Babies and such...

Kiwi_Refugee · 02-10-2009, 11:52 PM

Who here has kiddies? Who wants them but doesn't have them most likely related to lack of suitable mate and who wants nothing to do with the little carpet grubs?

**Stinky** · 03-10-2009, 12:31 AM

If someone had told me 2 & a half years ago that I would be a middle aged man, with a 2 & a half year old toddler, and no mother for him, I'd have said If you knew me you'd know what a stupid thing it is that you're saying.

That was Two and a half years ago. Today I'm a middle aged man with a two & a half yr old boy and no wife.
Raising my boy is the single most challenging thing I've ever done in my life, it's a real work up and no mistake.
It's also the single most rewarding thing I've ever done in my life.

Life is so complicated now that I have my boy, I must always consider him before I can make any plans to do any thing.

I wouldn't want to be without him now, I'd be lost.

**buriramboy** · 03-10-2009, 12:35 AM

I have a luk krueng who was 6 in August, no more thanks.

**Stinky** · 03-10-2009, 12:41 AM

^ Got that one right BB

Kiwi_Refugee · 03-10-2009, 12:44 AM

I guess thats the thing then, you never know until youve tried. Me, would love kids but lacking of anyone with more than half a spade in there head to mate with... well the mating thing is ok, but to reproduce with is what i'm trying to say. How did you end up with a kiddie and wifeless dude? Or is it rude to ask?

**Stinky** · 03-10-2009, 01:00 AM

Not rude to ask Kiwi.

I left Thailand when the boy was 6 weeks old because her parents were threatening to kidnap him and send him off up the jungle some to stay with some relatives.
They told me I'd have to pay big money if I ever wanted to see him again.
Me and the wife and a few friends from the hospital discussed it and between us we decided it was best and safest if he came with me and she would follow when she got here visa.
A few weeks later she fucked off with an old German bloke for money at her parents bidding.
End of marriage
Begining of single parent-dom

**crippen** · 03-10-2009, 01:04 AM

A set up perhaps?

**English Noodles** · 03-10-2009, 01:17 AM

For sure.

**nigelandjan** · 03-10-2009, 01:18 AM

Originally Posted by Shitdigit

If someone had told me 2 & a half years ago that I would be a middle aged man, with a 2 & a half year old toddler, and no mother for him, I'd have said If you knew me you'd know what a stupid thing it is that you're saying.

That was Two and a half years ago. Today I'm a middle aged man with a two & a half yr old boy and no wife.
Raising my boy is the single most challenging thing I've ever done in my life, it's a real work up and no mistake.
It's also the single most rewarding thing I've ever done in my life.

Life is so complicated now that I have my boy, I must always consider him before I can make any plans to do any thing.

I wouldn't want to be without him now, I'd be lost.

Dont know your history mate it aint my business but I admire the socks off you ,, I brought up 2 sons , but lost my youngest when he was 25 , I sure know about being lost without him.

If it is your wish someday then I hope you meet with a good wife and Mum for your son ,,,,,,,,all the best mate ,, its brought a tear to me eye reading your post .

Oh by the way my new wife ( Thai ) loves and accepts my other son and my grandchildren ,,as they all love and accept her ,, despite my ex,s best efforts to fk it all up.

Kiwi_Refugee · 03-10-2009, 01:21 AM

Even though it might not seem so I bet she wishes she could see him. Shes a woman after all and life and having to survive often are different. Feel sorry for the fat german in the loveless marrage. I have some german friends, one time they made a real innocent comment: Theres a lot of Thais in Germany. I wonder why?

**Stinky** · 03-10-2009, 01:26 AM

Originally Posted by crippen

A set up perhaps?

A strange old plan if it was me thinks.
I really dont know how this happened.
I've spent many hours thinking about it.
I thought I'd been so careful about my wife, that I was so lucky to have found her.
And with the family being so genuine and decent as well that did it for me.

I guess I fucked up there eh!

**Stinky** · 03-10-2009, 01:30 AM

Originally Posted by nigelandjan

If it is your wish someday then I hope you meet with a good wife and Mum for your son ,,,,,,,,all the best mate ,, its brought a tear to me eye reading your post .

Thank for that Nigleandjan.
I don't want anything to do with a marriage or relationship any more.
If U get involved and she fucks off its Oscar(my boy) that will suffer'
Miss the hell out of Thailand though.

I feel for your loss mate, something you must continually learn to live with

Kiwi_Refugee · 03-10-2009, 01:32 AM

I guess I fucked up there eh!

This should be the slogan of thailand...
THAILAND, I guess I fucked up there eh!

Mate, your not the first or the last and I doubt she got preggers and dropped that bundle of joy as a set up. Set up for what? The running off maybe, but you got the kid! Golden!

**Stinky** · 03-10-2009, 01:37 AM

Originally Posted by Kiwi_Refugee

Even though it might not seem so I bet she wishes she could see him. Shes a woman after all and life and having to survive often are different. Feel sorry for the fat german in the loveless marrage. I have some german friends, one time they made a real innocent comment: Theres a lot of Thais in Germany. I wonder why?

Yes Kiwi you're spot on there.
Now she wants to get back together with me, as if nothing has changed.
She asks me for money quite often, I don't give her any.

I do let her see Ozz on the Internet, I don't want the contact with her but it avoids me having to answer later on down the road the inevitable question "Dad, why didn't you let me see my mum"

Kiwi_Refugee · 03-10-2009, 01:44 AM

She asks YOU for money? Shes married to a guy whos clearly got enough money to buy a wife and she wants money from you? Fuckin Thai girls. Sorry to have a rant but us westerners don't meet the good ones. The ones I know here in NZ fucked there way here and are fucking there way to japan or australia. I know a nice Thai girl here from a nice family who migrated here husband, wife and all and she wants nothing to do with my knob. Shes a good girl. I think you need to cut her off and tell the boy she got hit by a bus or something. I think its better than him finacing her in the future.

**Stinky** · 03-10-2009, 01:45 AM

Originally Posted by Kiwi_Refugee

I guess I fucked up there eh!

This should be the slogan of thailand...
THAILAND, I guess I fucked up there eh!

Mate, your not the first or the last and I doubt she got preggers and dropped that bundle of joy as a set up. Set up for what? The running off maybe, but you got the kid! Golden!

Yes a good fucking slogan indeed.

I think it happened becaued the parents put pressure on her. They did this because I refused to be tapped any more.
The thing is though Kiwi... she gave in so soon.
She dropped the boy, I left Thailand, she fucks off with old German guy all in the space of 6-10 weeks.

Don't sound right dose it.
I'm thinking she was of the same mind as the parents.

**Stinky** · 03-10-2009, 01:52 AM

Originally Posted by Kiwi_Refugee

She asks YOU for money? Shes married to a guy whos clearly got enough money to buy a wife and she wants money from you? Fuckin Thai girls.

She never married him, he fucked her off a few months later.
Smarter guy than me for seeing through her or just plating around with her.

She was looking for a rich guy and met a German doctor and was with him for a long time, all the while still asking me for money,
Horrible cnut she is for doing that, never thinks about the boy's future just how much money she can get.

**BigRed** · 03-10-2009, 01:56 AM

I've decided that I don't want to have kids.

I have a 4yr old and 1 yr old going spare if anyone is interested.

Kiwi_Refugee · 03-10-2009, 01:58 AM

DUDE! Cut her off mate, cut her off... and send your money to ME! hahaha, joking. But mate, its not the one. Give the boy an interesting story and tell him the truth when hes older. Or maybe not. But its not good for him to keep in contact. Trust me.

**Stinky** · 03-10-2009, 02:02 AM

Originally Posted by BigRed

I've decided that I don't want to have kids.

I have a 4yr old and 1 yr old going spare if anyone is interested.

Hhahaha I've been mugged over enough thanx

Kiwi_Refugee · 03-10-2009, 02:06 AM

Ill take the 4yo. Always wanted kids. Don't really want the mother though. Mothers complain and wine and bitch too much!

**Stinky** · 03-10-2009, 02:06 AM

Originally Posted by Kiwi_Refugee

DUDE! Cut her off mate, cut her off... and send your money to ME! hahaha, joking. But mate, its not the one. Give the boy an interesting story and tell him the truth when hes older. Or maybe not. But its not good for him to keep in contact. Trust me.

Kiwi mate I've fucking agonised over this question.
I dont want anything to do with the selfish cnut but Ozz will one day meet her, it's inevitable and something I dont want to cover up.
When he's older I'll tell him the whys and what's of the situation but I cant lie to him coz later in life when he finds out he might not forgive me for it.

**Stinky** · 03-10-2009, 02:11 AM

Originally Posted by Kiwi_Refugee

Ill take the 4yo. Always wanted kids. Don't really want the mother though. Mothers complain and wine and bitch too much!

You should at least take a blowie from the mum for your troubles

Kiwi_Refugee · 03-10-2009, 02:13 AM

True. I grew up well until I was told that my mother was a slutty whore. After meeting her I realised what a mistake I was. It was all down hill after that. That was when I was about 19.

Kiwi_Refugee · 03-10-2009, 02:16 AM

You should at least take a blowie from the mum for your troubles

I would like to just once empty myself into her bum hole, you know just for the irioney...

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