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    Bargirls.

    I was out playing pool with young Pooly again last night. It is one of his favourite venues and I can easily see why. The gals in 'Afterwork' dont crawl all over you but do attend to your drink refills and stuff. Its more like a gentlemans club than a pool bar.
    Anyway, what struck me most about the gals in 'Afterwork' is that they seem to be a cut above those gals who spruke outside the myriad of bars.
    Naturally this thinking lead to a conversation between myself and Pooly about these gals. Pooly knows most of them quite well and treats them all very well. Like a gentleman in fact.
    Pooly told me that these gals have hearts of gold in his opinion and I have to say that I have begun to change my thinking on the whole bargirl issue.
    I suppose what I am saying is that there are bargirls and there are bargirls. If that makes any sense.
    A lady that I was talking to in 'Afterwork' told me that she had a day job as well and worked in 'Afterwork' because she enjoyed it.
    Bear in mind that these gals can still be barfined but thier overall role is one of a hostess more than anything else.
    Last time I was there a shout of Hoorah (but in Thai) went up and when I asked what that was for it was explained to me that one of the gals had been barfined. It happens infrequently and the gal who had been barfined looked as though she had won the chook raffle and was embarrassed to go up and collect her prize. Somehow I felt happy for her like her co workers and the other patrons.
    Given that pooying are brought up to serve the menfolk it seems only natural for them to take thier hostessing seriously as well.
    Seemingly, when it comes time to play hide the sausage, these gals take that chore equally seriously and more than that I believe that they too enjoy the sex. Good on 'em I reckon.

    Anyway, I have been here 5 weeks so naturally I know everything about Thailand and its culture.

    I suppose my western sensibilities have been challenged again but on this occasion I have, with the help of our Pooly, been able to keep an open mind.

    There, I have said it.
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    The bar scene caters for all Thai girls. Up in Bkk you get students doing it just to suppliment an income to help further their studies. Indeed in some of the go-go bars in Pattaya you will find them half butt naked on the chrome poles. But they can & do refuse a barfine, simply because its just the wage they are seeking.

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    Captain, I am becoming slightly concerned by the track of your mind.

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    I think what he is trying to say that 6 weeks ago he would never pay for sex, he has now learned that in the long run it is cheaper to pay for sex

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    For the past several years I have moonlighted at RU on Saturday mornings teaching Hillbilly/Amerikan English. My classes have included supreme court judges, police, Thai teachers, business people, university students, dark influences and bar girls.

    I have seen some bar girls had they be given a different path in life might have been politicians, policeman or judges.

    Everyone screws someone...

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    But lawyers always fok you, and with you the most.

    And if CS takes one back to OZ he will need a bloodsucker. Enjoy mate dont Fall!!!!!

    Sadly you are dealing with a commodity.

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    oh, i misread the title.. thought it said 'bargains'

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    Quote Originally Posted by aging one
    And if CS takes one back to OZ he will need a bloodsucker.
    and she'd need to be certified insane to want to spend the rest of her life with him

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    It's a bit of an alternative to the 'would you marry a bar girl' topic that's done the rounds of all Thai forums.
    It's always been my view that, unlike the west where a lot of prostitutes are not suitable for marriage, and indeed not interested in marriage, here the girls are doing an accepted line of work and in many cases looking for a farang husband.

    If you want an educated wife you can take to HiSo parties to rub shoulders with DJ Pat and co., then no, a bargirl is not for you.
    If you want someone to have fun with and who will look after you, the right bar girl can be an excellent choice.

    They make up the majority of my good friends in bangers!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by poolcleaner
    If you want someone to have fun with and who will look after you, the right bar girl can be an excellent choice.
    and just what is the right bg?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Harry
    Quote Originally Posted by poolcleaner
    If you want someone to have fun with and who will look after you, the right bar girl can be an excellent choice.
    and just what is the right bg?
    I reccommend no.34

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    My choice is #88.

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    Anyone fancy 69?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Captain Sensible
    Anyway, I have been here 5 weeks so naturally I know everything about Thailand and its culture.

    I suppose my western sensibilities have been challenged again but on this occasion I have, with the help of our Pooly, been able to keep an open mind.

    There, I have said it.


    so did you not enter this murky depth during your Kanchanabui years or were you just a wholesome old chap back then?

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    l have seen the same phenomenon happen in a few of the bars up Soi 33. There are bar girls and then athere are bar girls. Some have real hard core heads and others do have hearts of gold. there is no way of telling, just by looking. l had one ask me if l wanted to marry after 4 weeks. l laughed it off, but next week when l tried to bar fine her, she soad she couldn't go with me as her Polish boyfriend had come to town. Fair enough l thought. Then l got a call from her a week or so later to tell me she was going to marry and live in Poland. She has a little girl now, about 4 years old and l get the odd e mail message from her. l have net her husband and both he and she both thanked me for taking good care of her, just before she left. Like l said, l only knew her for 4 weeks, but we are still in contact, l make it apoint to catch up with her when she returns every couple of years to see her family. l have also met her daughter and get pix on a fairly regular basis. Bar girls are a mixed bunch, but there are many decent ones.

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    Quote Originally Posted by colourful-era
    Quote Originally Posted by Captain Sensible
    Anyway, I have been here 5 weeks so naturally I know everything about Thailand and its culture.

    I suppose my western sensibilities have been challenged again but on this occasion I have, with the help of our Pooly, been able to keep an open mind.

    There, I have said it.

    so did you not enter this murky depth during your Kanchanabui years or were you just a wholesome old chap back then?
    You bastard colourful. hehehe I am almost grown up now mate. 'Wholesome old chap?'
    Well I suppose I might have been.

    Lets just say that I know more now. In the same way that I am older than I once was and younger than I am gonna be.(nicked from Paul Simon).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bwana Brad
    l have seen the same phenomenon happen in a few of the bars up Soi 33. There are bar girls and then athere are bar girls. Some have real hard core heads and others do have hearts of gold. there is no way of telling, just by looking. l had one ask me if l wanted to marry after 4 weeks. l laughed it off, but next week when l tried to bar fine her, she soad she couldn't go with me as her Polish boyfriend had come to town. Fair enough l thought. Then l got a call from her a week or so later to tell me she was going to marry and live in Poland. She has a little girl now, about 4 years old and l get the odd e mail message from her. l have net her husband and both he and she both thanked me for taking good care of her, just before she left. Like l said, l only knew her for 4 weeks, but we are still in contact, l make it apoint to catch up with her when she returns every couple of years to see her family. l have also met her daughter and get pix on a fairly regular basis. Bar girls are a mixed bunch, but there are many decent ones.
    i hope you told the polish bloke of your bukkake parties with his former wife

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    Quote Originally Posted by Harry
    Quote Originally Posted by Bwana Brad
    l have seen the same phenomenon happen in a few of the bars up Soi 33. There are bar girls and then athere are bar girls. Some have real hard core heads and others do have hearts of gold. there is no way of telling, just by looking. l had one ask me if l wanted to marry after 4 weeks. l laughed it off, but next week when l tried to bar fine her, she soad she couldn't go with me as her Polish boyfriend had come to town. Fair enough l thought. Then l got a call from her a week or so later to tell me she was going to marry and live in Poland. She has a little girl now, about 4 years old and l get the odd e mail message from her. l have net her husband and both he and she both thanked me for taking good care of her, just before she left. Like l said, l only knew her for 4 weeks, but we are still in contact, l make it apoint to catch up with her when she returns every couple of years to see her family. l have also met her daughter and get pix on a fairly regular basis. Bar girls are a mixed bunch, but there are many decent ones.
    i hope you told the polish bloke of your bukkake parties with his former wife
    Of course, but there was no need to go into graphic details. We are all adults in this case. l would like to think we handled the situation fairly well, as in with a mature and honest approach.

    l also got an invite to their wedding in Poland which l could not attend, but l have a standing invite to go stay with them on their apple farm, which l will take up, if l ever get that far.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bwana Brad
    Of course, but there was no need to go into graphic details. We are all adults in this case. l would like to think we handled the situation fairly well, as in with a mature and honest approach.

    l also got an invite to their wedding in Poland which l could not attend, but l have a standing invite to go stay with them on their apple farm, which l will take up, if l ever get that far.
    i find this calm acceptance of woman sharing quite disgusting. it's one thing to take on a bird whose come out of a long-term relationship but to knowingly take on some bird who's been reamed in all orifices five times a night every night by anyone with a dollar, is sickening. i guess i've just led a sheltered life.

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    i find this calm acceptance of woman sharing quite disgusting. it's one thing to take on a bird whose come out of a long-term relationship but to knowingly take on some bird who's been reamed in all orifices five times a night every night by anyone with a dollar, is sickening. i guess i've just led a sheltered life.
    I have to agree with you Harry. I have this sickening feeling they could be talking about my mia noi.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Harry
    Quote Originally Posted by Bwana Brad
    Of course, but there was no need to go into graphic details. We are all adults in this case. l would like to think we handled the situation fairly well, as in with a mature and honest approach.

    l also got an invite to their wedding in Poland which l could not attend, but l have a standing invite to go stay with them on their apple farm, which l will take up, if l ever get that far.
    i find this calm acceptance of woman sharing quite disgusting. it's one thing to take on a bird whose come out of a long-term relationship but to knowingly take on some bird who's been reamed in all orifices five times a night every night by anyone with a dollar, is sickening. i guess i've just led a sheltered life.
    Either we are all whores or else no one is. Not all bar girls will go home with every Tom's dick. if you can't tell the difference between two different bar girls, which one is worth more than one night and which one is not, that is your watch out. Geez, l am no choir boy, l have been around the block once or twice and l ain't exactly in show room condition these days either. Sometimes, though it is possible to meet someone who is worth the effort, regardless of their background. Now back to the monastry with you, almost time for lights out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Harry
    [ i find this calm acceptance of woman sharing quite disgusting. it's one thing to take on a bird whose come out of a long-term relationship but to knowingly take on some bird who's been reamed in all orifices five times a night every night by anyone with a dollar, is sickening. i guess i've just led a sheltered life.
    Would you do Lily Thai at all Harry?

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    Quote Originally Posted by poolcleaner
    Quote Originally Posted by Harry
    [ i find this calm acceptance of woman sharing quite disgusting. it's one thing to take on a bird whose come out of a long-term relationship but to knowingly take on some bird who's been reamed in all orifices five times a night every night by anyone with a dollar, is sickening. i guess i've just led a sheltered life.
    Would you do Lily Thai at all Harry?
    i've got an avi where she's doing 12" of mandingo meat, so after that, no i would most certainly not do lily thai. he wasn't even wearing a condom the filthy bar steward!

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    Quote Originally Posted by aging one
    But lawyers always fok you, and with you the most.

    And if CS takes one back to OZ he will need a bloodsucker. Enjoy mate dont Fall!!!!!

    Sadly you are dealing with a commodity.
    hmmm. I take it our next dinner is off then mate

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    Cap, where is this bar 'Afterwork' (if that's its real name)?

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