Thread: How would you react if your mate did your missus?

I reckon retirement isn't really working for Terry.
He seems to br becoming more and more belligerent and thick, like a jungle bunny.

I have no Mates, calling around anyway, My only real Mates are on here.
That's why I have no Mates, because the minute they lay their sordid eyes on the missus, I know what they are thinking.

^ I've had to buy the wife a burka for the same reason.

Originally Posted by terry57

The bright side is discovering your so called mate was a feltching peace of shit not worthy of breath and your wife was just a common gutter slut whore so you killed two birds with the one stone getting rid of both them.

Spot on there Terry - happened to me 10 years ago - fu*ked 'em both off and came to Thailand

This one's easy - fuck his mum!

^ Apparently she is up for it:

Originally Posted by Cujo

I reckon retirement isn't really working for Terry.
He seems to br becoming more and more belligerent and thick, like a jungle bunny.

personally. i'd be fucking annoyed with my partner. after all she is my mate first second and third. i don't consider her my chattel but do expect loyalty. no loyalty its goodby whatever the reason. includes my mates. my kids come first, my partner comes second, my mates fit in where they can.

Originally Posted by Boon Mee

Originally Posted by Cujo

I reckon retirement isn't really working for Terry.
He seems to br becoming more and more belligerent and thick, like a jungle bunny.

Careful with all the PC stuff. Didn't you post this?

Originally Posted by nidhogg

Originally Posted by NZdick1983

I am far from being a saint, but one thing I am proud to say, I have never messed with my mate's missus... no way, no how... it's just a simple matter of respect and honor between bros.
Besides, plenty of bitches to go around without doing that shite ay?

Bros before hoes, innit.
I had, note had, a "mate" who would make it a point to go round trying to shag girlies his "mates" were banging.
Sad really.

Originally Posted by terry57

Originally Posted by NZdick1983

I am far from being a saint, but one thing I am proud to say, I have never messed with my mate's missus... no way, no how... it's just a simple matter of respect and honor between bros.

Besides, plenty of bitches to go around without doing that shite ay?

I must say I do agree 100% and am happy to report I have never done that or had it happen to me.

But the up side is, if it did happen one must look on the bright side.

The bright side is discovering your so called mate was a feltching peace of shit not worthy of breath and your wife was just a common gutter slut whore so you killed two birds with the one stone getting rid of both them.

What goes round comes round Huh.

Originally Posted by boloa

“F**k with a mate’s missus, this is what ya gunna get”

If the Guy had taken better care of his wife and the state of their relationship then maybe the thought of sleeping with someone else would never have crossed her mind..........but he looks like a Redneck, so this sort of thing is par for the course I guess

Bros b4 hos - exactly. That's the way of honour and trust. Anything less is pure trash (IMHO).

Unfortunately, alcohol and/or drugs affects the thought-process of many individuals separately or in unison. Sometimes with some serious or very unfortunate repercussions.

As far as "If the Guy had taken better care of his wife and the state of mind of their relationship..." ; I don't always buy into that.
Case in point was an acquaintance that was a comparatively young , hard-working SOB in construction and built his family's fortune from scratch buying a home, two sets of wheels and taking care of his wife with two young ones at home.
He worked long hours and weekends - all for his wife and family's comfort and well-being.
This included the extra benefits of US Army Reserve duties some weekends.

The big push landed him on active duty roster in Iraq...four tours if I recall correctly at approx six months a piece.
The marriage didn't last. The last time I saw him he explained that his young wife couldn't understand his mind-set/ feelings about being in active-duty conflict nor could she play the nun sitting at home with two young ones. She found herself in the arms of one of his friends.

Being the man he was he simply moved on - the house was getting cleared out to be sold as she had moved out prior to his coming home from his last tour of duty.
I can't imagine the 'Dear John' letters that enlisted soldiers during times of war receive. How one must feel when they read the words from afar.

He could of easily killed his friend but didn't for the sake of the two children who had known his friend as 'Uncle".

I asked him how he was getting on and his eyes looked passed me.
I gave him a hug and wrote my number on a piece of paper and put it in his hand.
I told him that my wife and I were having dinner ready at seven that night and he was expected.
We talked a lot and I sincerely understood that his life/ his world had moved.
I also understood that counseling would be required and he would take time accepting that.

Previous to his deployment I had met his parents and asked for his Dad's phone number. He wrote it on a piece of paper. I had to get his family involved.
I understood that he would need help putting his life together. I think he well understood it too as I wasn't the first one that had made any suggestion along those lines.

We kept in contact for a couple of years and still exchange e-mails from time to time usually around holidays.
He sought counseling from many parties...mostly professional.
Thank the Lord he moved on and remarried.
A different outcome always was awaiting in the wings for a weaker soul.

Personally shagging a friend's wife is a big zero...same as the "Don't shyte where you sleep rule."
I just can't imagine how one's conscience can go through with it or how you could then view any chap talking with your future wife due to the 'what goes around comes around effect'.


It has never entered my mind though I have said to a friend about thirty years ago , "If for any reason that your willy should pass away early in life I'd be more than willing to stand in for you...from time-to-time of course."
He laughed and suggested we get another round of beers and replied , "I'll tell her that."
I replied, "No , please don't" , as we walked towards the bar. After more than forty years we're still mates.

Caveat: People that partake in open-sex, swinger-oriented relationships will condone this behaviour. Who knows - maybe one day I'll be one !

Most Farang leave their moral code of ethics at the airport on arrival and think anything goes in LOS (IMHO).
It's a free-for-all... shag-a-thon, do as you please type deal...

Put it this way, straight up - it's easier to find a decent Thai bird (or guy) for that matter, than a decent Farang bloke in Thailand in my humble experience.

Originally Posted by NZdick1983

Most Farang leave their moral code of ethics at the airport on arrival and think anything goes in LOS (IMHO).
It's a free-for-all... shag-a-thon, do as you please type deal...

Most farang that you know,

I had a mate in Aus who had similar happen to him , the guy owned his house so the mate went around one night with a few bottles of liquid fertiliser and wrote "I am a Cvnt " on his nicely manicured front lawn , after it rained The guy had to dig his lawn up and re turf it, weeks later noting could be proved

Slack
Didn't you know that in the southern hemisphere the trees grow into the ground

Just roots in the air.

If somebody shagged my missus....

Id shake his bloody hand!

Originally Posted by slackula

I haven't the heart to tell Terry, anybody want to step up?.

Originally Posted by baldrick

Didn't you know that in the southern hemisphere the trees grow into the ground

too subtle.

^ Yeah mate, most Farang that I know/did know, were like that *not all 'most'.

Although other Farang might have better luck with their circle of friends being paragons of virtue... just my experience ey.

Simple answer if my wife did, I'd have no one else to blame but myself.

Originally Posted by slackula

You know Terry, some people take great pleasure from learning a language after they retire.

Have you given that any thought? English would be an obvious one to start out with

Na, Don't do English, only Australian.

Originally Posted by NZdick1983

Although other Farang might have better luck with their circle of friends being paragons of virtue... just my experience ey.

I think we could sort it out this way.

We all go down the Pub and have a show of hands on.... " Who here would fuck their mates missus. " ?

The coonts who put their hands up could drink at one end of the bar and the humans at the other.

The thing is no one would put their hand up simply because they would not want to be labeled a scum suckin shit head.

These types work under the cover of darkness and never show their true colors.

Worthy of sweet fuk all.

Quite a good thread this one innit.

Originally Posted by Boon Mee

Originally Posted by Cujo

I reckon retirement isn't really working for Terry.
He seems to br becoming more and more belligerent and thick, like a jungle bunny.

Nah. This probably is though;