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    A Dilemma for some members: size

    I am encouraging members here to open up and discuss this problem and possible solutions.

    Over to you.

    Discuss....


    Sex Sexual healing
    Pamela Stephenson Connolly
    Monday 1 May 2017


    My boyfriend is wonderful and loving – but he has a tiny penis
    We have penetrative sex, but it is so small that I feel nothing and I fear that, if he’s to be my life partner, I may never again enjoy sex in quite the same way
    True intimacy is partly defined by the ability of each person to see and accept the ‘failings’ of the other.

    True intimacy is partly defined by the ability of each person to see and accept the ‘failings’ of the other. Photograph: Guardian Design Team

    After a series of unsuitable boyfriends, I have met a wonderful loving man. However, he has an extremely small penis. He can get an erection and we are able to have penetrative sex, but I often feel little to nothing, although he is a sensitive lover in other ways. I am full of regret that, if this is to be my life partner, I might never be able to enjoy penetrative sex in quite the same way again.

    Regarding relationships, what exactly is your goal? Is it to find the perfect person, or the perfect penis? Would you accept my word for the fact that neither exists? Your search for complete and utter satisfaction on every scale is likely to lead to disappointment, dissatisfaction and regret.

    True intimacy and wonderfully loving human connections are partly defined by the ability of each person to see and accept the “failings” of the other, and to accept and share one’s own shortcomings. You are at an early stage in this new relationship, but rejecting an otherwise “wonderful” man on the basis of his penis size may be very unwise, especially since he is a fulfilling lover in nonpenetrative ways. Most nerve endings that help trigger pleasure and orgasm are in a woman’s clitoris, not the vagina. And over time, needs and bodies change, and desire waxes and wanes. When judging a partner’s ability to be satisfying in the long run, the only reliable benchmark is his willingness to learn to please you.

    • Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a psychotherapist who specialises in treating sexual disorders

    • If you would like advice from Pamela Stephenson Connolly on sexual matters, send us a brief description of your concerns to private.lives@theguardian.com (please don’t send attachments).



    https://www.theguardian.com/lifeands...enetrative-sex

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    Was this written by bsnubs partner?'

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    I really do feel sorry for the small penised guys, there are support groups and depression counselling for them laid on.

    As much as women claim that 'it's not about size, it's about what you do with it' I think that's a load of bollocks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cold Pizza
    Pamela Stephenson Connolly
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    rejecting an otherwise “wonderful” man on the basis of his penis size may be very unwise
    Easy for her to say married to a bloke known as - 'The Big Yin'

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    Really should be in the Members section...Why whip it out in the lounge?...

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    ^^The hook line 'Put Your Head Between Them and Go Blbl Blbl Blbl' lingers longer in the memory than anything American Express really came up with.


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    Shouldn't this thread have a poll.?

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    The ladies may be "up and about" soon...

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    Tell him to stick it up her ass, she's feel that alright

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cold Pizza
    My boyfriend is wonderful and loving – but he has a tiny penis We have penetrative sex, but it is so small that I feel nothing and I fear that, if he’s to be my life partner, I may never again enjoy sex in quite the same way

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    SeekingArse has been outed...

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    Gotta admire the Chinese. They never complain about their 2 inches.

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    ^ 555...Why?...That's twice the normal size, innit?...

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    Isn't small penis size a reason BGs prefer the Japs? Less wear and tear I suppose.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GracelessFawn View Post
    Gotta admire the Chinese. They never complain about their 2 inches.
    It seems they are too busy endangering half of the world's wildlife in attempts to rectify the problem.

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    shouldn't vapid pizza be limited to starting one thread or bumping one old thread a week ?

    maybe merged
    The Changing Workforce and the Micro-penis
    though this deserves to be quoted again

    Quote Originally Posted by Cold Pizza
    My boyfriend is wonderful and loving – but he has a tiny penis

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    They ought to have vagina tightening medication for women in these unfortunate circumstances

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    If its not about size then why aren't there 2 inch vibrators and dildo's?

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    Quote Originally Posted by buriramboy
    Was this written by bsnubs partner?'
    It was written by your mom you miserable little women beater.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dirtymacca
    If its not about size then why aren't there 2 inch vibrators and dildo's?
    Ah, but there are...

    Welcome to the Buffalo Board...

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    So, you've been window shopping Bboy?

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    Jaysus, they sell "magic bullets" and stuff at WalMart and any other pharmacy now...

    Used to be, you'd have to go to a "sex shop"...Was fun asking the cutie which ones she'd tried, however...

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    Quote Originally Posted by dirtymacca View Post
    If its not about size then why aren't there 2 inch vibrators and dildo's?
    You signed up to pass on this wisdom that is woefully incorrect?

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    Never mine or my friend Flasheart's problem

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