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    Do Thai women come on to you ?

    Well , I've followed Smegs BTS thread with interest but it made me think about the other side of the coin. Back in the U.K. I don't recall women hitting me up for a date every time I hit the streets , but over here .... well its a different story.
    At least two or three times a week I get some flirtatious woman giving me the come on.!! Sure, it doesn't mean much but the point is that if I asked for their phone number or a date .... THEY WOULD AGREE !! Who knows where it would all end up if you followed it through ? Who needs bars anyway ? So my question is ..... Why ?
    Is it the money ...... They want a sugar daddy
    Is it sex ................ They want to sample some falang muff diving
    Is it love ............. They want a decent guy to love them

    Some of these women are as bad as the old falangs on the BTS , not that I'm complaining. Too bad I'm already taken.

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    That is a bit naive really

    it could be any or all three reasons

    every woman has a different viewpoint, I am sure

    I sympathise with you, it must be very difficult to be polite

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    Less wealthy Thai women see love and money as the same thing - they'll "love" the man most likely to share lots of cash with her. Farangs are therefore seen as a likely prey.

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    fukin idiot

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    twat

    CMN has stolen my password

    Andy thinks that they don't

    maybe they see security though, so a farang would be a good partner. There would be lots of anti-mixed marriage stuff to overcome.

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    I know this is a Thai based forum but can we group all these threads together??

    Easier then to avoid!

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    Interesting OP,

    In the UK women would often flirt openly, and I was often groped in crowded wine bars. Girlfriend's friends would overstep the mark after too much to drink.

    Here in Thailand, Thai women are shy of me. They can hardly look me in the eye.

    I'm never propositioned. Never approached.

    Maybe it's the way I conduct myself here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Michael View Post
    I'm never propositioned. Never approached.

    Maybe it's the way I conduct myself here.
    Hopefully you'll soon wake up to the fact that flopping your dick out in front of them doesn't work.

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    ^ Though it is still fun.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DrAndy View Post
    fukin idiot

    knowitall

    twat

    CMN has stolen my password

    Andy thinks that they don't

    maybe they see security though, so a farang would be a good partner. There would be lots of anti-mixed marriage stuff to overcome.
    He did that to me on subzero also, now I'm banned

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    Not normally, no. However, as soon as I put a suit and a decent shirt on, to go to a burning or a wedding for example, I tend to get loads of offers. It is not something that I am used to, but very enjoyable none the less.

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    I tend to get the older ladies come on to me. Never the twenty somethings that I want. Damnit! I get looks from the younger ones, but that's it. I've been told due to my unusual height, that a lot of them are a little bit scared of me. I'm a mere 6'4".

    The black cape, fangs and howling might also be an issue.
    "Slavery is the daughter of darkness; an ignorant people is the blind instrument of its own destruction; ambition and intrigue take advantage of the credulity and inexperience of men who have no political, economic or civil knowledge. They mistake pure illusion for reality, license for freedom, treason for patriotism, vengeance for justice."-Simón Bolívar

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    unfortunately they only come on to me if I'm in a whore bar.

    oh, well , such is the joy of being a z-male!

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    Answer to the OP- constantly, why- I suppose it is the prospect of hauling in a good provider which in many 3 world country's is what love is about, and at a certain level it is just the same where we come from, big money/power tends to make men very sexy/desirable irrespective of their looks, a good example is Bernie Ecklichsnot I'm sure most of you know many more.

    Do I believe that I as 51 years old is super sexy and hansom, no way, I know what is going on here, do I enjoy the attention I get because I have more money than most Thai men, sure I do in a discrete and polite manner, why not?

    But some of the old, fat, ugly, brain-dead, slobs that couldn't score if their life was dependant on it back home where they come from, prance about out here with 20.000-50.000 bath pensions/income/holiday budget behaving like they really believe they are Gods gift to all women, they honestly make me cringe sometimes, you should think that most men have just a minimum of self-awareness and some sense of reality, but no I'm afraid that is to much to ask for looking at many of the types of men choosing to come to Pattaya.
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    Quote Originally Posted by larvidchr View Post
    But some of the old, fat, ugly, brain-dead, slobs that couldn't score if their life was dependant on it back home where they come from, prance about out here with 20.000-50.000 bath pensions/income/holiday budget behaving like they really believe they are Gods gift to all women, they honestly make me cringe sometimes,
    Amen, Sister...good for you
    Don't let them touch you for just 50,000 bths!!!

    Just loooove everything you said, esp the cringing part

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    Quote Originally Posted by Loombucket View Post
    Not normally, no. However, as soon as I put a suit and a decent shirt on, to go to a burning or a wedding for example, I tend to get loads of offers. It is not something that I am used to, but very enjoyable none the less.
    Thats about it for me too. When I'm slobbed out .... zilch , but if I make an effort
    a lot more posative results. I think they like to see a guy well groomed for sure. I've recently met a girl who is not looking for love or money but is only interested in bonking falangs. She reckons we are more ' lamok ' ( lewd ? ) and she wants to try it all before she meets Mr. Right. Nice attitude but I can see that I'm Mr Wrong already. Still, fun while it lasts.


    By the way ..... I don't live at the Grand Palace. How did that get there. LM charge on the way ?

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    I've been told by enough Thai women for it to have at least some merit (incl. my wife when we first met) that I come across as unfriendly. More than one have actually used the word scary.

    So to answer the question no, not really.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smeg View Post
    Less wealthy Thai women see love and money as the same thing - they'll "love" the man most likely to share lots of cash with her. Farangs are therefore seen as a likely prey.
    After all the time you've spent in Thailand you still don't get it... Probably the reason why you are so bitter and continue to incessantly flog this dead horse...

    In most asian cultures, financial stability equates to love & security for a woman and often her family... Not so with their independent western, feminized sisters... Western men have this on offer and is a primary draw for their flirtatious behavior... That is until they find out you're a 30K baht per month English teacher...

    Everyone, everywhere is seeking not only love & respect, but security... Why do you find this so hard to comprehend???

    As far as the OP, as I posted on the other thread, I get hit on frequently in SEA countries... While in the west, I'm just another over 50 victim of fate and invisible to most women I would even consider going out with... For me this is a primary reason for moving to SEA... I don't really care about the semantics of whether it's morally correct or not...
    Give a man a match, and he'll be warm for a minute, but set him on fire, and he'll be warm for the rest of his life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Muadib View Post
    After all the time you've spent in Thailand you still don't get it... Probably the reason why you are so bitter and continue to incessantly flog this dead horse...
    I think that's pretty obvious by now -- he loves to blame his own failures on external factors, like an entire country and its people - Smegs is the ultimate in not assuming personal responsibility...

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    Why would anyone come on to a miserable old cnut like me?

    Fekked if i know, but she does, every single day bless her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AntRobertson
    I've been told by enough Thai women for it to have at least some merit (incl. my wife when we first met) that I come across as unfriendly. More than one have actually used the word scary.
    Me too, until they get to know me better or I've had a few beers.

    I can't quite bring myself to be one of these grinning idiots that one sees so many of.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marmite the Dog
    I can't quite bring myself to be one of these grinning idiots that one sees so many of.
    Thai grinning idiots, or farang?

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    I was once in Tha Khek (opp Nakhon Phanom) in Laos, and a family of street vendors pounced on me... mum and dad tried offering me all but one member of their family (the only remotely fit one), finally the dad offered me his rectum after turning down his wife.
    The feller looked like an oriental John Prescott... I thought they were having a laugh at first, but there was almost a tear of sincerity in his eye.

    [and when I say "tear", i mean rhyming with beer; and when I say eye I don't mean the muddy one].

    Got plenty of "ooh falang lor, my flen yoo, i lie yoo velly velly" almost everywhere I went in Isaan... but then I was in my twenties with a superman shirt on... had to run from burly ladyboys... fuck me, my tuppence must have been worth more than palladium by the ounce]

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    Ok, to help you decide why it is Thai woman come on to you;
    First, please remove all you clothes and in a well lite room stand in front of a full length mirror.
    How could any girl not want that?

    Ok, I registered for the first time after being a lurker here for most of this year and know as a newbie my say doesn't hold much weight. I just couldn’t keep my mouth shut anymore, but I followed my mother’s rule that if you can’t say anything nice don’t post anything.. And I kept the goods stories to myself.

    Cheers

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    I do find this a little difficult to believe.

    I have known young, very good-looking farang men, who may have been approached once in 2 or 3 years, but twice a week. Do me a favour.

    However, after my first few years (in the days before owning a car) of travelling everywhere on the BTS in shirt, tie, trousers and shoes, getting a few smiles. But one day, I got dressed up in my wedding suit to go and give a corporate presentation and it was a totally different story. I could have got a few phone numbers.

    But, I honestly don't believe that anyone would get hit on 2 or 3 times a week, unless you were walking along Patpong or Nana.

    Quote Originally Posted by Bangyai View Post
    Well , I've followed Smegs BTS thread with interest but it made me think about the other side of the coin. Back in the U.K. I don't recall women hitting me up for a date every time I hit the streets , but over here .... well its a different story.
    At least two or three times a week I get some flirtatious woman giving me the come on.!! Sure, it doesn't mean much but the point is that if I asked for their phone number or a date .... THEY WOULD AGREE !! Who knows where it would all end up if you followed it through ? Who needs bars anyway ? So my question is ..... Why ?
    Is it the money ...... They want a sugar daddy
    Is it sex ................ They want to sample some falang muff diving
    Is it love ............. They want a decent guy to love them

    Some of these women are as bad as the old falangs on the BTS , not that I'm complaining. Too bad I'm already taken.

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    I haven't had much of a problem since i purchased a big shitty stick to fend them off.

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