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I have toyed with the thought of posting this thread for sometime. I have met several farang / Thai couples since I have been living here that have made me wonder how much he must lover her. I will share my last three incidents with you and then I invite you to post your thoughts.

Couple #1 - I know a farang that has been married to a Thai lady for several years. She was in a pretty bad accident that has left her paralyzed. Mrs. Chi and I were impressed by his actions towards her. He refuses to employ a nurse and cares for her daily. He feeds her, bathes her etc. He takes her out all of the time for walks lovingly pushing her along in a wheelchair. The accident happened after he married her and to this day he professes his undying devotion to her.

Could you stay?

Couple #2 - I know a pretty rough farang that is married to a former bar girl. He drinks quite a bit and runs around. She fell off a motorbike a couple of years back and walks like the gimp in Deadwood. She has slept with a few of his farang friends. he says she puts up with his drunkenness, verbal abuse and whoring around. He told me that he does not hold her cheating against her, as he does it too. In a drunken state he once told me that she gave him herpes, but he still loves her and is with her for life.

Could you love her?

Couple # 3 - This was the one that really shocked me and touched Mrs. Chi's heart. We met a farang and his Thai wife earlier this year on holiday in Thailand. He is a professional from the UK and she is a very sweet, sweet Thai lady. She has such a pretty face and is very petite. She walks a bit funny and has a large hump on her back like the Hunchback of Notre Dame. Over lunch one day, he told me with a tear in his eye, "You know Chi, I never really notice her deformity as her sweetness covers it all."

Could you love a girl with a deformity like that?

Would you even give her a second look or take the time to even get to know her?

Serious comments please.

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Sdigit

No way
No fvcking way

Absolutly no fvcking way

Are you fvcking joking

Marmite the Dog

Sadly (for your thread) the Midget doesn't have any deformaties, but I quite often find myself being surprised at just how beautiful she is (fek knows what she sees in me). I have also learned to trust her to run things her way, as she does a better job than I do. She has had a couple of right pieces of shit for partners in the past and I get really sad thinking about how those arseholes could treat a smashing woman in such a way. She also humbles me with the dedication she has to her boys.

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I will meet the blackness and the blackness will be eternal

DrAndy

don't you worry Marmite, you are a lovely man

SEA Traveler

Couple #1: Yes. and I highly suspect that my Thai wife would do the same. Unlike myself, my spouse is a caring and loving person. But (there is always a but isn't there), in the case of the scenerio presented her I could and I would.

Couple #2: I can not understand a couple who act toward each other this way. No go for me on this couple. But..... to each their own.

Couple #3: Assuming that the physical deformity was present at the initial time of meeting I would probably say no way. But in this case, I can at least understand the fellows position.

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buriramboy

Well after more than 8 years together, the wife still gets given a good muffing numerous times every week, nuff said.

Rural Surin

You're a sensitive and sentimental lad. What we've always known about you. Good on ya!!

buriramboy

How much are you worth???

slackula

Case #1 Yes, I would definitely stay. My wife would too if the situation was reversed.

Case #2 As was said by SEA Traveler, to each his own, but I couldn't have a relationship like that.

Case #3 Honest answer: I don't know, I am a pretty shallow bastard, but as the saying goes, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". I'd like to think it would be possible but knowing what a prat I am I'd say it would be unlikely.

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Fondles

Nup.


Nup.

Nup.

Maybe to snigger.

Fondles

Your missus is hardly a drunken deformed mong mate.

Marmite the Dog

Three buttons, a few lakky bands and a piece of string.

buriramboy

Twice as much as me then.

the dogcatcher

Unfortunately it's me that has the deformety. Three years with Laosy and I have a deformed bank account.

teddy

jandajoy

Don't understand the point of the thread.

Good on all three cases.

Different strokes for different folks.

Fundamentally, though they're looking after each other. That's good.

Good on 'em.

Loy Toy

My relationship with my wife started in a perfect way and that was because we became quite good social friends and during the first 6 years we knew each other.

Then somehow our friendship turned more serious( to my great surprise), we married and had our first child almost immediately.

Over the years we have lived as husband and wife we have been fortunate to enjoy the good life never worrying about money and investing in things as we saw fit, sometimes foolishly on my behalf.

About 6 months ago the shit hit the fan financially (cash flow) and we have had to pull in our horns and the way my wife has conducted herself, taking on responsibilities and giving me strength when I was in the pits has made me realize what an absolute jewel I have.

And over the last week things have changed for the better and good times are just around the corner but I will look at things with a different perspective in the future knowing I have such strong support when I need it.

My Thai lady is the best and I'm fvcking lucky that I have her.

Sdigit

I'm really pleased for you mate, you got a jewel from the sounds of it

Loy Toy

^ Yep when I was really down, couldn't bring myself to pass through the front door and she got up off her arse and created new opportunities through graft and hard work, not to mention taking care of the family.

She humbled me in a way nobody else has and made me get my act together!

Sdigit

Fvck I'm jealous