Meeting a girl from a dating site; should i expect to pay?

[Domine Rex]

Hi Everyone,

I have been taking to a girl recently from a dating site. We have been hitting it off well and she said she would spend 2 weeks with me when I come to visit next month.

She has a day job, and seems like a good girl.

I read an article that said a man should expect to pay for the girl even if you meet her on a dating site.

Is this to be assumed and was I being naive?

I'm not sure how to ask her about that as I don't want her to be offended. She has not shown any signs of being a working girl or anything like that.

What do you all think?

[aging one]

You should not use worms to troll on here flies will get better results.

[BaitongBoy]

She has a day job, and seems like a good girl.

Then yes, by all means, expect everything for free and have a nice holiday...

Heh...

[Neverna]

Pay for what? Just meeting her? No. Spending time with her? No.

But if you want to be sure what the girl expects, you could ask her before you meet her if she will be looking for or expecting payment for you being with her (explaining that you "read an article that said a man should expect to pay for the girl even if you meet her on a dating site".)

[Domine Rex]

Pay for what? Just meeting her? No. Spending time with her? No.

But if you want to be sure what the girl expects, you could ask her before you meet her if she will be looking for or expecting payment for you being with her (explaining that you "read an article that said a man should expect to pay for the girl even if you meet her on a dating site".)

I know that sounds silly but I don't want to offend her. You're right though I can probably just do that is a delicate manner.

[aging one]

Why be delicate? You have it made in the shade. Off and running go for it..

[Domine Rex]

Why be delicate? You have it made in the shade. Off and running go for it..

Well I know if I asked a girl that in America they would be pissed off and probably stop talking to me. I have been talking with her a lot and would hate for that to happen.

[Jesus Jones]

Pay for what? Just meeting her? No. Spending time with her? No.

But if you want to be sure what the girl expects, you could ask her before you meet her if she will be looking for or expecting payment for you being with her (explaining that you "read an article that said a man should expect to pay for the girl even if you meet her on a dating site".)

I know that sounds silly but I don't want to offend her. You're right though I can probably just do that is a delicate manner.

Meet you for two week and the 6 other guys she has on trial!

[rickschoppers]

Why be delicate? You have it made in the shade. Off and running go for it..

Well I know if I asked a girl that in America they would be pissed off and probably stop talking to me. I have been talking with her a lot and would hate for that to happen.

Domine, there are millions of eligible females in Thailand. My advice is don't take this one so seriously and move on if things do not go well or she is not as advertised. You should pay unless she offers or insists on paying her way. Remember, you are the "rich" American.

[Domine Rex]

Why be delicate? You have it made in the shade. Off and running go for it..

Well I know if I asked a girl that in America they would be pissed off and probably stop talking to me. I have been talking with her a lot and would hate for that to happen.

Domine, there are millions of eligible females in Thailand. My advice is don't take this one so seriously and move on if things do not go well or she is not as advertised. You should pay unless she offers or insists on paying her way. Remember, you are the "rich" American.

Yeah I would pay for everything anyway, and anywhere we went. Thank you for the advice. I shouldn't get attached so easily I barely know her and we never met. We have just talked a lot.

[armstrong]

she would spend 2 weeks with me

She has a day job,

so she gonna take 2 weeks off?

[aging one]

so she gonna take 2 weeks off?

Pretty hard to do for the average Thai, she must be special.

[Nicethaiza]

For sure you must paid for everything while she stay with you ...If you dont want to paid for her you just tell her at first before you meet...you want her to share and let see if she still want to meet you or not...

[BaitongBoy]

For sure you must paid for everything while she stay with you

Not for sure...Most times, for most guys, but not always...555

[david44]

Explain to her that as you're "between " jobs could she help with your expenses, that will clarify it in one eMail

[BaitongBoy]

^ Exactly, david...Well said...

Show her who's boss...Heh...

[Nicethaiza]

Girls paid for you BB? eiei

[BaitongBoy]

Paid for me to go!...555...

[Dragonfly]

don't worry she will ask for it and send you the bills if she wants it

so don't need to ask, just allocate a budget for it, I would say 20,000 for 2 weeks

if you can fuck her 2 times a day, that's about 500 THB a short time, so not bad, a good deal. Better be a stunner though, not a dog.

[BaitongBoy]

if you can fuck her 2 times a day, that's about 500 THB a short time

If not, take a pill...Or see your embassy...They can help unless your "tension ring" gets stuck...

[Nicethaiza]

Or dont meet^^stay alone and pay for bar^^ easy...

[Neverna]

The guy is American and Thais understand the concept of "American share". Not a problem.

[Nicethaiza]

I think if meet up and a girl lose her salary for 2 weeks for stay with him... better paid for it too he he

[Neverna]

^ He's not hiring her.


Or is her name Sophia?

[aging one]

I think if meet up and a girl lose her salary for 2 weeks for stay with him... better paid for it too he he

unique way to look at it. .