Originally Posted by
ItsRobsLife
Originally Posted by
DrB0b
Originally Posted by
Bruno
the consensus here is that money plays an important part in ones relationship here in Thailand in order for it to be a, can I say - success?
That only tells you about the type of people replying to you.
Do you think in the majority of farang/thai relationships that money is not an important factor?
I've no idea about the majority, how could I know about that? I don't believe anybody else knows either, of course that doesn't stop people making sweeping assumptions about something they couldn't possibly know about. It is, though, a common coping mechanism for people to convince themselves that the terrible thing that has happened to them also happens to the majority of other people - it's a way for people to absolve themselves of their mistakes.
Certainly in most of the Thai/farang relationships I know about money is of no more, and no less, importance than in a Thai/Thai or Farang/Farang relationship. I know a large number of Thai/Farang couples, in almost every case both of them contribute to the family income.
Yes, obviously there are a number of Thai/Farang relationships in which one of the partners is basically a paid companion, equally obviously there are a large number in which that is not the case. Neither you nor I, nor anybody else, is in a position to make any general statements on this. There might be a consensus among some posters on here that their partners are leeches, they have my pity for that, but there is no wider consensus. Some people are in genuinely loving, mutually supportive, relationships, some are not - that's really all anybody can say with any degree of certainty.