Last month went with my gf to Ubon Ratchathani. While we were there we had to go and see the local monk so he could give an opinion of me to her family. Apparently he lives in this makeshift hut in the woods for a month or two.
GF's mother and father also came along, as did their puppy. He disgraced himself by urinating on the monks floor mat (the dog - not my gf's father)
Anyway the result of the monks assesment is that I am a good man and have a cold heart (dont lose my temper easily). My gf has a hot heart and loses her temper at the drop of a hat. Actually I didnt need a monk to tell me that.