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Mr Brown

Took a trip to the hospital in the sticks today unprepared for this.

Missus had been complaining recently about pain around her womb and having bleeding when she shouldn't. I took this quite seriously as she had a cyst removed with the previous birth so I checked the internet based on her symptoms and only could discover that it could be HPV or some infection.

At the hospital today 7am the doc told her to do a piss test which then revealed she was pregnant (Oh fuck I thought)

8am she disappears of to open her legs for the quack - nothing (My head still stressing over what could be)

9am She goes for ultrasound

9.30am her father who works at the hospital makes a pregnant gesture towards me (He cannot speak English) by moving both hands across his gut.

Cue me now holding one son panicking of how i'm going to look after another kid then how nice it would be for my son now to have a sibling and then back to Oh Fuck and then to thinking how much I'd like a girl.

10am - missus returns.....

ultra sound reveal fuck all - no baby = Miscarriage

We had no idea that she was pregnant (She was one month into) I never splash inside

Now nearly 12 hours on i don't feel much emotion but fuck how could I be feeling now.

All in a day

Loy Toy

Obviously you dribble before you shoot mate but what else can I say.

Commiserations re the miscarriage mate but better you concentrate at getting your now family established and before expanding.

All the best to you, the Mrs and your boy and hope to see you soon!

Lily

A surprising amount of pregnancies end in miscarriage without the woman even being aware of it. Put down to an overdue period or a heavy period .

Mr Brown

It's OK I'm over it - I was shitting bricks I ain't ready to expand

I've heard that before and the case here no doubt. A bit more painful getting a 1 month old down the bog.

Quite disgusting, I feel for the girl

Marmite the Dog

Well, someone did...

tjyflhol

Well Marmers I was going to say the same thing, but social protocol stopped me.

But since it's been broke already I guess the only question is, who shagged Mr.Brown's gf and got her up the duff?

EmperorTud

That's why the Greeks invented anal.

killerbees

chassamui

Bad dog.

kingwilly

commiserations on the miscarriage, expected or not, it's still hard on the family. the mrs' hormones will be out of balance also, so expect her to be a little volatile!

nidhogg

See you are going to get enough grief on this thread already, so I will stick to this bit, and you should remember it as a lesson as to the 'power" of the internet. There is a lot of information out there, but unless you really know how to pick and chose between it, I would be very very careful on how I used medical info gleaned from the internet.

Secondly, watch your wife carefully. A "lost" baby, even an unknowingly lost baby can be quite an emotional stress on a lady (not all by any means).

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Loy Toy

I decided to remain diplomatic and used the dribbly dick phenomenom!

The Fresh Prince

Hope Mrs Brown is ok dude.

I know that in the situation your in now, the last thing you need is the stress of another mouth to feed, but as you said, Brown Jnr would like a play mate.

crippen

Called a grudge baby.

DaffyDuck

Well, obviously someone did. Naïve, anyone?

watterinja

What are the causes here?

Norton

Good question. Just looked.

"The reasons for miscarriage aren't always known. In fact, more often than not, you will simply not know what caused a specific miscarriage. The following are some possible explanations for why a single first-trimester miscarriage might occur in someone without a history of miscarriage."

Reasons for Miscarriage - Possible Reasons for Miscarriage in Early Pregnancy

Lily

I

I am really not sure but there would be a variety of reasons. Not a good adherence to the endometrium, a faulty ovum, a genetic abnormality that is unviable, the fertised ovum in the wrong position....................,

I am not sure that anyone knows why. But I do know that it is a common thing.

Rural Surin

Chinese.

Rural Surin

Nature's way of keeping the population balance in check.

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November Rain

Ok, as no-one has mentioned it here, I will.

A miscarriage is a serious thing for a woman (even if she didn't know she was pregnant). Sorry, if you feel I'm criticising Mr B, but you seem to be concentrating on your feelings. I guarantee hers are yours x 100, 1,0000, whatever. Give your wife some TLC and understanding for the next few weeks (or longer). She'll need it.

Sorry for both of your loss.

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Mr Brown

Cheers for your support guys, knew I could count on you

Mr Brown

fuckin heh

wondered what was up

Mr Brown

Whoever.... She said we should be more careful and use a bit more protection in the future.

I suggested mouth to anal but it hasn't gone down to well

Mr Brown

Thanks NR and all the other kind words others have left.

Suprisingly apart from the hormone imbalances the missus has taken it really well - she didn't have a clue she was up the duff and took it on the chin when told... we both know we are not prepared for another little 'un.

It's strange really considering, hard what to say - but life is still rolling along as it was before.