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    Anyone have close Thai female friends?

    I am not talking about friends that are related to your g/f or spouse. Anyone find it difficult to maintain friendships once you are in a relationship with a Thai girl?
    My ex hated a Thai women friend I had with a passion. I met her before my g/f, and we would just talk on the phone and exchange English books (she went to an international school). We never had sex and there was no attraction. She didn't like Indian guys and I don't like Asian girls that look Chinese. But my g/f would go into these jealous rages after she called. Was that just my own situation, or do you have Thai g/fs that see all other Thai women as a threat?

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    Are you an Indian then njdesi? Red or brown if I'm not being too personal?

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    Brown. Desi means people in Hindi.

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    so does nj mean mr or male?

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    Me. I do. I got a friend who is female and Thai. She is great fun. Well educated and everything. Why do you wanna know desi?

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    Quote Originally Posted by njdesi
    Brown. Desi means people in Hindi.
    I'm having awful trouble with brown Indians. You see the ppl. I work for decided to outsource a shed load of work to a s/w house in Dehli cos they work cheap over there. Problem is that it's just dawning on the management (fokwits) that if you pay peanuts, you get monkeys. I warned em' I did... ole' Harry warned them. Now we've gotta send some white ppl. over there to straighten them out. Well I'm not going back there again, not after last time.

    Carry on!

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    Cap,
    Do you have a Thai g/f?

    Harry,
    I don't work in India. My last job, I was a supervisor in the US. I had two white staff members and an intern working for me. I've never worked in an Indian company or supervised them. I can't give an informed opinion on their work ethic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dirtydog
    so does nj mean mr or male?
    Not sure if you are taking the piss.
    nj means New Jersey.

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    Quote Originally Posted by njdesi
    Cap,
    Do you have a Thai g/f?
    Not per se desi. One of our members here is a friend, a gal and a Thai but she aint a girlfriend in the 'eat breakfast together' sense of the word.
    Just someone I like and encourage. Mind you she is a bit gorgeous I think.

    Why desi?

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    The point is, when I am in a relationship with a Thai girl I have trouble maintaining friendships with other Thai women.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Captain Sensible
    Quote Originally Posted by njdesi
    Cap,
    Do you have a Thai g/f?
    Not per se desi. One of our members here is a friend, a gal and a Thai but she aint a girlfriend in the 'eat breakfast together' sense of the word.
    Just someone I like and encourage. Mind you she is a bit gorgeous I think.

    Why desi?
    A Thai girl who you are talking about, is it me?
    :roll: just wonder if i am a bit gorgeous

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    Thai girls are jealous type. I think if you guys describe them well, they will not get that jealous.

    Myself, I am jealous hahahaha but I'm a reasonable girl in the same time too. If I understand things, it's hardly to get jealous.

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    CS

    You sly dog you.

    A virtual g/f.

    Got to move quick CS or she will be snapped up - trust me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Goddess of Whatever
    Thai girls are jealous type. I think if you guys describe them well, they will not get that jealous.
    It might just be my poor language skills then.
    In Thai:
    "She friend me. I give book. No have sex." ops:

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    Maybe she's a difficult one then.. make up your mind, njdesi.

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    Quote Originally Posted by njdesi
    The point is, when I am in a relationship with a Thai girl I have trouble maintaining friendships with other Thai women.
    Fuck yeah.

    I could take home a one legged, one armed, 98 year old leper........but if it's a she the missus will accuse me of 'loving' her. Just had a few pictures taken with a Thai 'superstar' and now my wife reckons I've got something going with her (like she'd touch me with a bargepole). Now if I have farang birds come around I have to make sure they bring their boyfriend....and I'd not even think about bringing a Thai bird home regardless of how mooselike she might be.

    I swear though they don't get jealous really, they just do it 'cos they think they should or some fucked up reason like that!
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    I have a steady friendship with a Thai girl and apart from the CIA/KGB level of security to hide it from my missus it's working quite well.
    At present I make regular contributions to help her out paying bills, buying some food etc. It's just like having a second wife really!

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrsquirrel
    CS

    You sly dog you.

    A virtual g/f.

    Got to move quick CS or she will be snapped up - trust me.
    No I aint a sly dog Mrs Q.
    Lets put our cards on the table here mate.
    Yes I am talking about The Goddess. Over the past little while we have been chatting, as friends do. I have come to like her, as friends do.
    You may not be aware but I recently fell truely madly deeply with a lady in America who I met while at Thaizine. We took it beyond virtual and our lives are now tangled up in blue. When virtual meets reality honesty becomes all so important.

    Though I appreciate your advice about moving quickly Mrs Q, I will not heed it. If the Goddess wants to relate to me as a friend there is no need for speed.

    I dont know what your interest is in this Mrs Q, but I am more than happy to admit that the Goddess and I are friends. I find her to be quite charming, funny and honest with me. That is what I like about her.
    Actually, there is a great deal that I like about The Goddess but lets keep it real Mrs Q.


    (Sorry Goddess, but now everyone knows that we are friends. So what.
    I hope that you are not offended by this post but I am just being honest.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Goddess of Whatever
    Maybe she's a difficult one then.. make up your mind, njdesi.
    Maybe I should have used the past tense in my post. Decision was already made. I broke up with her. That is a story for another thread.

    I know poolie's missus doesn't enjoy having a young Thai girl call his mobile.
    As for your steady "friendship" with the otter girl, that may lead to another poll. Which teakdoor member will have his member fed to the ducks?

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    I had some really wierd situations with my missus

    Just before I met her I had a two week fling with a farang teacher here - that was al it was just sex.

    We stayed friends and i met my missus then - then after the farang girl left the missus found out i had boned her and accused my of having a relationship with her even though she was in the UK?

    Another friend MUK who had helped me get settled in town - i never saw again lreally get really upset when she found out that I had a g.f and my missus then hated MUK as well for having helped me setup my house.

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    :up:wtf?

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    Saying she caused me problems with friends

    Sory captain are youa bit slow today?

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    I am a bit slow most days Mrs Q. I like it like that. You on the other hand are being extremely vague.

    ok so I have put two and two together here but it dont make any difference what so ever.

    The Goddess is my friend, she is Thai and that was what this thread was about.

    Carry on. I am just gonna watch for a bit now.


    Grrr.

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    CS, stop saying anything because you don't know me well.

    Noone knows me and I don't want to cause anyone problems.

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    Bloody hell, I give up.

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