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    The being cheated on thread

    Has it ever happened to you and how did you feel about it?

    My first girlfriend became my first wife, we were together from the age of 14. 13 years down the line we had a daughter and some dogs and stuff.

    Then I started noticing that she was often on the telephone when I was arriving home (could see her through the window) and that she would hastily put the phone down before I opened the door.
    I knew full well what was going on and waited for the months itemised phone bill, none was forthcoming.
    I called BT and they told me they had been told we didn't want an itemised bill that month. I told them I bloody well did want one.

    2 days later the bill arrived, full of calls to an unknown number. i had my suspicions as to who it was and called. i was right. i was devastated. Some nasty shit happened, i was forced to leave my house and my daughter and my dogs. it took about 2 years for me to get over her.
    It is the reason I'm here now.

    In retrospect it is possibly the best thing that could have happened.

    As a footnote, she married the cnut and had 3 more kids.

    Have you ever been cheated on and how did you take it?

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    not really - i'm usually the one who has been doing the cheating and doing the cockolding!

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    Yep, I have, but he wasnt 'serious' about the other one (he said), and was shocked to his socks when I packed my bags.

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    i was a faithless/ feckless **** with my blighty bird, with her for 9 years from age 17, lost count of the number of indescretions i had
    lived with her for 3 years in thailand, good for a while then same old, went to japan leaving her here and then she dumps me

    couldn't believe it, was gutted for a month
    then hooked up with a japanese ballet dancer

    i wasnt cheated on as far as i know but it felt like it, silly **** that iam

    been with the wife for a year, not ever strayed once
    changed man me
    we won it at wemberlee
    we on it in gay paree...

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    Quote Originally Posted by ChiangMai noon
    As a footnote, he married the cnut and had 3 more kids.
    Harsh - I imagine you're expecting a bit of sympathy and some serious answers - myself, I think she did the right thing, after all he had a bigger cock and more money.

    Who needs enemies when you've got friends like me!

    I haven't knowingly bee cheated on, my girlfriends were usually too lazy to lie about it, they just told me to fuck off.

    I'm feeling a bit bad now, I didn't mean what I said above.....it wsa your BO and lack of personality that made her leave.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Needle dick
    after all he had a bigger cock and more money.
    i know he had more money and I asked her about the cock size. She said that his was indeed bigger, i was hurt until i realised that she was a pathalogical liar.

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    My first g/f was when I was 16 nearly 17. We stayed together until I was 21.

    We had a pretty good first year but after that it went down hill. I was controlling and wasn't exactly the straighest path follower. She was a private school girl who had never crossed the line.

    I gave her her first pill, her first joint, her first line of sniff, her first shag and I was a ****, she was a bitch and it was all a bit strange.

    We should have separated after two years but we carried on sticking it out. She liked the lifestyle and I needed somebody who made me look respectable in front of my folks and to keep me from completely losing the plot.

    Near the end of the relationship she was living with a group of friends, I was still living on my own had been for 4 years.

    We both had separate lives and new people to shag yet we still were seen as an item. Every so often we would spend time with each other.

    THe last time we were together at a party my mate lost it big time and started talking to invisble men and pouring candle wax into the bath (we were at somebody elses house)

    I had to take care of him to make sure that he was ok.

    My missus to be ( we were engaged at that point) shag of the moment came around and the nicked off to the bedroom to get it on whilst I had to take care of Phil the Snake and his invisible friend.

    When I had eventualy got PTS to go to sleep in the spare bedroom I cam back to the party to find my missus to be just coming out of the other room with her shag.

    My mates and her mates were sort of sat there with this shocked look on their faces as I looked up. They whispered and mubled to each other about it. THe missus to be off her tits sat across the **** Chris's legs and talked to him.

    My mates asked me if I wanted him soted out. There was no need my phone was ringing and my bit on the side was outside waiting in a taxi.

    The next day the missus to be and I met up and agreed that it was probably time to stop.

    I was only pissed of with the Chris kid cause although I led her astray I knew her limits and when she had done too much. He on the other hand let her do as much as she wanted and get into a complete out of control mess which was never a pretty sight to see.

    She kept the ring - 1000 quid gone but what can you do.

    Odd times thinking back on that.

    I would really like to track her down and say sorry for being such a **** and messing her up like I did.

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    My story is a bit unusual. I was married for almost 20 years but often away on business and although tempted never strayed.
    for other reasons the marraige was strained and then one night when I was away a young lady calls my home and says she has been having an affair with me for some 3 months called me by name and left a number with my wife for me to call back.
    Both our names we listed in the telephone directory so it appeared obvous we were married, my wife caled all the possible numbers in the area simialr to the one left. No one there. Just a silly prank but to all intents and purposes it was the end of the marriage and when falsely accused again a short while alter I walked
    No idea who it was, no affair happened and it would have been nigh on impossible in my home area as I was always on the road but if I were to find her ......

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    good post quibble.
    I gave my Thai wife her first pill, actually a half of a half, bare in mind she doesn't even drink but a pint a month. She was fine one minuite, the next she kind of lost her eyes, they were all white and fluttery.
    of course i did the right thing and ran away straight into the internet cafe opposite where I buried my pills in a plant pot. Kept looking towards the bar where my good friends were rubbing her gently on the back and sorting her out.
    She was fine a couple of hours later, apparently, i was halfway around the moat by this point thinking about deportation.

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    Does it count if I'm there too?

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    Does it count if I'm there too?
    No it doesn't.
    i've got a story about that too, but will save it for another thread.

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    CMN

    That is a life I left long ago.

    Never again will I do things like that.

    I have terrible memories of the missus to be tearing up the house looking for valiums or when she went on a rock bender one weekend of snapping open the pipe to scrape the insides out whilst my mate cooked her up some more.

    I was a **** to get her involved in that and it wasn't fair to do that. She may have done it in her own time but I should never have accelerated the process.

    One of my few regrets I have.

    When I was back in the UK a few friends still said she was on the clubbing circuit driving around the country at the weekend off her tits.

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    Was seeing this limey bird at uni for 2 years.

    Everything was awsome till she said it was over out of the blue one day.

    Found out she'd been shagging my best mate for two weeks.

    Some of em are like monkeys, don't let go of one branch till they got a firm grip on the next.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Squirrel
    CMN

    That is a life I left long ago.

    Never again will I do things like that.
    Oh yes, I wasn't complimenting you on what you had done to her, it was the last bit I was complimenting you on.

    Odd times thinking back on that.

    I would really like to track her down and say sorry for being such a **** and messing her up like I did.
    My story is nowhere near similar as my wife is pretty normal really... ask changmai, didn't affect her long term at all, other I think that she is a little more broad minded these days and doesn't think all drugs are evil and wrong and stuff.

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    Is Changmai your wife then?

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    Not that I know of, maybe..... I'm sure that it would hurt real bad if it happened. and I knew.

    I do think that the situation can come in more than one flavour. Sometimes a partner (male or female) can just be a slag who is willing to break a bond of trust to satisfy a short term physical want. In other cases a person may just fall out of love with one person and fall in love with another. This can be difficult and painful if the person involved has commitments in a relationship. However, if their emotional attachments have genuinely changed I'm not sure that they can be crticised for it; although I would not condone the deception which is sometimes involved.

    What is interesting is the attitude of some males to these situations. The comparision of the macho 'I shag around' boast to the snivelling, bitter, twisted 'how could she, the bitch' collapse which occurs when it happens to them.

    Good thread CNM and good OP. I'd give you a green, but Nick said not to, and he's the boss.
    Back off Margaret, you're on a sugar rush!

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    I have a friend who found out her husband (after he had left) had been cheating on her for five years with her best friend.

    They set up house together quite close to where she lived.
    This was about ten years ago and she has never got over it and I dont suppose she ever will.

    I think she thought it was a double betrayal and she was a real mess for a couple of years.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Covertjay
    Was seeing this limey bird at uni for 2 years.

    Everything was awsome till she said it was over out of the blue one day.

    Found out she'd been shagging my best mate for two weeks.

    Some of em are like monkeys, don't let go of one branch till they got a firm grip on the next.
    hehehe, nice one.

    I don't know if I've ever been cheated on.
    I'm too busy cheating myself.
    Would I care?
    Nah.

    Are you the real 'Covertjay'? by the way..

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    Quote Originally Posted by danbo
    In other cases a person may just fall out of love with one person and fall in love with another. This can be difficult and painful if the person involved has commitments in a relationship. However, if their emotional attachments have genuinely changed I'm not sure that they can be crticised for it; although I would not condone the deception which is sometimes involved.
    That knocks the nail about as squarely on the head as you can.
    My wife had simply stopped loving me and fallen in love with someone else, not sure which happened first, but from what i can gather he was her shoulder to cry on dude at work.

    A further aside, my daughter is well adjusted and happy.
    It didn't work out so badly and he obviously is a decent sort of bloke.
    Last edited by ChiangMai noon; 29-05-2006 at 03:15 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ChiangMai noon
    My wife had simply stopped loving me and fallen in love with someone else, not sure which happened first,

    It would have been far better for you though, if she had left the marriage before cheating.

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    Cool

    Quote Originally Posted by poolcleaner
    Quote Originally Posted by Covertjay
    Was seeing this limey bird at uni for 2 years.

    Everything was awsome till she said it was over out of the blue one day.

    Found out she'd been shagging my best mate for two weeks.

    Some of em are like monkeys, don't let go of one branch till they got a firm grip on the next.
    hehehe, nice one.

    I don't know if I've ever been cheated on.
    I'm too busy cheating myself.
    Would I care?
    Nah.

    Are you the real 'Covertjay'? by the way..
    The one and only mate.

    Many sties.................one net-handle.

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    Luckily I'm still single, so I haven't had to worry about been cheated on. :-/

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    ^You can never be too sure of what those imaginary girlfriends get up to when you're sleeping....trust me on this....

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    Fuck! Now that you mention it...


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    Danbo, I thought you had got over the fact that Flo, the rubber doll, has done the nasty on you with Action Man

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