Originally Posted by
Watermain
Absolutely true, I'd say. I've heard so many horror stories...from the women themselves...when you can get them to talk. Drinking, whoring...I knew one women, the husband kept his mia noi at his mother's house...Another, the husband drank himself to death. When he died, she'd found out that he'd cashed out the life insurance policy and remortgaged the house to support his mia noi...The wife ended up with nothing...The mia noi had a life insurance policy, a house bought in her name...
A third, the guy hasn't worked his entire life...The wife supports the family...He gets up in the morning and immediately starts drinking...They've got five kids, she finally made him get a vasectomy, because he kept wanting to screw when he was drunk and she'd end up pregnant...
A fourth, a nice Thai woman...The husband's only home three days a week, spends the other time with his mia noi...
My maid, who came back from the holidays last year with a concussion because her husband had slapped her around...
I could go on and on...In fact, nearly every woman I've met who is or has been married to a Thai has had a similar story. It's can't just be coincidence...And then there are all the middle-aged women who have never married...They tell a similar tale...It's because they wouldn't marry a Thai men.
So are Thai men no good -- Yep. Sure, there are exceptions, but in general Thai men are dishonest, irresponsible, lazy, and arrogant...On the other hand, that's the way their mothers have raised them, so who's really to blame?