Am I the only gay man around here?

**ralphinlaos** · 06-06-2008, 12:56 AM

I am a 58 year old gay American, retired from the US Navy, and presently teaching English in Thakhek, Laos (just across the Mekong River from Nakhon Phanom, Thailand). There is no gay activity in Thakhek (that I know of) and I'm wondering if anyone knows of any gays in this area? Maybe in Savannakhet or Pakse? Do I have to go to Thailand to find gay friends? Does anyone know anything about the Nakhon Phanom or Udon Thani area (I'm about a five hour bus ride from Udon Thani and am getting just desperate enough . . .). Thanks for any suggestions.

It's lonely out here; I'm about to make a pact with the devil!

**jandajoy** · 06-06-2008, 12:58 AM

There are various forums you could engage in your search for companionship. The best is probably Thai visa.
They are very pro gay with an active membership of gay moderators.
I'm sure they'll help.

**jandajoy** · 06-06-2008, 01:00 AM

Errrr, small question. "You're about to make a pact with the devil"

What's that mean?

**jizzybloke** · 06-06-2008, 01:01 AM

NO FLAMING, NO ABUSE OR ANY NASTINESS tolerated in this section.

Hello RalphInLaos, good luck with your search.

**jandajoy** · 06-06-2008, 01:01 AM

Oh, and welcome to the Forum

**jandajoy** · 06-06-2008, 01:02 AM

??????

**Morden** · 06-06-2008, 01:24 AM

Welcome, Ralph.

It can't be much fun being the only gay in the village. There must be some potential friends here too, although I don't know who they are or whether any of them get up that way (Udon). Try also www.notstickman.com. - the owner there might be able to point you in the right direction.

I tried a Google search:

Thailand Forum -> Gay People in Thailand

Sawatdee Gay Thailand Forum

BAHT STOP - A Posting Board for Gay Thailand -> THAILAND FORUM

There are many more websites but this sort of thing is not for me so have a look yourself - Google on 'gay forum thailand'

You should be able to find some company there somewhere.

**dirtydog** · 06-06-2008, 02:31 AM

I didn't think they allowed pooves into the American navy, suppose they do now.

**jandajoy** · 06-06-2008, 02:40 AM

"There will be, NO FLAMING, NO ABUSE OR ANY NASTINESS tolerated in this section."

Who wrote this?

**sabang** · 06-06-2008, 02:44 AM

Well, Ok then ur Gay. Most of us are Miserable here, but welcome to TD.

**jandajoy** · 06-06-2008, 02:46 AM

I'm not miserable. I'm as happy as a lark.

**darksider** · 06-06-2008, 04:28 AM

I'll get my coat

**NickA** · 06-06-2008, 07:31 AM

Do you want farang gays, or will laos gays do?

Maybe you aren't camp enough... wear pink and practice some wrist limping exercises, some raging queen will pick you up soon enough.

**kingwilly** · 06-06-2008, 07:37 AM

Originally Posted by NickA

Maybe you aren't as camp as I am... I always wear pink and practice wrist limping exercises, and a lisp and usually some raging queen will pick me up soon enough.

hmmm, if it works for you.

**Rigger** · 06-06-2008, 07:59 AM

I think I maybe gay as the wife just told me that three sexy girls I was throwing pingpong balls at were guys

**Dalton** · 06-06-2008, 08:27 AM

Originally Posted by jandajoy

I'm not miserable. I'm as happy as a lark

That's because you don't connect to reality mate...

**Dalton** · 06-06-2008, 08:28 AM

Originally Posted by Rigger

I think I maybe gay as the wife just told me that three sexy girls I was throwing pingpong balls at were guys

Good to come out of the closet Rigger...

BF will be proud of you..

**NickA** · 06-06-2008, 08:31 AM

Originally Posted by kingwilly

hmmm, if it works for you.

You are definitely gay as you are about as funny as having something big shoved up your anus

**Gallowspole** · 06-06-2008, 08:35 AM

I thought there were plenty of village people in Laos. Don't think they have a navy, though.

**Butterfly** · 06-06-2008, 09:44 AM

We have a GAY teacher section here, all with GAY colors and GAY themes,

TD is very GAY friendly, despite the old HETEROS trying to bully all the GAY members here,

**ChiangMai noon** · 06-06-2008, 09:46 AM

sometimes I feel the entire forum is bursting with homo erotic frisson.

Danbo, July 23 2006.

**WeekendWarrior** · 06-06-2008, 09:50 AM

If this is the gay forum why is it a dull pale off blue colour and not mauve or lilac or something ?

**Ivor Biggun** · 06-06-2008, 09:58 AM

Originally Posted by ralphinlaos

Am I the only gay man around here?

I think you've made a big mistake in announcing that you're gay, on this forum. As someone has suggested, try Thai Visa forum.

**Gallowspole** · 06-06-2008, 10:00 AM

Originally Posted by WeekendWarrior

If this is the gay forum why is it a dull pale off blue colour and not mauve or lilac or something ?

It might be a halfway house gay forum - some members may still like to be a little bit manly.

**kingwilly** · 06-06-2008, 10:23 AM

Originally Posted by NickA

You are definitely gay as you are about as funny as having something big shoved up

so homosexuality is defined as lacking a sense of humour?

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