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    The power of "face"

    The missus has been selling up some of my stuff . After she fell out with the land lady she had a small two bedroomed apartment filled to the roof with our things. We were going to sell some of them and stick the rest at her mums later anyway, so she started the sale early.

    A big fat American **** that fills all the stereotypes for large Americans in one go. He started sticking his nose around asking about things. I can't stand the ****. He makes lewd suggestions towards my missus and makes jokes about her to me in front of her. He is the fat **** that I mentioned I had thrown out of my house a long while back for being a ****.

    He incidentally is married to a very intelligent Thai woman. Studied overseas has her masters is in her early forties and needed to get married and have a kid. She fucking regrets it now. The last time I saw him at his house two years or more ago the first thing she said in Thai was " look at that fat useless slob how can anybody live with that. What have I done?"

    Back to the story.

    The missus being the missus ignored my warnings of not doing business with him. He owes me some wedge and another friend some wedge not much but enough to keep him away so it's worth it. He bought an exercise machine, table and chairs and a printer from the missus. 12k a good deal.

    What I didn't know was he only paid her 8,500 and promised the rest in a few days.

    She called him several times and he fobbed her off. He then told her he would bring it around two days after she had to go to BKK for three weeks to take care of the shop there. She tried calling him when she was in BKK to give the money to one of our friends but he didn't answer the phone or deliver the money.

    The missus eventually called me and told me about the problem and asked what she should do. I told her she should have listened to me I had to do that at least once. I asked if she was really sure she wanted me to chase the money for her or not.

    Normally when something needs doing she doesn't ask me unless it's absolutely necessary since I believe in the direct approach to solving a situation. This time however she said nothing.

    I phoned up three friends and asked them if they had seen him in town. He had been mooching about. Did they have his wifes number or could they remember where she worked? They set about finding out telling the tale of how the cheap **** hasn't paid the missus for the stuff he bought.

    I called up a couple of Thai friends who have family working in the local government offices and told them I needed the office and number of his wife. No problem they said. I told them why knowing fine well that the story would reach his wife through one of many channels.

    I finally sent an email to my old director who was a neighour and a friend of an acquaintance of his wife. Same story a little less persecuting but still in need of the wifes mobile number.

    The **** contacted the missus yesterday three days after the phone calls had been made saying that he had been trying to contact her and that he had been around to her apartment to give her the money and she hadn't been there (he knew that) lying fat bastard that he is.

    She was a little worried as to what I had done but more than happy to know the money is there and waiting when she gets back this week.

    His wife on the other had is fucking furious with him. The story came in from several different sources through the Thai grapevine, office workers, neighbors and other foreigners wives in town.

    He won't be allowed to forget it in a hurry.

    Face is good. I like it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrsquirrel View Post

    He makes lewd suggestions towards my missus and makes jokes about her to me in front of her. He is the fat **** that I mentioned I had thrown out of my house a long while back for being a ****.
    What do you do when he does this?

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    I would point out that his wife had only married him because she was desperate and in reality not even the most desperate Thai girl would go near him.

    I then enjoyed asking him why he road around on a Honda wave 100cc and his wife drove his 1mil+ pick-up.

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    I would have twatted him a long time ago if he disrespected my misses

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    What would I have achieved from that. I would have got an earful from the missus for years to come and a sworn enemy in town. I could have played the politics card and had him ostracized but he did that himself.

    He is the stereotypical colonist who believes that he is from the developed world and therefore can do and say what he wants.

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    Telling the fat fcuker not to talk about your missus like that would be a start.Guys like him need to be told.When they actually realise what will happen if they don't shut up,they normally become quite quiet.....

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    I find berating better. Telling him to shut up is only a short term thing. Reminding him that his wife is only with him cause she was desperate to have a kid and has got him by his nuts is even better.

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    Protect your misses honour and hammer the fat seppo fuk next time you see him...is he a TD member by the way?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Little Chuchok View Post
    Telling the fat fcuker not to talk about your missus like that would be a start.Guys like him need to be told.When they actually realise what will happen if they don't shut up,they normally become quite quiet.....
    Some folks are too stupid to learn.

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    Is it Boon Mee ?

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    No, it's "Tchiowa".

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrsquirrel View Post
    What would I have achieved from that. I would have got an earful from the missus for years to come and a sworn enemy in town. I could have played the politics card and had him ostracized but he did that himself.

    He is the stereotypical colonist who believes that he is from the developed world and therefore can do and say what he wants.
    I'm with ya here mate !

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    It sounds like this guy is deserving of being thrown out by his wife onto the street.
    Unfortunatley that kind of thing normally only happens to guys that really dont deserve it but we can live in hope

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrsquirrel View Post
    A big fat American **** that fills all the stereotypes for large Americans in one go. He started sticking his nose around asking about things. I can't stand the ****. He makes lewd suggestions towards my missus and makes jokes about her to me in front of her. He is the fat **** that I mentioned I had thrown out of my house a long while back for being a ****.
    Sounds like a lot of weirdo expats I've come across in SEA.

    The missus being the missus ignored my warnings of not doing business with him. He owes me some wedge and another friend some wedge not much but enough to keep him away so it's worth it. He bought an exercise machine, table and chairs and a printer from the missus. 12k a good deal.

    What I didn't know was he only paid her 8,500 and promised the rest in a few days.
    Rule #1: never loan money to an expat in SEA.

    Rule #2: never accept payments (I know it's not you MrS, but your missus, but I had to rant.)

    The **** contacted the missus yesterday three days after the phone calls had been made saying that he had been trying to contact her and that he had been around to her apartment to give her the money and she hadn't been there (he knew that) lying fat bastard that he is.
    He is a total loser.

    I hope you can smack him. I can't stand people like this.


    Good on you and your efforts.

    Cheers, MrS.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Little Chuchok View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by mrsquirrel View Post

    He makes lewd suggestions towards my missus and makes jokes about her to me in front of her. He is the fat **** that I mentioned I had thrown out of my house a long while back for being a ****.
    What do you do when he does this?
    LC, if he was unwilling to smack the guy, I am surprised that his missus did not do something nasty anyway

    a kettle of boiling water would have been nice

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    I'd have to make it clear to a person like this that they were not welcome in my home, nor my company....I have a nice line in silent stares if you'd like to borrow one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DrAndy View Post

    LC, if he was unwilling to smack the guy, I am surprised that his missus did not do something nasty anyway

    a kettle of boiling water would have been nice
    Yes,I wonder if his missus knows about all this.Still though,if the yank can't take a hint and mrsS is a wee chap, then a large plank of wood could do wonders....

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    His missus knows. She used to tell mine and anybody else who spoke Thai about how disgusted she was with him.

    He lost his last job down to poor teaching - truth was on top of that he had complaints about him stroking teachers arms and students. The story got out as it did and before you knew it he had been looking up students skirts with mirrors. He did apparently have a class where he discussed who was the most beautiful in the class and who had the nicest body getting the girls to stand up and twirl around.

    LC

    I'm a fairly large chap but I don't really condone violence. I do condone tactical warfare though. It's amazing how easily stories spread when somebody has only had one complaint against him. A few embellishes of the truth here and there and suddenly you have a raving pervert who is completely unemployable.

    What is more satisfying. Cracking someone one for being a **** or completely cutting there legs out from under them, ruining their chance of employment completely in the town where they live and have invested all their hard earned savings into his wifes house and truck.

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