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| The Dog | Serial Child Beater Well it seems I am a serial child beater now, it's now the second time and my fists and arms hurt, But it has come to the stage where i don't want my son as part of my family, his morals are totally different to mine, I don't believe in stealing from friends and this is something he did, so I beat the fuck out of him, it aint gonna change him, made me feel better a bit, but I don't need shite people like that in my life, sadly I don't forgive very easily, so he will probably never be considered my son again, I will continue paying for his schooling for however long he attends, but basically all I can say is fuck that Thai piece of shite.
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| ɐɾuıuɹəʇɐʍ sɐılɐ Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: uʍop əpısdn
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| Remember how your partner must be feeling - it is her flesh-&-blood. A good hiding for a young up-&-coming convict may be a good lesson - hopefully well learned. Awful to have to go through this kind of thing. |
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| 3 Pagoda Pass Last Online: Today 04:13 AM Join Date: May 2006 Location: Hope Valley nr. Sheffield
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| How old is he now? beatings are not a good way to go, tempting as it is. Too late now, don't apologise however. I think the correct route is to embarrass the hell out of him. Make him admit to his crime in person to the cousin if possible, in front of as many people who know him as you can find. Ask if the cousin if he wants to press charges, get the BiB to pay him a visit. Every time something is missing ask him if he has taken it, everything new you see him with ask him where he got it from, start locking things away and he might start realising what it is like to be treated as a criminal. It isn't an easy situation, but you might turn him around. |
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| 3 Pagoda Pass Last Online: Today 04:13 AM Join Date: May 2006 Location: Hope Valley nr. Sheffield
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| I think most kids steal something at some point when growing up. It could be spare change lying around the house, sweets from a shop, alcohol cos they are underage, could be anything really. Some do it from peer pressure, some stop from peer pressure. Most stop because they get caught or have a close call. Some stop when they think through the consequences of being caught or how the other people feel. It's difficult to say really, but I don't think a good hiding is the thing that stops them. Maybe you can get someone else to talk to him about how disappointed you are in him and how proud you used to be. How you don't want to be out with him anymore in case he does it again and embarrasses you with your friends. Do it to sort him out, even if you don't trust him. With any luck you will both come around. |
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| I am in Jail Last Online: 30-10-2009 12:02 AM Join Date: Apr 2008
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| DD Father of the year!!! ![]() ![]() Fvck me!! And I catch hell for being there full time 24/7 for my boys in spite of struggling so badly under conditions I had no control of??.. Nope! No way! Not worthy to judge me!! Did you ever think that part of his trusting you was in him admitting it to you in the first place?? Stealing is not cool clearly but by that you provided a good example of distrust by kicking the shit out of him and now disowning him?? |
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| Thailand Expat Last Online: 15-10-2009 09:22 AM Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: In a dreamworld
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| Until you have been in this position in these circumstances, you cannot Judge anyone. I am not a violent person but my 5 lads have driven me to impossible temptaion as far as their own safety and welfare is concerned. That's why they have mothers, for balance. One uncharacterisic act may just be the shock thta his system needs? |
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| Thailand Expat Last Online: Today 06:52 AM Join Date: May 2008
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Are you joking ? . And I can tell you, that where I come from, that kid would probaly be taken away from the father the same day as this happens, and someone would have to go to the big man for some judgement. And thats how it should be. | |
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| Thailand Expat Last Online: Today 06:52 AM Join Date: May 2008
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| Thailand Expat Last Online: 15-10-2009 09:22 AM Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: In a dreamworld
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| Since when was it a crime to care enough about your kids to ensure that they know the difference between right and wrong? Wake up and smell the winds of change blowing backwards through our once stable society. I bet you are a health and safety advisor or a christian? maybe both. |
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