"I'm an outsider by choice, but not truly. It's the unpleasantness of the system that keeps me out. I'd rather be in, in a good system. That's where my discontent comes from: being forced to choose to stay outside.
My advice: Just keep movin' straight ahead. Every now and then you find yourself in a different place."
George Carlin
Is a guy dating a whore any worse than a woman dating a man who has slept with an obscene amount of women?
She asked how many girls I'd slept with and I lied that is was possibly in the 80's/90's figure which is probably a third of the real figure and something I am not proud of and no man should be.
We were online and there was a long pause, she tried not to appear shocked but I could tell she was. She said, 'That is quite a lot, I'm a prostitute and that is a lot more than me'.
Still at least she is more chosy than I and gets paid each time.
It has always confused me why men are so mean to working girls, WhiteShivas remark was one of many contemptible putdowns I have seen against ladies of the night. Would you prefer they didn't exist and were wiped out by some kind of plague?
It's dirty work but somebody's gotta do it - let's not forget there are also many diferent levels, and this girl doesn't have her gold stars yet, anyone who knows what to look out for can tell if a girl has been doing it too long to be irreversibly messed up and that counts for most of them.
So give them a break, if you have a chip on your shoulder because one stole your wallet once, it was probably because you treated her with the same superior attitude as your post.
Not having a bash at you Shiva but everyone deserves at least the chance to have a relationship and be loved.
P.S. And by the way, I've never known anyone date a 'whore' - EX whore yes.
Last edited by The Gentleman Scamp; 01-02-2007 at 08:32 AM.
Here's your answer:Originally Posted by The Gentleman Scamp
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Yes you have - I did.Originally Posted by The Gentleman Scamp
She can't be a very good whore then, I used to know a guy dating a whore in Phuket, he was living with her and she was paying all the bill's. He used to get right pissed off when a "boyfriend" was in town and she turfed him out for a week or two, she used to go crazy when he was fucking around as when she was doing it it was "work". She probley had a point cos he was useing her money to pay for itOriginally Posted by The Gentleman Scamp
Thats bollocks, do you think people only steal off others they don't like ?Originally Posted by The Gentleman Scamp
I have more than the average number of arm and legs
Yodsak is the greatest, when a gal asks you to shag her up the butthole cos she has had too many in the front entrance that day
Sh'e flying Saturday night, she's gonna bring her nurses uniform - shame she doesn't start police academy until June.
Oh well, she's almost paid for it so she's willing to hang up her knickers and come to work with me on the funfair.... Personally I think she'd be better off back in the disco.
Sorry to play this card, but:
(And the fact is she may well not the right one but we could end up having a nice time and staying friends if not)
But, how many of you on this forum have a wife/girlfriend who is also your best mate, and how many of you would call your partner a soulmate?
And how many of you woke up one morning and realised you were in your late 40's/early 50's and just ended up with somebody for fear of being alone and getting shags on the side whenever you can, knowing that at least you wouldn't ever have to go through the hassle of a western divorce again?
It's a more difficult search I know but I am after the former if possible.
Last year saw relationships with a Kenyan politicians daughter, a Thai translator in China and briefly a Danish teacher and all were nice but circumstances were not right.
If I like somebody I don't care a toss what they do, but the fact is I have only come on here to talk about it because this current candidate is a hooker and most, if not all of you, will be able to relate to it in some way.
Savvy?
Last edited by The Gentleman Scamp; 02-02-2007 at 08:25 AM.
Perhaps not
Although I would say a guy who chases MTV presenters for love at least hasa fair bit of self confidence (which chicks dig!), whereas a guy who seeks out hookers for love needs his head checked out.
A a guy with low self-esteem who tries to snag a working girl in her prime would have better odds playing Russian roulette with a pistol. Later in her life, once she is done with shagging for money (too old, fed up with the lifestyle, finally realises that the career aspects in the profession is not the best, HIV or other STDs start taking their toll, etc) it is perhaps a different matter, but I would think trying to start a relationship with a whore when she is only focused on (and successful at) making money is futile. At that stage in her career, having a relationship is probably pretty low on her list of priorities. There are too many guys willing to pay for it, and she's got too much to lose for her to gamble on one guy only.
Any error in tact, fact or spelling is purely due to transmissional errors...
Alai wah!?Originally Posted by The Gentleman Scamp
Things going fine, I have just met her lovely mum who has invited me to her Catholic church whilst Sandra has confessed to killing more cats.
I was gonna post a photo of us but it says that I must enter a URL of my image... Well you only get URL's with images from the internet and all my photos are on my latop so you'll just have to imagine what she looks like.
She has big dimples that define her skull something chronic.
You can upload your inmages in a thing called Photbucket, Scamp, it'll give you a url to use once you've done it. I'm shite at anything complicated on a PC but this is really easy.
Glad to hear it's going well.
And killing cats is bang out of order.
Free Image and Video Hosting - Photo Image Hosting Site : Photobucket.com
^
Could just upload pics into the gallery on TD, I recently found out this is real easy and much faster than photobucket.
What's this? Chronic what? She didn't look ugly and distorted in the avatar before!Originally Posted by The Gentleman Scamp
Anything else we should know about your past?Originally Posted by slimboyfat
^ Sorry. I get confused sometimes. I think it is something in the radio waves.
UPDATE:
Well she has been here a week and things have not been perfect but they have also been very nice.
I took four days off work to take her to Disneyland but she was not up for it, she was happy to just get on a tram and see where it went.
Other activities included a visit to Stanley Beach and I also took her to the funfair where against her will (and with the help of the Polish boys who operate it) I managed to get her onto the Wild Mouse where I saw her shed a tear for the first time - quite amazing considering how non emotional she is.
Alas, it's been a week and she has to work and I must stay away from the discotheque where she hangs out as it makes things difficult for both of us.
Last night I went to the club and we both got drunk and she didn't want to work and I didn't want her to work and so she called her 'hooker buddies' to make sure they would be alright and we controversially departed and went home, much to the delight of the local paparazzi who had been refused entry.
It's gonna be tough but we now need to survive Wanchai, then the world is our balot.
Last edited by The Gentleman Scamp; 10-02-2007 at 06:49 PM.
The cat killer sure is a cracker!
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