Thread: Nagging Thai wife

Originally Posted by Latindancer

My wife doesn't nag me at all. If anything, I nag her because her English is so atrocious and she's incapable of remembering the simplest things about it...like verbs, tenses, putting "s" after plural words, or inverting subject and verb in a sentence when asking a question. Even after living here in Oz for 5 years and studying English 3 days a week for the first 2 years.

She reminds me of how a Buddhist monk once described Thai women to me : "lovely people, but not much upstairs. But really....the nicest women you could meet !". The thing is though, she does have some brains....just not for language.

so let her be. stop beating up on her FFs.

not sure ive ever been naged , i had a wife who never stopped being jealous, now that was hard work. i treat my female companions the same as my mates, my mates can express opinions different to me, sometimes evolving into arguments, but it never flows over to naging. so how a female mate would differ is beyond me..... maybe the blokes that feel naged are just not giving their mates equality.

They're probably not shagging their mates.

Wait........

There is an old joke along the lines of "I never knew there was a right way to put milk in the fridge - until I was married".

Every woman I have ever told that to (including my mother) has always looked at me like I was mad and said along the lines of "Of course there is a right way to put milk in the fridge".

Trouble with a few Thai marriages in the UK, it's based on how much the next Thai has got and how much borrowing it will take to outdo them

Originally Posted by nidhogg

Every woman I have ever told that to (including my mother) has always looked at me like I was mad and said along the lines of "Of course there is a right way to put milk in the fridge".

...if you don't put the milk in the fridge in the proper rotation, some of it may spoil...common sense really...

^ *Nagging American Wife Alert*

...^if repeated educational notice prevents wastage, it's not nagging...

Originally Posted by DJ Pat

Trouble with a few Thai marriages in the UK, it's based on how much the next Thai has got and how much borrowing it will take to outdo them

Indeed, they do like to show off.

Is it something they grow out off when they become fat and old or does it get worse?

Originally Posted by DJ Pat

Trouble with a few Thai marriages in the UK, it's based on how much the next Thai has got and how much borrowing it will take to outdo them

In some respects, the same criteria applies in Thailand also. However, ultimately it's dependent upon the nature of the relationship/marriage, and whether the spouse/partner particularly cares. If they do, you know there's a problem. Tip. do not borrow.

Originally Posted by PAG

Tip. do not borrow...or lend

...ftfy...

Originally Posted by tomcat

...^if repeated educational notice prevents wastage, it's not nagging...

A bit moot.
What one should be questioning is the health myth that is associated with cow's milk.

...*cough*...particularly if every glass of cow's milk comes with a nagging reminder of the (presumed) dangers...much as health-conscious folks offering repeated warnings to smokers as they light up...

Originally Posted by tomcat

...*cough*...particularly if every glass of cow's milk comes with a nagging reminder of the (presumed) dangers...much as health-conscious folks offering repeated warnings to smokers as they light up...

Indeed, TC.
Lighting one up as we speak.


Nagged.

No I am not. But she is quick to tell me when I am driving like a "crazy man" at the top of her lungs .

"Nagging", "bitching" or "complaining" are terms us men use when a women is telling us what to do and we do not wanna hear it. All women complain in one fashion or another. Its their make up. How much we think they complain totally depends on how much we listen.

A funny line I once read was. My wife came up to me and said "You weren't listening to one word I said were you?" and I thought to myself "Man that's a funny way to start a conversation"

Originally Posted by JPPR2

All women complain in one fashion or another. Its their make up

...unfortunate generalization...

One needs to set some basic ground rules when a relationship gets past the "out for dinner back to her place for a quickie and then wipe your knob on the curtains as you say goodbye" stage. Lady Cow never nags but one could say gently "chides" on occasion, usually with a "jai yen yen" or similar. I in turn, quietly bite half way through my tongue with nerry a word, as I wait at the door for 30 minutes from the time she said "hurry up we should leave now darling".

My wife has never in 20+ years nagged me.

She does offer the occasional timely reminder.

I took in my neighbours cat when they went on holiday.
She hated me and nagged me when it slept on her black shirt

I told her if she didn't have a black shirt, it wouldn't have happened.

''But you bought me that shirt'' she said

Originally Posted by cyrille

My wife has never in 20+ years nagged me.

She does offer the occasional timely reminder.

I have been blessed in that my first wife (21 years) and my current one (7+ years) have never "Nagged" me. When they have had enough of my antics they just say it and I nod with a smile and move onto something else that they likely will not approve of.

Well if a woman asks a man to fix something around the house he will fix it, there's no need to remind him every three months, that's just nagging.

Originally Posted by tomcat

...unfortunate generalization...

Which is reflective of the invented dumbing down process.

Less evolved.

^Peever triskelion solander, pyroclastic liripipe cyanic bezoar.

Broken potatoe.

^Whom are derivation of society norman, obviously.

Excessive melange.

What of the nagging husband?

Imagining that doesn't exist.