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    Living with a Bar Girl and her children

    I live with my Thai Girlfriend in Udon Thani that I met in a bar in Ao Nang for 2 months now.

    We live together with her 2 children in her house, and have just planted rice in her 7 rai of fields. (I have seen and had the paperwork explained to me at the Department of Land.)

    She told me she had just started working the bar 3 weeks before we met, which has proved to be true on checking flights and other documents. Prior to this she had a hair salon in her home which I have just converted into a bedroom as she did not get enough trade.

    I have met her family (which include a couple of Aussie husbands of sisters) and she has introduced me to the neighbours in the village as her new husband (although we not married yet. (She says it is not a done thing to live together in her home in the eyes of her neighbours, so we are 'married')

    Everyone I have spoken to say she is a great girl and well respected in the community, even the local Immigration Office workers stop what they are doing to say hello, both men and ladies and to help us out with any enquiry we have.

    Now the big question.....

    She went into the Bar due to debts which I have authenticated with her bank and they are real.

    I just worry, after reading the horror stories about Thai Bar Girls am I going to end up the fool on the hill.

    Any thought would be welcomed

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarknMin
    I just worry, after reading the horror stories about Thai Bar Girls am I going to end up the fool on the hill.
    Go for it. What have you got to lose?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarknMin
    Any thought would be welcomed
    My initial thought is that this is a troll.

    My next thought is that if it isn't then the relationship is doomed. Not because she is/was a bar girl but because you clearly don't trust her so what's the point. That lack of trust is cancerous.

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    I just come to read here and see what is going...she went to work in bar cuz she want better life..I mean find farang husband to help fpr money ..if you have enough dont worry she not leave you sure..lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicethaiza
    if you have enough dont worry she not leave you sure..lol
    Don't believe that. Seen it happen many a time.

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    Take the punt mate.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarknMin View Post
    (I have seen and had the paperwork explained to me at the Department of Land.)
    So, were they kind enough to explain that (marriage or not) none of it will ever be yours?
    Last edited by hick; 22-08-2017 at 11:01 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarknMin
    due to debts
    what caused them - and will they occur again

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarknMin
    We live together with her 2 children in her house, and have just planted rice in her 7 rai of fields.
    Strange that, cuz rice is planted around May time and harvested mainly around November.

    The Rice Cycle in Thailand
    The rice-planting season in Thailand usually starts in May. Around this time, showers signal the approaching end of the dry season, and farmers once more prepare for rice planting as one annual cycle ends and another begins.

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    Quote Originally Posted by baldrick View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by MarknMin
    due to debts
    what caused them - and will they occur again
    Oh you betcha.

    But this time maer and por will rack up a decent amount too.

    Why the fok not, some farang fokwit will be repaying them.

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    ^^The locals planted the fields in front of our house at the end of July. It's all irrigated so timing may depend on water allocation.

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    Planting

    Yes rice was planted 24th May before we moved into the house.
    Quote Originally Posted by Pragmatic View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by MarknMin
    We live together with her 2 children in her house, and have just planted rice in her 7 rai of fields.
    Strange that, cuz rice is planted around May time and harvested mainly around November.

    The Rice Cycle in Thailand
    The rice-planting season in Thailand usually starts in May. Around this time, showers signal the approaching end of the dry season, and farmers once more prepare for rice planting as one annual cycle ends and another begins.

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    OP, MarknMin,

    If you're telling the truth, go for it. See what happens.

    But don't part too much with your money.

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    I love these threads,

    It reinforces my believe that many Farang are stupid arsed retards and deserve to be exploited mercilessly.

    No wonder the Thais piss their pants laughin at many of these Farang.

    No offence mate,

    Just putting it out there eh.

    Troll of course but good for a laugh innit.
    I do not give Patsycat " The Horn " thank Fuk.

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    ^ Bought any new Honda Waves or Aircons lately? Increased the monthly salary to match inflation?

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    May she is good girl..she just want better life ..not wrong with it...

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarknMin View Post
    She told me she had just started working the bar 3 weeks before we met,
    That is a very long time to be working in a bar , most girls have only stared working there that very night

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    Quote Originally Posted by terry57 View Post
    I love these threads,

    It reinforces my believe that many Farang are stupid arsed retards and deserve to be exploited mercilessly.

    No wonder the Thais piss their pants laughin at many of these Farang.

    No offence mate,

    Just putting it out there eh.

    Troll of course but good for a laugh innit.
    No offence! I'd hate to be on the other end if you were Terry.

    In saying that. Most bar girls have only been in the bar "three weeks" and they are all there to help family. But if she rings your Bell go for it,BUT BE WARY!! and don't go broke in the process. Keep a tight rein on your and most definitely her spending. Pretty well every person here on TD has been, or knows someone who has been financially broken by a bar girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicethaiza View Post
    May she is good girl..she just want better life
    University and work could never provide such a thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Luigi View Post

    Bought any new Honda Waves or Aircons lately? Increased the monthly salary to match inflation?


    I did buy my Handbag a new 128 GB u3 sdxc Samsung Evo plus Memory card, got that on Special for 1 K.

    It's for her new Samsung Galaxy S2 9.7 inch tablet I bought her.

    Ok Lu-Lu,

    I didn't buy the fooker I traded in my Frequent flyer points for it.

    Tight as fuk i am.

    Just shouted her a trip to Singapore for her Birthday as well, but that was mainly to keep me out of the shit.

    Taking her to Cambodia next month but deducting 50% from her monthly stipend.

    I'm no easy roll over dude Lu-Lu.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hugh Cow View Post


    No offence! I'd hate to be on the other end if you were Terry.

    Yes I agree as well mate, at times it's so hard to be me .

    My generosity knows no bounds,

    I need to just harden the fuk up a tad eh.

    My Super aint gunna last forever.

    Could run out by the time I'm 125 years old.

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    Don't treat it as a purchase, simply a rental agreement.

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    ^

    That's spot on Arry.

    I never let anybody own me hence I don't do Marriage and on the other hand I never expect to own a woman.

    They are free to go when ever they want. Free fookin world innit.

    My Handbag aint going anywhere though, she gets looked after extremely well and knows that she gets Noodle soup 24-7 free flow.

    Brilliant girl my Handbag, like her long time.

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    Two months...60 days in your life...met her "working in a bar".

    You want an answer, OP...let me ask six questions:
    How old are you...how old is she ?
    Are you retired or employed ?
    Where do you live year-round ?
    On which visa are you currently staying in Thailand ?
    How much do you spend monthly to keep your darling from returning to "work at the bar" ?

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    Just had lunch with a young Danish lad who announced he's getting married to his 'teerak' after first setting foot here 9 months ago.

    To be fair she has a job and didn't get mad when he crashed her car.



    Must be able to suck a bowling ball through a hosepipe.

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