Do you have any experience with this? At what age did you come into their lives? Do they treat you like a parent? Have any made a negative or positive attitude adjustment at a later phase? Any issues with your spouse's family and/or your stepchild's boy/girlfriend? Has your step child impressed you? Have you ever split with anyone due to your relationship and/or the behavior of the stepchild? Do you feel there will be a point where the stepchild will long for their genetic parent?