Thread: What's sex?

I have very few sexual 'morals' as such, but I do have preferences

I would say complete honesty and openness is the only moral I bring into the bedroom

^I bring power tools...

RRAAHHHHRRRR!!!!

hillbilly, may I borrow your tool?

Goddess for example

Someone in AjarnForum says the same thing hmmm... maybe I should walk over(for awhile) when you people talk about sex. So, hillbililly, could I borrow yours? hehehehe..

*would like to see goddess handle hillbilly's powertool*

yeah, be careful Goddess you are getting yourself a reputation :twisted:

Thank you hiron *kiss & hug*

I would not use that tool without the instructor

*winks* I'm sure I could work it out... does it come with a manual Hillbilly?

Its good to see you gals getting on so well together.

I saw this earlier and wondered if it might be better in the Members forum but it does seem a fair question.
Sex is so all encompassing in our evolution and it does occur to me that the question posed seeks to delve into the 'why is it so' sought of area.
How we view sex is made up of many variables in my opinion.
For a start, there is a generational issue as the way sex was viewed by our grandparents is vastly different to the way it is viewed by us or how our grandchildren will. Some see this as promiscuity. I see it as a modernization in the same way as music your parents liked was hated by you. As I grew older I developed the same way of thinking as my parents though.

Sex also has cultural differences with Thailand being a good case in point. We in the west are brought up being told that sex is this and that. That prostitutes are low on the social scale while in SE Asia prostitution is not seen in the same way and parents will often spend ten's of thousands grooming their daughters so that they can be better prostitutes.

Some Westerners are abhored by the idea but who is to say that they are right?

I also think that sex is used by many as a way of measuring someones own self worth. ie. Everyone inately wants to be seen as attractive and the ultimate goal for some in proving this self worth is to have someone desire them so much that they want to bed them.

Sex is the way in which we as a race continue and I have always found it interesting how different cultures approach it.
For instance in France an adulterous afternoon love session with someone outside of a/your marriage is almost common place, though not discussed.

It is not an easy question to answer NWA given that sex is so inextricably linked with so many different and varying aspects of our lives and cultures.

Now, here is the thing. Before the dog posts his normal reply about my age yadda, yadda, yadda and not being able to have sex any more etc, etc, etc the fact is that although I have had plenty of it in my life, it has never been a guiding factor in relationships. That said, I dont look down on folks who are compelled to have sex at every opportunity.

I had sex once....

Isn't that what you buy rice in? I have just bought 2 sex of rice

In my humble opinion "sex is sex"! It's like having foodies, but more purposeful. We have an endless drive to get attached with each other and to verify those attachments through sexual pursuits. That's all it's really doing. Of course, I have very different sexual beliefs than most people. Personally, I think sex is just a way to bring a relationship to a higher level. It doesn't necessarily have to be a lifelong partner you're doing it with, but it does have to be someone of great importance to you. For instance, though some view it as repugnant, I'd have sex with my best friend if she so desired. Of course, being heterosexual, this is exclusive to female friends, which is unfortunate, since one can only reach that level of understanding with someone of the sex one views sexually.

Personally, I believe that people have placed too little value in sex. Of course, I also believe that people have placed too much value in sex.

For instance; they believe it to be the be-all-end-all of relationships. This is not so. The be-all-end-all of conversations is the emotions involved, whilst people place too much value on the physical aspect as a judge of how well a relationship is going, fcuking idiots!

However, people place far too little value in it as a bonding action. They believe it something to merely "relieve or reduce stress." They use it as a simple tool for reproduction, or for pleasure. Either of these is not the true purpose of sex in my eyes.

Sex is something that lots of people talk about but not enough of us get it as much as we like to (unless you are DD