sometimes i think we get a bit spoilt in terms of how easy it is to find a new g/f in asia, so when u get a girl who actually wants a courtship and dates before things move forward, one can end up thinking bugger it, i'll find another. I'm sure i've probably blown off a few dozen, what may otherwise be great partners cos i just couldnt be bothered wooing them and all that shit. an d i'm not talking abt pay for play either.
so i have to get over the leaving of mrs KW - anyways there's this cute gal who works at a bar i frequent... she was acting all interested like, so i thinks to meself why nots?
then of course, there's no such thing as a barfine here, so she wants me pick her up after she finishes work ... roughly 2 or 3 am.
we go out once or twice and each time she wants to go home. fine.
then she does come back to my place - but is all kiss only no downstairs action.
ok i thinks she wants to be coy... anyway happens again, stays my place - sleep only - no hanky panky! wotz this all about anyway i thinks.
she had an aussie boyfriend for a few months b4 - so its not like she doesnt know what she's in for....
she's quite friendly with my mates gal - so i make the comment to him that - i'm dating the virgin mary.... well he tells me today apparently she is... - i'm not sure i wanna break in a virgin, too much hassle and all that, i'm guessing she looking for a husband - which i'm not real keen on being. its like they say about greyhounds - "they've gotta wanta run in the first place before you can teach them"
so what would you guys all do? are we too spoilt for choice in asia? do the easy girls make it much harder for the 'shy' girls ?