went for a drink she returned about 8 hours later. A couple of days later she was gone again, now I had gotten to know lasses as friends one in particular was always asking if I was okay at the Club where my lass worked, I felt that people knew something I was not being told about, then I got a call from my mate, saying your lady has upset this friend that I have just mentioned, well this was what I had been waiting for an excuse to get rid of her, I phoned her and just said 'You can have one visit to my Hotel to collect your things: She replied 'Okay up yo you'. That was the last I saw of her:

I went to my mate and he took me for a beer and a game of pool to take my mind off the break up, well I was on a down-er for about thity minutes. I never saw her again.

Xmas eve arrived and I was off out with my mate for a drink and took this beauty with me from a beer bar, a good night was had by all, I dropped her at her bar and said I am busy Xmas day, but may see her again. Well I was actually meeting someone else,which I did do Xmas night,but it never got off the ground as she said she had a headache, being a gentleman (I think) I said no problem. What did I do I went to the beer bar and saw the lass I had taken out Xmas Eve.

This relationship blossomed it was good, I went back to UK after 3 months and decided she cant stay in Pattaya while I am away, so I got her a Condo in Bkk near her sisters whom I had met already. On February the 7th 2004 I went to her parents in Issan and this Buddha blessing (Over the brush wedding took place) She already had gold and Diamonds and I gave the family 20.000 bht.

Again leaving Thailand after three months I was worse emotionally than after my ten day visit in 2003.

I kept in touch whilst back in UK. I did some re-evaluation of my life in UK holding down two jobs paying a mortgage paying tax etc etc. Spoke to my ole Mother Bless her. 'I love you Mum'. I told her I was going to sell up and domicile myself in Thailand she was all for it she said to me. 'Son I have had my life follow your heart' So I did I gave up everything.Everything sold I thought this must be my Destiny as there have been no hurdles making the preparations, I even had to stay at my mates for a couple of weeks as everything was sold.

April 2004 visa sorted cases packed we are off to LOS and me excited again to meet my New love. Greeted at the airport off to the Condo in the Suburbs of Bkk.

First priority buy a truck so I did. Then we made the marriage legal on paper.I bought land in my wife's village to build our house on, I could not get on with life in Bkk so we moved to a Condo in Pattaya and bought a motor-
Cylce. I saw three builders chose one handed over a large amount of money in instalments and the house building started in the November 2004. We moved in on 10th February 2005.I was happy.

My wife asked if her Sisters daughter could live with us she was 12yrs at the time I said no problem, she lasted a year had to be taught everything about hygiene and made no effort to learn english despite my efforts. Then she broke to rules big time and I sent her back to her Grand-Mothers.I found I was doing a lot of the Chores cleaning laundry, family chauffeur for the family.Shortly after sending the wifes niece away, the wife became pregnant and on January 29th 2006 my wife gave birth to my Daughter (Gorgeous) I was washing nappies by hand as was told cannot wash them in washing machine, I got no help, but I did give one of her sisters a job as cleaner as she was staying in the village after a another bust up with her husband, this was a help for me.

Then she left to go back to her husband, so I employed another sister, but made the mistake of paying her up- front for three months domestic work as she wanted to pay for having her land raised. She left un-announced after a short while to work in Bkk. Still owing me cleaning duties I was not amused. My wife was tired as she was breast feeding, I tried different things to get my daughter on the bottle, but was told I did not know what I was doing, I felt un wanted but carried on, I had a friend send bottle from the USA with special teats. My wife decided to put my daughter with her Mother to get her off the breast, for two days all I could hear was my daughters distraught screaming.I was concerned about the hygiene side as well. So on the third day I announced I am going to your mums (which was only 100 metres away) to see my daughter.Well the wifes mother was with my daughter in her sisters house, bottle were on thr floor covered in flies she was rocking my daughter, I checked my daughter her clothes were soaking wet I said in Thai 'Sok-go-poke (Thai for dirty). She took her from the crib and changed her, but then in her dirty hands proceeded to give my daughter a drink of water from the palm of her hand. I took my daughter and went back to my house. Not amused.

I continued cleaning and cooking etc., thinking I feel like a maid not a father and a husband, I had felt like this for sometime, but kept all within apart from talking to my mate and friend about things.One day my wife went into town on family business, I said what about breast feeding. mmmmmm, her mother arrived and just took my daughter down to her house, again the screaming, I told her sister go and get my daughter, the daughter was hungry and to console her the sister-in-law put her on her breast to suckle even though she had no milk, I rang the wife to return immediately.

In the November we went off ot Bkk to Register my daughter for Dual Nationality: We returned I went into my office to check email I thought are I have a ber in the fridge, well I thought I had, I popped my head into the living room and asked about the beer, the wife replied her Mother drink while we were away,I only said okay no problem.

Later I went into the lounge and the wife looked at me and announced she was bored with me now and that I should think about leaving as she didn't want me any more,I was devastated I rang my mate about this. I went to bed she decided to sleep downstairs. The next morning I asked her about her statement the previous night. She said think about I am bored with you now.

My mind went into Auto I went up-stairs packed some things, came downstairs, she said 'where you go what you do' I said 'you dont want me so I leave' I got into my truck and drove to my mates.After a few days I returned. On my arrival 'I said do you still feel the same about me. 'She replied 'Just stay for your daughter' I replied 'I love my daughter but what about my happiness and my heart' No reply.

She remained sleeping downstairs over the next few days, one night she spoke to my daughter 'Shall we sleep up-stairs with Daddy no I think we will stay alone down here'

My head was in a mess my emotions were all over place. In the mornings she went to her Mothers all day, after four days one morning she was walking to her mothers with my daughter said nothing. I went into my office it was November 19th 2007 a Monday I think it may have been the 18th not sure. I was in my office and I cant describe what I was doing but I started packing my lap top locking office drawers, collecting important papers together, I then went up-stairs packed some clothes and things went to my pick-up and drove off. I knew my mate was in Pattaya I rang him, he said 'Get your arse down to Pattaya. I was emotional for most of the journey but at the same time felt a lot of pressure was released from my mind and shoulders.

My mate rang me and said 'Meet me at hotel I have paid for it for you' On arrival his words were' dont worry about anything' He gave me a wad of baht and said enjoy yourself'

Before I go further about my experiences I just want to say thanks to my mate for always being there, I have no brothers or sisters and have known him 24 years he is my family and I love him like a brother.

Well on my journey down the wife phoned twice and text me twice, that is all I heard from here, but at no time did her text's mention sorry or I love you . It was come back for your daughter.I told my old mother bless her, as my thoughts were about my daughter and not about me. My Mum replied'The good lord will take care of your daughter you must seek your own happiness'.The same advice came from other friends.

Now my mind and body was tired from the emotional stress, but I had a lot of support from friends

It was not all bad the marriage: But when I look back now i know I moved to quickly (Hindsight is a weird thing) I devoted myself to my wife and family, never went out drinking in the town (Yes i know my fault): I did make friends with some Farangs, and eventually once a week week went to play snooker. But even then it was thought I had another lady. I was taking care of the wife and her family but she was not keeping up the end of her bargain, but water under the bridge now.

So to continue I had a few days in Pattaya: I had not had sex for a year say no more: 1st night the lads took me out b/f a lass from a go go to pick up later.She was waiting for me at about 11-30 pm. More drinking 2 am back to Hotel she fell off the bed drunk so boom boom never happened grrr. She slept got up next morning said no sex I said no money then. Anyway she got 500 bht:

Next night went to see another: Now here starts my second adventure: Went into a Go Go on Soi Diamond to see a young beauty, now I like a lady all night not just wam bam thank you mam I cant do that: But this young thing said no all night I have to help my mama for mkt. I then saw this lady dancing and thought mmmmmmm. I spoke to her and off we went she was 35yrs old slim and sexy not a stunner on the mantelpiece.

But it carried on from there: i went back up country to my mates,and returned a week later to see her. I asked to see her room and she showed me, of course this could have been anyones room, in the meantime another very good friend of mine and his wife came to Pattaya and my mates wife took her off for a meal to make sure she was good for me, my mates wife didn't want me getting another wrong one 'Bless her'
Well we had Xmas and New year together. I thought good going well. Although when I returned before Xmas she met me at Hotel I asked her what the bruises were on her arm her reply was' Fell over drunk' I did have little suspicion about this.
Anyway we were invited up-country to stay at my mates wifes mothers home for a 7 day holiday.This went to 11 days, but she kept going into the local village and going off using her mobile: Then she announced she wanted to go to Pattaya to clean her room, I said 'But why you have not been there, she did ironing for me to cover her three days away: I confided in my mate and he said let her go, but I could not put my finger on something : She was going to get a night bus but that were all booked so one was booked for the next morning: At 5-30am her mobile rings she is talking very quietly, thne it rang three more times: I took the mobile it was a Thai man, I gave it to my mates missus and said ring the number I want to know who the Thai man is, he stated he wanted my lady to have a problem with me and leave: I told her pack as she said it was her friends husband obviously not: I had made her stop the Go Go and paid one of her debts,I put her on the bus she said nothing. We later found out she was going to local telephone kiosk in the village three times a day

Wow I thought am I having luck or not, Falling in love to quickly as my mates told me 'Yes' they were right:

Then on the low again and contact from Ex wife wanting everything head in a mess off to Pattaya again:

Now the next adventure starts: i meet another Bar Worker Stunning this felt different she stopped work and we went way up country to stop at her mothers home as I had nowhere to live with this lady: (I had been stopping at my mates thanks to his wife saying no problem but that was when I was in between conquests: So off I go to leave in a big Thai house with my lady; I stuck this for 6 weeks eating thai food and sleeping up-stairs with a mosquito net and peeing in a bucket at night: But the family was wanting big money from me, the rumour in the village was he will be gone in a month mmmm I asked my lady why the villagers were saying this no concrete reply, but we were getting on okay.

But I decided I wanted a break so we went away to visit my mates, I told my lady I cant live with your parents any more I will find a house to rent you can come or stay up to you, she said I go with you. I found a Bungalow and we moved there some 170 kilo from her home town: It seemed good we had the basics sleeping on a thai mattress, she had thai Tv to look at. But then she was on her mobile a lot I found a lot of farang numbers`on her phone after she got up quickly at 6 am one morning to go for a pee but taking her mobile with her: Once I drove to her village to take her poorly son to hospital at Khon Khen then back to our Bungalow.

Then she shut herself in our bedroom on her mobile, I spoke to her she said she wanted Song Khran in Pattaya, well I did not. Then she announced she took drugs,I have no time for druggies. So I took her back to her Mum's. We were good together and loved and laughed, but I think she was manipulated by her family and I did not have enough money to keep them happy and I had said no to there monetary wishes.

So back to square one, but I am getting better now at saying goodbye fairly quickly if I am not happy: But she is one I will always remember I felt good with her:

Let me make a clarification about my mates lets call them Mate 'A' that's the one like a brother and Mate 'B'Both damn good mates would have been lost without there support.

I then spent some time at my mates (A) as funds were low. I returned to my Bungalow after two weeks and f
ound a note from my last lady: 'I love you but .... thanks for everything: Bye ........

Now I was thinking okay no more ladies from Pattaya:

At my mates ( B ) I was fishing and was told there is a village lass wants to meet you her mother wants her to have a Farang. Well it was 13th April this year. She sat very shy on the first meeting I threw lots of questions as now I am feeling in-secure with women:Well my mate ( B ) was due to fly back to UK on 17th April so I had a few days to see if I liked her and visa versa:

Well took her with a pick-up full on a Song-Khran tour around the local city she sat in the back with her son, on meeting her she was all covered up jeans and coat etc but looked okay,I picked her up every day for shopping or mkt etc. We had a bbq at my mates ( B ) she rolled up with tight shorts and low top very revealing mmmmm But two tattoos a Butterfly on her left boob and something on her right shoulder: She had said never worked bar but worked factories local which she to me too and a factory in Phathum Thani.

Well a farewell party on the 16th April before my mate and his wife flew to UK mate ( B ) I might remind you. Now this was the crunch you want to stop with me at my bungalow I asked her mother she said up to her daughter. So we went to my pad, but no sex: Then it was village everyday buying beer here and there, then after a week of this I said I don't want to go to your village everyday her mother agreed but she did not.
Then all she did was look music channels all-day: I took her to a night club she ordered Red Label whisky but wanted to invite her friends I objected explaining we need to get to know each other, well she drank whisky like you drink water, her dancing made me think this is not that of a factory worker. The next nnight she wanted to go to another club and I said 'OKay' Invite a friend 4 turned up she got drunk gyrating into my groin like a bar girl then was sick on the Club floor, so that night out the window, next night I said okay why we not Boom Boom yet and why you sleep other side od bed not close to me. So that night it happened, but certain things she did I knew she was more than a factory worker. (It was a family hush hush I think as they knew I did not want another bar girl). Well it went down hill after she took me to village to pay for the workers on the land which I refused to do.

So she got the heave ho! So much for a village girl:

Todate I just binned the last one that was from a local Karaoke bar, I had seen her once before and liked her.

But there was this business with her mobile saying calls were from girlfriends but I could here a Thai man I suspected a thai b/f friend someone: Not going to bed when I went but looking TV till late not on odd occasions but every night I had to say I want sex tonight, but had to wait till a movie had finished every time: On the Eve of my decision to end it all, she had gone to her Mums dropping the kids off at school at 7-30am came back at 10 am with her sister stated going to school to see teacher, came back 3 pm rushed into bedroom said nothing had different clothes on and covered her top with Jacket Why because she had no bra on and didn't want me to see her daughter was carrying her jeans and she to went into bedroom: I found her jeans hidden in the clean laundry drawer with her more than soiled bikini bottoms: I suspected someone else's DNA as well.
so

I had to say goodbye: It did not feel right, she was a good cook but that's not the whole package:I told her I love you but cannot live with you

Well my story or diary thus far: I hate living alone and sleeping alone: All I want to do is love and take care someone and they in return same to me is that to much to expect MAYBE

The experience over four years nearly covers everything in the different relationships:If I went into everything nitty gritty bit it would take all the room on Secrets board

[kingwilly]

fuckn hell, can you provide an edited version ?

[melvbot]

Summary. Old man, bit of a sap.

[Travelmate]

fok can't be bothered to read it. Anyone can sum it up in one sentence?

[buriramboy]

fuckn hell, can you provide an edited version ?

Melvbot has already done it.

[ChiangMai noon]

Good read that.

required reading for anybody new to Thailand.

[kingwilly]

friend gave him email of a gogo bar g/f
he emailed and sent money to her
met her for a few days, proposed to her
came back she always busy with brothers and already sold new phone and diamond ring
he broke up with her

got bored after that.....I assume he found a new one and repeated the process ad finitum...

[ChiangMai noon]

I assume he found a new one and repeated the process ad finitum...

4 times.

there was a marriage and several kids involved, also some soiled underwear.

[kingwilly]

oh, good so I didnt miss out on anything,

a green for you having much more patience to continue reading such tripe

[CharleyFarley]

Didn't he train police dogs, very knowledgeable, apparently.

[Travelmate]

actually if you read it all. it written pretty well. But this guy had a life full of setbacks. guess this happen if your source of girls is limited to Pattaya.

[kingwilly]

it written pretty well.

Depends on how you define 'very well written'.

[Butterfly]

hey Blue Cat, I thought you already had a forum,

AsiaSexpat.info or something, is it still online ?