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    Thinking of someone else

    How long are you with a partner before you start fantasizing about someone else while having sex? I'm extremely happy with my wife, but still think about someone else while doing it, not that I fancy them more than my missus or anything, but I think its to do with being able to step back and imagine it, whereas in real life you don't really see anything.

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    no, i fantasize about my wife when i,m haveing sex with someone else

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    My mind plays tricks on me on purpose and I get a visual of a huge hairy obese male arse

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    ^ cover the mirror with a sheet or tell him to shave.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BigRed
    fantasizing about someone else while having sex
    is this just a fancy wank ?

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    I think I'd start looking for a new wife. Dodgy territory this, especially if mid-fantasy you start coming out with names!

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    no fantazing, just f*ckin'

    We need not get deep. That is what porn on the laptop is for.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BigRed
    start fantasizing about someone else
    I prefer deep.

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    I think about something like kingwilly's avatar when I'm on the job.
    Does wonders for my staying power and helps to hold off the inevitable.
    On the gravy stroke I must admit to thinking about my wife.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Loy Toy View Post
    On the gravy stroke I must admit to thinking about my wife.

    I take it she reads the forum then?

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    Shouldn't the more important question be who is your wife or girlfriend thinking of during sex?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fast Eddie View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Loy Toy View Post
    On the gravy stroke I must admit to thinking about my wife.

    I take it she reads the forum then?
    She doesn't FE but I have no problem about telling her that I am thinking about her. Probably be happy if she new I have publically announced my feelings.

    I would suggest you read the thread topic with A>D>R.

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    ^^Naaaa Who cares?

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    I think Big Red has created a good thread which can be split in a number of directions.

    I would never be jealous if my wife admitted to liking another male because of his looks. (say a movie star)
    I also have no problem about commenting how beautiful I thought a woman was and to my wife. I feel we all appreciate the beauty of a woman but that doesn't mean we wish to sleep with that person.

    Sure, I believe we all fantasize about other woman and I believe this is normal human nature. Woman most probably do the same but that doesn't mean they would wash their socks. I fantasized about my wife and before we became partners and whilst the sexual spark is not the same as the first visits the love is stronger than ever.

    I frequent the bars of Pattaya regularly and really enjoy having a crack with the girls and sometimes a bit of a grope. Buy them a few drinks and a tip when I'm leaving and thats it.

    I also am proud my wife knows who I am but also knows that I have better at home so I never get questioned. Her confidence in herself and in me is something I treasure.

    I finally think fantasizing about someone else during the act of sex is fairly common for both sexes and like masturbation some people are too shy to admit it.

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    When having sex with the wife, i'm too busy concentrating on what i'm doing to think of anyone else, however if i wake up in the morning with a woody and she's not there and i decide to crack one of, i think all sorts of dirty thoughts that don't involve her. They normally involve this girl though........

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    Does wanking count ???

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    Quote Originally Posted by buriramboy
    When having sex with the wife, i'm too busy concentrating on what i'm doing to think of anyone else, however if i wake up in the morning with a woody and she's not there and i decide to crack one of, i think all sorts of dirty thoughts that don't involve her. They normally involve this girl though........

    I'd more or less go with this version.

    In fact the few times I have let my mind stray to thoughts of another gal i suddenly find myself losing stiffness, I just cannot do it. I've always been like that, can only think about the gal I'm with ....

    anything else just interferes with the process..

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    Quote Originally Posted by dirtydog
    Shouldn't the more important question be who is your wife or girlfriend thinking of during sex?
    Isn't that to take it a bit to far....

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    I think about my misses and three other women!

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    I've always said..... It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, so long as you eat at home.

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