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    Abandoning Thai kids

    My ex has called me in some distress, apparently her boyfriend of three years is selling the house and coming back to Blighty.
    They have two small girls 2 and 3 years old who he has said he will abandon leaving all of them all homeless and without any financial support from him whatsoever.
    They never ratified the Buddhist marriage at the town hall can so I need to know if can he just do this or does he have any legal responsibility to the kids and the gf?
    She is nurse so does earn some money but that's besides the point.
    There has been no infidelity on her part.
    Thanks.
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    Do they own a condo or house,if its a house and not in his name he's got no chance, she should go get legal advice quickly and kick the fucker out of house.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Horatio Hornblower View Post
    Do they own a condo or house,if its a house and not in his name he's got no chance.
    A house that he bought before they met

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    He bought don't make sense is it in company name.?

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    I dont know anything about how he bought the house? I'll ask her

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    The Thais courts have offices that give free legal advice to Thais,can't remember the name of office.

    James Mc knows a lot about this business.

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    Thanks, I was under the impression that the local town hall gives this kind of advice?

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    I fear that if he is a Brit, not married to her, and simply gets on a plane home with no intention of returning to Thailand, she will have a very hard time getting any money out of him. Even if his name is on the birth certificates, a fight for child support involving two countries will be near impossible.

    If he is willing to abandon his children without looking back, I fear all she can do is wait for the fires of hell to consume him.

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    I understand that Davis and thats exactly what he intends. As of now she is living in the house but he wants her out so he can sell it, I dont know if he can do that or if he has legal responsibilities?

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    ^That I don't know. I wish her all the best.

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    There's a squatters rights law in Thailand i believe,don't know how it works.

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    I don't think she should have to squat in her home but thanks again. Ive told her not leave or that would mean she's made herself homeless, if he throws her out thats a different story and legally she might have a chance.

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    He sounds like a right cnut.

    Name and shame him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stinky View Post

    her boyfriend of three years

    They have two small girls 2 and 3 years
    Either my maths or my human biology is severly f*cked. not sure which.

    Sorry, apart from that observation, nothing to add, except that there is probably a special place in hell being prepared for him....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kurgen View Post
    He sounds like a right cnut.

    Name and shame him.
    I thought you knew, Shanks is Abby!

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    Stinky is your kid(s) by the same Mum.?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Horatio Hornblower View Post
    Stinky is your kid(s) by the same Mum.?
    Yes I have one kid by her and he's here with me.

    Shanks would be really pissed off if he knew that we had him before we even met.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stinky View Post
    we had him before we even met.
    Cool trick.

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    Can't she just arrange an unfortunate accident for him?

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    Quote Originally Posted by nidhogg View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Stinky View Post
    we had him before we even met.
    Cool trick.
    We thought so

    Quote Originally Posted by buriramboy View Post
    Can't she just arrange an unfortunate accident for him?
    She's a nurse so kind of the opposite to what she's used to

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    Get the kids to visit someone change the locks on doors, put up notice of your intention and inform the local cops he going to abandon his kids, there'll sort it out for her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Horatio Hornblower View Post
    Get the kids to visit someone change the locks on doors, put up notice of your intention and inform the local cops he going to abandon his kids, there'll sort it out for her.
    I told her that already.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stinky View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by nidhogg View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Stinky View Post
    we had him before we even met.
    Cool trick.
    We thought so

    Quote Originally Posted by buriramboy View Post
    Can't she just arrange an unfortunate accident for him?
    She's a nurse so kind of the opposite to what she's used to
    Easy access to drugs..........But on a more serious note do the kids have British passports, I'm presuming not as harder to get although not impossible if not married as if they did obviously no visa required for them to visit Blighty and her being a nurse in full time employment could get a tourist visa no problem then fly to Blighty and fuk him up through the courts once he returns. Also is she in contact with the blokes family back in the UK if she is tell her to phone/email them and tell them what a cnut he is and maybe they will put pressure on him to do the right thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by buriramboy View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Stinky View Post

    She's a nurse so kind of the opposite to what she's used to
    Easy access to drugs..........But on a more serious note do the kids have British passports
    The kids have been to Blighty so I'm assuming that they do have passports. As for his family I think that they will side with him whatever he does, they were never too happy with her for eke reason.

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    How about she lets him take the kids back to the UK, then she follows and says he kidnapped them etc etc. get the press involved and fuk him up proper.

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