Thread: Belgian discovers his wife used to be a man after 19 years

A Belgian is seeking to have his marriage annulled after discovering that his Indonesian wife of 19 years had been born a man.

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By Bruno Waterfield, Brussels

The man, only named as Jan, married Monica, his family's former au pair in a previous marriage, in 1993 despite legal difficulties raised by theBelgian immigration authorities.

But it was only in recent weeks that he discovered that his wife had originally been a man and had undergone a sex change.

"I feel I've been assaulted," he told the Het Nieuwsblad newspaper.

"I brought her to Belgium. That was not easy. The Belgian courts had serious doubts about the authenticity of her birth and her identity papers, but eventually they accepted it anyway. I thought she was an attractive woman, all woman. She had no male traits."

Jan, 64, said that he and his wife had decided not to have children because he had two by his previous marriage and she fooled him by pretending to menstruate, using sanitary towels, "to conceal the truth".

"Even during sex, I never noticed anything," he said.

For many years the couple lived a normal family life and Monica, 48, was like a "big sister" to his children until their marriage started to come under strain when she got a new full-time job.
"Monica began to change very much," he said.
"My oldest son saw her sometimes at a nightclub. She began to wear very flashy clothes, those ultra-short skirts or tiny tops, so her abdomen was completely exposed."
Finally rumours began to surface and after Jan found "amorous messages" from other men on her computer, he confronted her in a violent row that led to the police being called.
"A friend told me that he had heard that Monica was actually a sex-changed man. I could not believe it. My son heard similar rumours," he said.
"I pushed her against the wall and said: Now I know the truth. Are you a man? She then announced that she was born as a boy and that she had been operated on. She was now a woman, and so she did not need to tell me about her past as a man. My world collapsed. That evening came to blows. The police came."
Jan, who is undergoing psychiatric treatment following the discovery, has started legal proceedings to have the marriage annulled but the Belgian courts have so far refused to allow him to turn her out of the familiy home.
"That person has deliberately deceived him for years, even scammed. Presumably she has also forged documents used here to get a residence permit. The children, who for years have lived with her, are devastated," said his Liliane Verjauw, his lawyer.

Belgian discovers his wife used to be a man after 19 years - Telegraph

I wonder if Butterfly would be interested in an acclimated reject ?

Originally Posted by Bangyai

Monica, 48... began to change very much," he said. "My oldest son saw her sometimes at a nightclub. She began to wear very flashy clothes, those ultra-short skirts or tiny tops, so her abdomen was completely exposed." Finally rumours began to surface and after Jan found "amorous messages" from other men on her computer....

wow, thats what interesting, isnt it?

so it looks like, when a male is in the midlife crisis and has to act in a female body...

boah... women can be really proud of themselves...
they at least keep some style in the crisis...

what a gender difference...

Where's Willy?
Perhaps he can sort this out.

aaahahaha... because he has an indonesian wife?

yesterday i thought, it was his ass leaving planet earth by cholinesterase inhibition... but he posted today...

maybe his wife was a guy and he is still a girlie...

Thread is nothing without pics.
48 year old ladyboys rarely look anything like a lady.

Here "she" is, in all her glory:

Originally Posted by Bangyai

"Even during sex, I never noticed anything," he said.

Are you supposed to ?

Originally Posted by alitongkat

aaahahaha... because he has an indonesian wife?

nope.

do your homework better.

As to the article, sounds to me that her gender wasnt in question when the marriage was happy, it only came into question after things had already broken down.

And he hit her. Stupid fool.

belgian.....

i think they are found to be among the most unattractive men in europe...
was some research...

He must have been rather naive. Look at her jaw and shoulders.....

^And she's well pixellated...

Originally Posted by Bangyai

using sanitary towels, "to conceal the truth".

"Up the batty again dear?"

i thought she is getting bald (front)?

Originally Posted by alitongkat

i thought she is getting bald (front)?

male pattern baldness - bit of a give away I would have thought.

Originally Posted by withnallstoke

Originally Posted by Bangyai

using sanitary towels, "to conceal the truth".

"Up the batty again dear?"

If she's been letting him do her up the date for nineteen years, he obviously thought he had snagged a real winner.

Easy thing to do.