Marrying a bar gal. Would you? Did you?

[Captain Sensible]

Yesterday, Pooly, the dog and myself were out looking for somewhere to have a nice lunch. As we walked past one place a number of gals who were sitting outside called out for us to come inside. We decided to look at the menu and went inside.
I was shocked, as when we entered we saw gals playing pool with no singlets on.

Anyway, they were all very nice and it was explained to me that these gals were called 'bargals' because they like to hang out in bars.

A very pretty gal asked me if I wanted to 'take care her' and I bought her a nice drink and asked her if she wanted to play a nice game of backgammon. I have to say that she was very friendly and we just seemed to get along from the start.

I was shocked when Pooly explained to me what her job was there in the bar and at first I didnt believe him.
The conversation continued and I found myself staring at my backgammon opponent wondering what made her decide to wrestle with falang for a living.
Pooly went on to explain that it was very likely that she was doing that job in order to find a husband. I though that this was a sort of 'try before you by' situation.

Anyway, it occured to me that, although she was very attractive and clearly ensconsed by my natural, windswept and interesting looks there is no way that I could or would ever having any kind of a relationship with her simply because she has had 3 kilometres of cock through her.

Call me fickle if you like or maybe even prudish but to my way of thinking marrying a gal like that is just not on.
I dont care how good she is at backgammon.

Am I right to think this way, or am I bringing my western sensibilities into play too much?

Would you marry a bar gal?

[ChiangMai noon]

Marrying a bargirl is a little bit lazy isn't it.
Smacks a bit of desparation to.

There are lots of nice ladies out there so why on earth would anyone want to put themselves through that sort of misery.
I once had a bargirl girlfriend who refused to leave unless I gave her 10.000 baht.
I called in some harder bargirl friends of mine to get shot of her.

There is no hope for a bar girl marriage, none at all and I have yet to be proven wrong on that score. Bar girls are there to be shagged once if that's your cuppa tea.

They are all, without fail...BAD apples.

[otherstuff1957]

3 Kilometers of cock? OK, here's a quick analysis for the trivial minded amongst us. First, let us assume that the average cock is about 15cm long. So, 3K = 300,000cm/15= 20,000 cocks!!!

Hmmm, gives a whole new meaning to the term "high milege".

[Marmite the Dog]

There is no hope for a bar girl marriage, none at all and I have yet to be proven wrong on that score. Bar girls are there to be shagged once if that's your cuppa tea.

How long do they have to be together before you consider the relationship a success?

[ChiangMai noon]

How long do they have to be together before you consider the relationship a success?

It's not really a question of length of service, more the happiness involved. I'm sure anyone in a happy relationship could consider it to be a success pretty much pronto.

Trust seems to be the issue. Without trust, hapiness gets jettisoned.

I can't think of a category of people less trustworthy.

[Marmite the Dog]

I know of two who are very happy together, but I agree with what you are saying.

Do you get a life membership to ThaiVisa if you marry a bar-girl?

[ChiangMai noon]

Bargirls can be great fun, especially if they come with free drugs and swinging type friends, but marriage is kind of different.

I know of two who are very happy together,

in which case, I shall retract my original statement and suggest that 99% at the very least of these relationships are doomed to the knackers yard. Admittedly this is only slightly higher than the UK divorce rate.
Hell, I even managed to get a divorce in turkey where the rate is about 1.9%

[ChiangMai noon]

BTW Captain... i understand the temptation, truly I do but give yoursel a couple of months to re-acclimatise before you go commiting yourself.

[kingwilly]

i wouldn't marry ne1 - but if i was stoopid enough to do so again - then y not a bar girl - at least you know wot ur in for!

[DrAndy]

How long do they have to be together before you consider the relationship a success?

It's not really a question of length of service, more the happiness involved. I'm sure anyone in a happy relationship could consider it to be a success pretty much pronto.

Trust seems to be the issue. Without trust, hapiness gets jettisoned.

I can't think of a category of people less trustworthy.

I got to disagree with you on this CMN. You are lumping all bargirls into the one category, and, of course, all sorts of girls become bargirls.

Yes, there are those who make a profession out of it and are there just to get as much money as possible, dishonestly or otherwise. There are also those who find it the quickest way to make money to pay for some family crisis etc. Maybe the only job they can find.

I only know one bargirl well enough to judge, she is our housemate. I would say she would make a great wife and she is more honest than I am.

However, she is not a girl who sells herself, just a normal girl who wants to meet a nice farang to fall in love with. She works in the bar, not in the bed, so maybe she is not the several kilometre girl Capn is talking about.

[Captain Sensible]

BTW Captain... i understand the temptation, truly I do but give yoursel a couple of months to re-acclimatise before you go commiting yourself.

Heavens above noon, I wasnee tempted at all. I was just thinking what makes a gal do that and wondered what everyone else thought about bargals. i have to say that all the gals were very nice to us. One of the gals even took Pooly upstairs to show him something.

[ChiangMai noon]

She works in the bar, not in the bed

Not the type i was referring to either.

then y not a bar girl

Oh dear.
Funny text speak.

[kingwilly]

She works in the bar, not in the bed

Not the type i was referring to either.

then y not a bar girl

Oh dear.
Funny text speak.

koh tod next time i can speek angrikit na!

[seth106]

I was chatting to a mate of mine over the holidays and he was telling me about a mutual mate that moved back to Scotland with his missus (BG out of Pattaya) and their little lad. Upshot is that she pissed of with some local lad(about her own age) and left matey to take care of the kiddy. He has been seriously ill and the lad was taken care of by the social because she wouldn't come and lend a hand. Sad, real sad.

[Marmite the Dog]

Heavens above noon, I wasnee tempted at all.

You lying b'stard!

[Captain Sensible]

Heavens above noon, I wasnee tempted at all.

You lying b'stard!

Spelling Marmers, Spelling. Tsk.

I was sitting. :CS:

[Marmite the Dog]

...or dancing...

[Captain Sensible]

...or dancing...

Specifically, I was teaching pole dancing but that was actually the night before.*hands on hips*

[poolcleaner]

...or dancing...

Specifically, I was teaching pole dancing but that was actually the night before.*hands on hips*

&%# ) 9 *& ^%$ ........########### something about those missing nine minutes....=_08*%@#@!!

Ooh the scramblers not working well tonight!

[Storekeeper]

Hell, I even managed to get a divorce in turkey where the rate is about 1.9%

What compound did you meet her in ?

[ChiangMai noon]

The Turks are pound for pound the most beautiful women I have ever come across, up to the age of about 30 that is.

And SK.
Up your bum.

[DrAndy]

well CMN, some of them are big girls!! I did have a couple of Turkish g/fs some time ago, they were nice

and Storekeeper is a very rude man, only because he is scared to be so at Ajarn

[Storekeeper]

The Turks are pound for pound the most beautiful women I have ever come across, up to the age of about 30 that is.

And SK.
Up your bum.

Ever met a Guamanian woman ?

[ChiangMai noon]

mmm, lovely

[DrAndy]

pity you are not in the shot CMN, would have made the reason for her nipples being hard obvious