Work as a Farang Go-Go Dancer ~ is it Safe?

[RandomChances]

I's'nt it supprising that many of us probably know thai women who work in bars, go go's ect and never really give a shit about it, but when it's our beloved IM thinking about doing it, everyone's one about a "wasted life" and being careful. IM if you want to sell your ass,then why not just freelance, I'm sure if you scrub up a bit you'd do ok. You'd get to work your own hours, live where you want and still be able to all the uni learning stuff for a proper job just in case your a crap shag and can't pull in enough punters.

[flash]

If you are dumb enough to even think about doing this then go for it, if you would even think about it then you will do it eventually.
Sad to see a young girl who is going to become a crack whore not too far down the line.

Everyone else has said it nicely, but at the end of the day you will be another statistic.

Every thoughtful word and bit of advise you have said/offered up to now don't mean shit!you are being really dumb right now, if you want to be that stupid you can earn money with webcams and be safe.

This has to be a troll.

[barbaro]

If you are dumb enough to even think about doing this then go for it, if you would even think about it then you will do it eventually.
Sad to see a young girl who is going to become a crack whore not too far down the line.

Everyone else has said it nicely, but at the end of the day you will be another statistic.

Every thoughtful word and bit of advise you have said/offered up to now don't mean shit!you are being really dumb right now, if you want to be that stupid you can earn money with webcams and be safe.

This has to be a troll.

You are making a lot of assumptions.

Crack whore? What do you mean? Did she say she used crack?

Statistic? How?

It seems that you are applying Western steorotypes to a person in LOS who is considered this job.

Also, we shouldn't be too quick to judge negative or make negative comments.

Funny how I see some folks getting "judgemental" over someone taking a job. They live in LOS, then put on some kind of rightous face.

[flash]

If you are dumb enough to even think about doing this then go for it, if you would even think about it then you will do it eventually.
Sad to see a young girl who is going to become a crack whore not too far down the line.

Everyone else has said it nicely, but at the end of the day you will be another statistic.

Every thoughtful word and bit of advise you have said/offered up to now don't mean shit!you are being really dumb right now, if you want to be that stupid you can earn money with webcams and be safe.

This has to be a troll.

You are making a lot of assumptions.

Crack whore? What do you mean? Did she say she used crack?

Statistic? How?

It seems that you are applying Western steorotypes to a person in LOS who is considered this job.

Also, we shouldn't be too quick to judge negative or make negative comments.

Funny how I see some folks getting "judgemental" over someone taking a job. They live in LOS, then put on some kind of rightous face.

Would you be happy if it was your kid taking the job?

I'm not going to defend a whore's right to make a living, but at the end of the day a whore is a whore.

[barbaro]

After reading all of the posts, it does sound dodgy. I think these (owner, managers) people involved in this are not good folks.

If it was all above board, with legal rights in writing, and you could ask (did you?) the current girls working there to honestly talk about how they are treated then I'd say go for it. If you're interested in it, try something new while you're young....

But....

The situation you described (don't tell, have to be in your room, visa, and Russian) sounds very, very, bad. You know how Pattaya works more than I do, and I know there are dishonest and bad people there doing business.

Keep us posted.

[The Ghost Of The Moog]

Wise words from Random Chances, which as usual everyone has overlooked.

IM. Why not come back to Hong Kong and be our Subscriptions and Circulation Manager. I'll get you a telephone interview.

[The Ghost Of The Moog]

Is the go going there in the nuddy?

Tits oot ! Fathlads.

[Blake7]

Why not go to Japan and earn some serious money as an escort? You don't have to take your clothes off and make much more money.
Also these places eem more safe than Russian mafia run ones...

[qwerty]

OK, since everyone else has pitched in, here's my .75baht's worth:

These prospective employers sound very controlling. Holding your passport? Special diet? Not being able to leave your room freely? The alarm bells are practically deafening!

As for any 'extra duties', I have always thought that prostitution between two (or more) consenting adults was their own business and shouldn't be illegal in any country, BUT!!!, I really don't think a woman is emotionally tough enough to get into that business until she is 25 or so. At age 18 you are simply not ready for the kind of mental abuse that protitutes have to endure.

The money that you could earn there might be tempting, but I would be very wary about getting into that job if I were you.

[Smeg]

Ice, get yourself back to the UK and into a university (or college if necessary) as soon as possible. Most Thais would give their right arm for the opportunity to study in the UK, and I doubt any would choose to work in a gogobar over that opportunity.

Thailand has a funny effect on many westerners, and causes them to end up living in an unreal world, i.e. as yet another illegal immigrant westerner in illegal, unprofessional, casual employment, and with a lifestyle of third world red light districts and alcohol. Some even seem to be proud of having ended up like this, and see it as clever.

This would be pretty much your lifestyle too from your OP.

You have youth and opportunity on your side. Most of them don't (but they'd never admit it). Best wishes.

[barbaro]

Thailand has a funny effect on many westerners, and causes them to end up living in an unreal world, i.e. as yet another illegal immigrant westerner in illegal, unprofessional, casual employment, and with a lifestyle of third world red light districts and alcohol. Some even seem to be proud of having ended up like this, and see it as clever.

I think this is in some peoples' genes.

If people come to LOS or SEA in their early 20s they may end up liking it, and sticking around for a very long time. Down the road life may be about just surviving in the West and in LOS.

[stroller]

There's 7 pages of 'advice' now, but we don't even know whether she is still reading this.

[davethailand]

There's 7 pages of 'advice' now, but we don't even know whether she is still reading this.

Methinks it was start for attention purposes.

[mrsquirrel]

I get the feeling that IM likes attention.

The constant reference to BF's and meeting them and not likeing them etc.

The webcam photos from the CS days.

Maybe she just needs someone to giver her a hug.

[DJ Pat]

Bla Bla Bla After all our private chats on MSN Ice Maiden, and now you come up with this.

Has this anything to do with you know who? He's managed to brainwash you into thinking it's a normal thing to do hence you telling all of us over here?

Go on, do it, after all my advice, good fucking riddance!

[mrsquirrel]

Do you want a hug too Pat?

[DJ Pat]

Do you want a hug too Pat?

no thanks I'd rather watch a fat Russian woman crap on an arab guys chest as he .....


Yeah why not. I need a hug.

[obsidian]

kids these days.

[Skulldigger]

The silence, as they say, speaks volumes.

[Marmite the Dog]

The silence, as they say, speaks volumes.

She's on holiday for a couple of weeks. I'm sure she'll be back posting before too long.

[mrsquirrel]

Everybody needs a hug.

[Fabian]

Everybody needs a hug.

You mean there should be group hugs on the next teakdoor meeting?

[qwerty]

Everybody needs a hug.

You mean there should be group hugs on the next teakdoor meeting?

The very thought is enough to make me stay home!

[squig]

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I haven't been in there for over a year now, it was ok last time I visited but I just don't like the idea of leaving my camera outside with some Thai guy.

Next up we have another movie taken at the farang gals agogo, she is quite a sexy mover aint she

The farang gogo bar, Galaxy.

Last night I had an interview there because they'd seen me dance outside their bar for several weeks. Personally I was scared when I went inside because I had heard allsorts of mafia stories and what not.

But the man in there was really wanting me to work. I had to go in a private room in the back and speak to the hair and makeup dude for an hour and then the dude that decides what we wear.

The second manager told me he wants me to work as a waitress first but one wearing the same clothes as the girls before I dance to see what customers I get in the bar and to see if I give the bar profit.

This job is no way easy! You have a special diet to go on and you basically do exactly what your manager tells you. No prostitution is allowed there and when you are caught you get thrown out. You also have a room to stay in but you have to stay in your room at certain hours a day, if you leave the room then you are sacked! There are cameras inside the building of which you live.

I've got my second interview tomorrow at some location I'm not allowed to speak of! And I get my clothes made for me tomorrow. So if I pull off the job like the man said then once I'm in, I'm "In" apparently....

So ladies and gentleman if you happen to be heading in there give me some tips please!!!!

What happened to going home to England and getting a life, Icey? You sure don't listen to your big sista do you?

Do I have to come up to Pattaya & kick your ass? WTF are you doing in a go-go bar with Russian prostitutes?

I didn't get any further than page 1 of this post... can page 5 be any brighter?

Our lives are filled with "making our own mistakes" but don't make this one kiddo!!!!

[Ice Maiden]

What happened to going home to England and getting a life, Icey? You sure don't listen to your big sista do you?

Do I have to come up to Pattaya & kick your ass? WTF are you doing in a go-go bar with Russian prostitutes?

I didn't get any further than page 1 of this post... can page 5 be any brighter?

Our lives are filled with "making our own mistakes" but don't make this one kiddo!!!!

Hi Kerrie (and all the rest of you...)

I'm in England at the moment. I'm staying here for two weeks then I'm off back to Thailand. I have an job oppurtunity in a school on the outskirts of Bangkok too and I think I may just check that out for a little while.

After being back in the UK for just a day I'm glad I dont live here! So I definatley wount be attending Uni here if I wish to go later.

The job in the gogo was just a small intrest I was quite curious about working there too! But I've listened to you guys and I'm not going to do it.

It is nice to know some of you do give a shit about my ass but really I'm just fine.

Anyway, relax... You'll live longer.