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    Well another Rotten Farang Story..

    Now will also have to check this out as to final details, but hope it is closer than Lar's tale.
    My wife is a teacher at a mountain school about 40 klicks from here, PeterPan has been there.
    And my wife is kind of a manager as she has been there for damn near 20 years.
    There is a new little red headed, real white farang looking child in Kindergarten there, does not look at all Thai, and his mother was supposed to have been married to a farang with a business in the south that was wiped out by the Tsunami and he left and went home and left his wife and son here, she has since married a Thai and they live in a field hut and work the fields and the little guy is small even for a Thai so my wife thinks he has had no vitamins and milk and has bug bites all over him on arms and legs.
    The dude has since returned to where they were but has a new ol lady/GF what ever you want to call it.I have been bothered by this for the last day as she told me about it last night, and some of you know that we buy some stuff for the poor children and buy some food for the lunch program and a couple of kids we damn near support because of the parents not being able to buy them cloths and shoes, no money for papa's whiskey tho.
    Anyway I said that at my age I can not go up and make a deal with the boys mother to bring him home and raise him, I am to old to start another and my wife works 16 or more hours a day on school stuff.
    But she told me tonite that his mother would not let him go, she loves him and he loves here and his step dad and is happy with his life and has good cloths and she has not talked to the mother yet, but will do so and get the straight story, this info has came from the boys teacher.
    So if there is anything I can do for the child I will see that it is done even tho the folks from the forum that I was on years ago have quit the fund that they started when I first moved down here and married and they found out how it is for the children they were having auctions and raffles and stuff and sending the money to my US bank and I would draw it and buy a hundred winter coats or a pickup load of shoes and socks, but now I am on my own so do not do so much but still do what we can for the kids as my wife knows which are needy and which are OK.
    So if this guy was married and split and left them here and kicks nothing into the pot I will update this and if he does I will also let you know, but if he abandoned them I might just go down and shoot that prick.

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    Let us know the guys name; maybe someone down there can get him to cough up, money or blood, whichever is convenient

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    From what I know of a field hut, at least the ones I have seen are just a roof over your head and a floor under your feet and thats about it.

    Would be nice to live in a house, and still have to have a mosquito Bar tho the way Thai leave the windows and doors open with no sign of a screen.
    I will post any corrections and a name if it is appropriate.

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    your hearts in the right place old mate,sometimes it just gets broken by these poor little buggers too easy

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    Thats the truth Ned, sure does break mine, and wife said he sure don't look any Thai, and he is a friendly talkkitive little dude, I know what it woud do if I went over and talkesd to hin as she wants me to and everything was not OK with him as I guess the bug bites really show on his white skin, so it better I stay away.
    I used to go over with her 3 or 4 times a week and just set in her class room, write English words on the blackboard and speak English to the class, they can all read and write it but can not speak as they have never heard English spoken, but seeing that some had no shoes or tenners that were just broken laces and the eyelets and part of the soles and not to nice cloths, and I can not support 200 students, I just do not go any longer.
    That and only about 10% want to speak or study English.

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    She must have the guys full name, get country etc and send details to his home country or embassy. I think if the right people found out, he would be up for some sort of support for his child...legally I mean.....I think, correct me if countries like US and UK do not give a toss about care of kids by its citizens overseas.

    Think they do, afterall, if the father is say US....then does'nt the child have the rights to choose US citizenship later of if it can be proven the father is US ??
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    Quote Originally Posted by blackgang View Post
    , but if he abandoned them I might just go down and shoot that prick.
    Don't often agree with you BG, but on this one I would provide the ammo.

    I hate the fact that so many of these kids get abandoned by the farang fathers. Scum.

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    Nidhogg, agree with you that abandonment is wrong but please look around you and how many single mum's are here, so in the same vane Thai fathers scum also.

    BG, ok start providing the ammo for the Thai guys that are living near you who have left their children

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    She must have the guys full name, get country etc and send details to his home country or embassy. I think if the right people found out, he would be up for some sort of support for his child...legally I mean.....I think, correct me if countries like US and UK do not give a toss about care of kids by its citizens overseas.

    Think they do, afterall, if the father is say US....then does'nt the child have the rights to choose US citizenship later of if it can be proven the father is US ??
    Thanks Nawty, Yes the US is a bitch on that stuff, especially if you pay taxes there.and if he gets a pension, they will be damn sure to take it and send some to the kid.
    My wife is going to have a talk with his mother as soon as she can and find out exactly what is the facts, and if he did father the kid then there should be some recourse, and we know some farang did as she says you can see no Thai in the kid at all.
    I guess he is a real little dude, but as much as I would love to know him I ain't got the heart to go and see him if he is all scuffed up from bug bites and preventable shit. But his mother loves him and does her best for him so as bad as it hurts, he has what is most needed.

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    It is a little bit different....imagine the extra hardship and ridicule a farang kid faces growing up as a village kid on subsistance farming.

    Imagine him at 12yo selling shit in a market or such.....never ending looks, never ending questions......never ending.

    but, same same thai, kids should not be abandoned no matter what race.


    If born in Phuket with the father around, must be a birth certificate around somewhere

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    Quote Originally Posted by kk boy
    Nidhogg, agree with you that abandonment is wrong but please look around you and how many single mum's are here, so in the same vane Thai fathers scum also. BG, ok start providing the ammo for the Thai guys that are living near you who have left their children
    Thats right, my wife raised her's herself as he was a drunk and did not work, then when her daughter was 11 and her son was 21 I married her, kicked the son out of the house as he never got up before noon and go get drunk and come in at daylight, so with no place to eat or sleep, he had to get a fucking job.
    And we raised the girl who is now going to univ, but has always hated me because her brother thinks I am a prick as I guess his ass hit the sidewalk a little hard.

    But their father has not paid a satang in support for his kids, as with the Mex I married and raised 3 kids of hers for a few years and also pay her $750 a month for my daughtetr who lives with her and goes to school in the states.

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    This happens more than you might think BG... Sad that foreigners come to Thailand, have children with Thai ladies, then run away from their obligation... Heard the same story from a young lady in BKK a few days ago... British boyfriend got her pregnant, then fucked off back to blighty and has never sent one satang to help with raising his own child...
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    Quote Originally Posted by kk boy View Post
    Nidhogg, agree with you that abandonment is wrong but please look around you and how many single mum's are here, so in the same vane Thai fathers scum also.
    Fair point, and duely noted.

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    There are two farang / Thai beggar kids in Bangkok. They told my wife that their dad was French and had ran off. We recently found out that the Thai mom ran off from the dad and that he senders her 30,000 baht a month.

    The mom is still swinging on a poll in Nana and sends the kids out begging. From what I understand they pull in 500 to 1000 baht a day.

    Mom takes all the earnings.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kk boy
    Nidhogg, agree with you that abandonment is wrong but please look around you and how many single mum's are here, so in the same vane Thai fathers scum also.
    I do hear and know what you say is true, but only know one divorced Thai lady and her and her husband are both teachers and she does get an allotment for her kids who are boarding at a school paid by the father, but a lot of kids live with grand ma and pa, while the daughter still works in the bar where she was selling pussy when she was knocked up and pays for the kids keep.
    But this is their country and it is up to them when both are local, but I am talking about a farang living with a Thai and then doing this, shows a poor accounting of his own opinions of self worth, and a good base for their UGLY FARANG syndrome.



    Quote Originally Posted by kk boy
    BG, ok start providing the ammo for the Thai guys that are living near you who have left their children
    As I stated,, I personally know none, altho there is bound to be some as it happens in all 3rd world countrys, And there is no social stigma goes with the mother working in some whore house bar and sending money home to support the kid and her parents, expected to happen unless she is sold to some dude to marry her, and then most likely pull the same trick when she gets a few miles on the clock.

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    Terrible news.
    Hope you can do something for the poor little blighter.
    Can always send him to Nawty's farm.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Travelmate
    Hope you can do something for the poor little blighter.
    Seems not, I thought some bad shit that first night, but then my wife told me the "Rest of the story" at last as much as she knows, and the little dude is being raised by his mom, who loves him and he is happy with his life, but he knows no better, likes being a farm kid, which both I and my wife are farm kids.
    She was raised by her parents on the same land that her brother and a sister farm today and I was raised on a 10,000 acre cattle ranch in Central Oregon.
    So the kid is better off, specially if his mom gets a small shot of Baht a month for his needs,, than he would be being raised in Songkla in the south.
    But I do look for his life to be a little rough as Thai are a racist bunch and he does not even look any Thai from what my wife says.
    I raised my daughter from 3 days old until I sent her home from here to start to school, and I never treat kids as babys or children, they are just little people and have ideas and thoughts that need to be listened to and considered when making and enforcing rules.
    They need to be taught to think and make decisions and with proper care they can surprise the hell out of you and develope a personality and ways of life and habits that are OK if just given a little direction at times.
    My daughter could carry on a conversation when she was 4 or 5 that made people think she was just a young looking 9 or 10 year old and were shocked when told her true age.

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    There were two other Luk krueng I met at your wifes school, both seemingly
    pleasant natured good looking boys.
    They didn't look like they had any farang money behind them, are they in the same predicament?

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    Quote Originally Posted by nidhogg
    I hate the fact that so many of these kids get abandoned by the farang fathers. Scum.
    Probably a lot less than those who were abandoned by their Thai fathers and now have the good fortune to be raised by a Western father.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marmite the Dog View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by nidhogg
    I hate the fact that so many of these kids get abandoned by the farang fathers. Scum.
    Probably a lot less than those who were abandoned by their Thai fathers and now have the good fortune to be raised by a Western father.
    Also a valid point mate.

    I know of several cases wherre the farang father did a runner, but conversely, as you point out, many cases of Farang fathers raising Thai kids as there own with the Thai father nowhere in sight.

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    Its also possible that the kid's mother doesn't have the foggiest idea who the father is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blackgang
    So the kid is better off, specially if his mom gets a small shot of Baht a month for his needs,
    Back to the OP. Question - does the school provide breakfast or lunch for the kids?

    While the thought of donating money is certainly altruistc, it is better to give things, such as food, clothes, personal hygiene products. How about if you set somethng up with a local food vendor or cook for one meal per day - like their dinner?

    You could always round up donations of clothes for both mom and child from people that you know. People could also donate things like toothpaste, toothbrushes, soap, shampoo, powder etc. Even this forum is a good communication tool.

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    Is there any organisation for doing anything about getting abandoned look-khreung kids?
    I mean, surely, many of them could have some kind of jus sanguinis claim to succour from their farang country?
    I think a bit of positive racism might be needed here to fix this problem... god knows they could be prime targets for so many truly evil fuckers.
    All of us who've got look-khreung can't help but look at a kid like that as "one of ours", surely?
    You think of all the asylum seekers who get more help than these kids, who've clearly got more right to the help by blood alone, never mind anything else.

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    She must have the guys full name, get country etc and send details to his home country or embassy. I think if the right people found out, he would be up for some sort of support for his child...legally I mean.....I think, correct me if countries like US and UK do not give a toss about care of kids by its citizens overseas.

    Think they do, afterall, if the father is say US....then does'nt the child have the rights to choose US citizenship later of if it can be proven the father is US ??
    Damn good thinking Nawty, and I will follow up on it as you are certainly correct, and if he does qualify for a passport I will see that it is done, I got one for my daughter who was born in Mexico and she was just 3 weeks old when I had her US Passport and citizen born abroad birth cert.



    Quote Originally Posted by natalie8
    Back to the OP. Question - does the school provide breakfast or lunch for the kids? While the thought of donating money is certainly altruistc, it is better to give things, such as food, clothes,
    My friends gave money to my US bank and I would transfer it here and buy what we had decided, what ever was needed and even bought books as well as food and clothing, but I will never give money as to damn many Thai like white whiskey to well.
    The school does furnish milk and feeds lunch, but he seems to not be in to much need, except for being a small kid, so it is now time for the milk, as my wife's daughter was a skinny small knobby kneed girl when we married, with milk forced on her and daily vitamins and my cooking full coarse meals every evening she is now 20 years old and a foot taller than her mother and outgrew her cousins.
    I am a firm believer in good beef and Veggies and spuds, as anyone who has eaten at my house can verify.
    My supper tonite, My wife had bought some Thai shit for herself, so I had 2, 3 full CM NZ beef striploin steaks, cooked just until the pulse got weak, and a spud cooked in the micro.
    God damn, if you only buy the NZ 21 day aged meat you will fall in love with it.

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