0 being zero stress.
WebMD lists these as major causes of work and life stress. How do you rate yourself for each item?
For me now, I cannot think of a less stressful time in my life ever! So I've added my comments beside each item as they pertain to me.
Basically, put me down for about 0.25.
A - Work stress:
1 - Being unhappy in your job
I'm as happy as a pig in poo
2 - Having a heavy workload or too much responsibility
I deliberately avoided management positions/responsibiities in my recent job search. I've learnt from previous roles (aka Headmaster in Laos) that having to manage idiots (aka new campus building foreman) only leads to stress.
3 - Working long hours
Sure I do unpaid work at times for my school. But with in-class hours of maybe 4 hours max per day, I'm not working long hours.
4 - Having poor management, unclear expectations of your work, or no say in the decision-making process
I am generally left to get on with my job and to implement it how I see fit. I am appreciated for my opinion and experience.
5 - Working under dangerous conditions
There is the chance of being kicked in the nuts by a boisterous 4 year old, but the risk is low.
6 - Being insecure about your chance for advancement or risk of termination
I am not interested in any career advancement, except for the annual pay rise. The risk of termination does not appear on my radar.
7 - Having to give speeches in front of colleagues
I enjoy this! I regularly have to present training courses for teachers. I have no qualms about public speaking, even if I do spout shite.
8 - Facing discrimination or harassment at work, especially if your company isn't supportive
I am still waiting for sexual harassment incidents from the large number of female staff....
B - Life stress:
1 - The death of a loved one
My dear Mum and Dad passed on some years ago - I do think about them a lot, but in terms of happy memories.
2 - Divorce
Stressful? A time for celebration, at least in the last 2 cases.
3 - Loss of a job
I haven't lost a teaching job ever - In the past, I have resigned and moved on to better things, rather than deal with morons (agencies, directors etc, not my teaching colleagues).
4 - Increase in financial obligations
You must be joking. Buy what in Naypyidaw? The only financial obligation would be to a hot chick willing to take part in my perverse fantasies, but to date the money has stayed in the bank.
5 - Getting married
At my age, any apparent romantic approach by a woman would only be for love of my money (meagre though it is).
6 - Moving to a new home
Not on the radar until I finish this job and retire - I'm happy living in my hotel room. I'm not sure where I will retire to, maybe Laos or the Mekong region.
7 - Chronic illness or injury
As reported in other threads, I've taken up a new healthy diet and fitness regime, and can see/feel the good results. So I'm not stressed about illness or injury. I could drop dead of a heart attack of course, but there's nothing to indicate that this is on the table.
8 - Emotional problems (depression, anxiety, anger, grief, guilt, low self-esteem)
Despite my previous 'madness' in marrying the 'wrong sort' of Thai woman, I consider myself now to be emotionally very strong, self-confident, happy with my own company.
9 - Taking care of an elderly or sick family member
Sadly, there are none left to care for.
10 - Traumatic event, such as a natural disaster, theft, rape, or violence against you or a loved one
I don't fear violent or theft in Naypyidaw. It is an extremely safe place (full of military and police). A major earthquake is a remote possibility. I would welcome being forced to commit the worst type of sexual acts with my female teaching colleagues
All in all, I consider my stress level to be rock bottom, primarily because I managed to distance myself from my dysfunctional ex and her family, managed to 'exit' (albeit with substantial $$$ loss) my hotel business in Phuket, and managed to get the type of teaching job that I love (ie, not teaching in a language centre and being sent from one end of the city to t'other, but having classes of kids where I can see individual improvement on a weekly basis).
And you?