Quick update:
We're getting stuck on the alimony, the bitch is greedy... Her dad is coming to town this week, and we'll talk things over with him. He's a fair and kind bloke, I hope we'll settle things fair and square.


Advice for anyone reading: do take plenty of time.
You know things are slow here, do slow them even more, because you know of all the 'surprise' requirements popping up at the last moment. I luckily set my mind on super slow progress, and don't take anything for granted, until it's signed and done. Things have changed a few times over already, and I took it easy because i expected this to happen.

Stay calm. Calmly stop discussing as soon as shit starts flying over the table. Say that you're interrupting until it's possible to talk calmly again, and leave the place. Doing so, you keep discussions 'sane' in the sense that there is a minimal respect when talking things over. It's a necessity, otherwise blames will just get things infected and make it impossible to reach an agreement.