Thread: "Thai man no good!"

Originally Posted by dirtydog

and i took poolie to a temple, what a foking waste of time....

Not to mention the traffic, the heat and the lack of suitable rear seating in your Ferrari.
Why would I want to see yet another temple?

Originally Posted by friscofrankie

Originally Posted by poolcleaner

I'm tempted to agree with you FF, in fact I'm tempted to read the whole post as well!
But I know it's a thinly veiled attack on the Poolcleaner and his chosen lifestyle and so I have to make a stand.

Nah man, just jealous. When Iwas in my 20's & 30's I be out and about with the bargirls sometimes I might notget home for a few days. Send a runner with some cash to the ol' lady and I was havin' the time of my life.

I'm with a non bar girl who regualrly utters the thread's title quote.
I really have no use for mainstream Thai society, not as long as I'm within a 4 hour trip of cheap bargirls.
If I were in a position to retire here, I can't imagine not spending my time with bargirls..........I love them.
There the most fun people I've met

I agree they're lotsa fun once they stop that "you pay bar for me' shit, usually after they get to know you; when I 86'd the wife I enjoyed the patrying and late nights a bit. Fuck man I was big as a fickin' house (6'2" 230) and 51 years old, always been ugly.
Had these lithsome, young lasses hangin' all over me. Whenever one'd get a mite clingy, and I asked 'whachoo want with a fat old motherfucker like?' and they'd answer "You jai deee!! Thai man no good!' i think i'd be excused for not believin' 'em.
Nowadays, after two three nights on a run, I'm good for a couple-three months. Guess that's why I'm sittin' here finishing the botle o' port and you, are carryin' the torch for us semi-retired types.
Don't matter if she's a BG or no, good or bad, ain't got nothin' to do with it. a bad experience can make a lady say these things. Just because it's said over and over doesn;t mean everytime's a lie.
Still think if you're a bettin' man when you hear that phrase from a damn-near stranger and her soft, sweet 20-something fragrant flesh is pressed against your fat, fuckin, hairy ol' belly: bet con, you'll come out ahead.

IT is probably because I'm by nature a social creature and need to find a little home away from home that I make one bar my regular. I do become part of the furniture and get to know the girls fairly well but one of the ways to get the best out of the girls is by being 'available'. The only problem occurs when you make a choice even if it's only a rental. Jealousies can be aroused, takes a cool head and a big smile to iron out the lumps but think of the prize!!! (the next girl)

Give me a few years and that fat guy in Pattaya limping along the seashore with a cute li'l 20 yo, or maybe two, will be me!!

Well-adjusted Thai families? How would you know? It's not as if they publicize their problems (like Americans, for example)...As Philip Roth wrote, you don't know the true status of marriage until you see the position of the couples' feet in bed at night...

I agree there's a world of difference between educated, upper class Thais and lower classes, but Thailand is mostly made up of the lower, lower-middle classes.

Even in the upper stratas of society, mia noi are a status symbol, infidelity considered a male right...And it's de rigeur to "act ashamed" of your wife (as one woman put it to me).

I've met plenty of women who have handed out the "Thai men no good" line and they didn't work in bars...They were all economically independent, middle-aged, and were either divorced or never married. And I've heard it over and over....This has nothing to do with bar life.

Look at the statistics for alcohol consumption, infidelity...In one study I read, it asserted 95 percent of Thai men had visited a prostitute by the age of 21...It's commonly asserted that sex stops in a Thai marriage once the children are born...In fact, it's considered unseemly for middle-aged Thai women to still display an interest in sex.

This situation isn't limited to Thailand, either...I saw the same thing in Japan...There was an article in a Japanese newspaper not long ago talking about the perference of Japanese women for farang men...Same reasons...They're mnore considerate, consult with their wives, aren't as prone to fooling around or devoting all their time to working...

Still don't believe it? Look at the marriage and birth statistics...Birth rate in Bangkok is below the replacement level...In Japan, it's the lowest in the world...40% of Japanese men in their 30's are unmarried...They can't find women to marry them...Singapore, the same situation...Everybody knows the ridiculous lengths the Singaporean government has gone to try to get women to reproduce.

Of the lot, though, Thai men are probably the worst...Because of the lack of education and the social acceptability of whoring, boozing, etc...Look at the prostitution industry here...You don't see that anywhere else (Hey, isn't that why a lot of foreign men are here and not somewhere else?).

dont understand your last post Waterman

but in the one before you forgot one of the worst traits, gambling

really a bad thing here

Originally Posted by Watermain

Well-adjusted Thai families? How would you know? It's not as if they publicize their problems (like Americans, for example)...As Philip Roth wrote, you don't know the true status of marriage until you see the position of the couples' feet in bed at night...

I agree there's a world of difference between educated, upper class Thais and lower classes, but Thailand is mostly made up of the lower, lower-middle classes.

Even in the upper stratas of society, mia noi are a status symbol, infidelity considered a male right...And it's de rigeur to "act ashamed" of your wife (as one woman put it to me).

I've met plenty of women who have handed out the "Thai men no good" line and they didn't work in bars...They were all economically independent, middle-aged, and were either divorced or never married. And I've heard it over and over....This has nothing to do with bar life.

Look at the statistics for alcohol consumption, infidelity...In one study I read, it asserted 95 percent of Thai men had visited a prostitute by the age of 21...It's commonly asserted that sex stops in a Thai marriage once the children are born...In fact, it's considered unseemly for middle-aged Thai women to still display an interest in sex.

This situation isn't limited to Thailand, either...I saw the same thing in Japan...There was an article in a Japanese newspaper not long ago talking about the perference of Japanese women for farang men...Same reasons...They're mnore considerate, consult with their wives, aren't as prone to fooling around or devoting all their time to working...

Still don't believe it? Look at the marriage and birth statistics...Birth rate in Bangkok is below the replacement level...In Japan, it's the lowest in the world...40% of Japanese men in their 30's are unmarried...They can't find women to marry them...Singapore, the same situation...Everybody knows the ridiculous lengths the Singaporean government has gone to try to get women to reproduce.

Of the lot, though, Thai men are probably the worst...Because of the lack of education and the social acceptability of whoring, boozing, etc...Look at the prostitution industry here...You don't see that anywhere else (Hey, isn't that why a lot of foreign men are here and not somewhere else?).

What do you suppose to mean?

^methinks he's repeating something he's read in an email...
"Thai man no good!"

I thought he made a lot of sense!!!!!

But then I think my posts are crystal to everyone too!

I always had this feeling that everyone in Bangkok is 'at it' a lot of the time. Fidelity doesn't seem to be a strong point for both Thai men and Thai women.

But, as with most things, there are plenty of exceptions, and I'm sure that there are many relationships based upon fidelity.

^
There are approximately 412 of them.
God, we are lucky.

My S.O. is hard-working, and (not a bar-girl) makes a decent wage for someone who left school at age 12.

She tells me that she don't like Thai men because they after her money.

Originally Posted by Asper

My S.O. is hard-working, and (not a bar-girl) makes a decent wage for someone who left school at age 12.

She tells me that she don't like Thai men because they after her money.

I can't believe she was hanging out with a couple of Frogs. Poor form if you ask me, mate.