This is a genuine question to those with Thai wives (which seems to be a lot of you).
First let me say I have a deep respect for Thailand and Thai people. The women are cute, intelligent and treat men well (sometimes). But why is it that so, so many ex-pats are married? Is it just me who has a phobia of commintment?
I think, in general, ex-pats seems to be an adventurous bunch. And I share the mentality to get the fuck out of Europe, America, Australia or wherever else you come from.
But I don't get this marrigage business. Why do you feel the need to committ to the rest of your fucking lives with one woman? The easy answer is love I know. But to me, that is just an excuse. Is it because you don't think your life can be anything better? Do you truly want to spend the rest of your days with the same woman?
I know I am weird. But I LIKE being alone. I revel in not relying on people. It makes me strong. I have never been in love. Maybe I thought I was once, but as I have been told countless times, if you need to think you are not in love.
Someday I too will probably be married to an Issan girl, but until then, I fail to understand the huge attraction for marriage. Please educate me?