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    Elderly American Couple Commit Double-Suicide

    CityNews – A foreign couple committed suicide in a hotel using helium gas.




    On April 25th, the bodies of a man, 75, and a woman identified only as Dianne were discovered at a hotel in the city. The couple has been staying at the hotel since April 13th.

    The housekeeper who found the bodies was sent to check on these two guests as they were scheduled to check out. Once at the room, the housekeeper found a note stating “Do not enter call police” on the curtain. Both of the bodies were on the bed.


    Faces of both bodies were wrapped in plastic bags and were connected to a helium gas tank.

    They were sent to the hospital for autopsy and police will be notifying the embassy to contact the family.










    https://www.chiangmaicitylife.com/ne...suicide-hotel/

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    DIY euthanasia or foul play?

    TDCSI? Whaddya reckon?

    RIP to them.
    Last edited by happynz; 27-04-2019 at 04:31 PM.

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    RIP. Sad and Romantic.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by GracelessFawn View Post
    RIP. Sad and Romantic.....
    Yes. I wonder how long they had been together.
    I guess they figured it was only going to be downhill from here on in.

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    Sad and romantic.My Mom and Dad had being together most of their life, They were a country with in themselves, always together, always complaining about everyone else, playing cards and accusing each other of cheating , having monumental fights but could not stand to be apart. After my Dad passed away my mom lost her will to live, she remained for a couple of years , suffering from depression and passed away in her sleep most likely dreaming of a life with my Dad.
    Me and my wife have a similar relationship as my parents did . I suspect many long time married couples do.
    Though I would never do anything like the OP couple, The thought that one day I will die and leave my wife along distresses me greatly.
    The sooner you fall behind, the more time you have to catch up.

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    Cheers to all of us...... Some good thoughts to ponder. Life is for the living. Enjoy!

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    I am a firm believer that if people wish to expedite their departure from this earth, it should be up to them.

    But why not do it at home?

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    Quote Originally Posted by harrybarracuda View Post
    I am a firm believer that if people wish to expedite their departure from this earth, it should be up to them.

    But why not do it at home?
    They would want to be found and properly disposed of by people who do not have an emotional attachment and thus minimise the negative emotional effect on loved ones

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    Quote Originally Posted by Buckaroo Banzai View Post
    They would want to be found and properly disposed of by people who do not have an emotional attachment and thus minimise the negative emotional effect on loved ones
    That might be their logic but I would think their loved ones will have a lot more to go through as a result of their parents topping themselves in a foreign country.

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    Police are investigating the death of an elderly American couple in Chiang Mai. The two tourists were found dead in a hotel with plastic bags around their heads hooked up to balloons filled with helium in what police believe to be a well-thought-out double-suicide.


    Pol Lt Col Mana Sukjaroen, who leads the investigation, said he was notified of the incident at 12:20 on Thursday. The report came after a room maid at the Top North Hotel on Moon Muang Rd near Tha Phae Gate in Chiang Mai’s Phra Singh subdistrict discovered the bodies of James Lewis Hamilton, 75, and his 70-year-old wife Diane Adele De Simone.


    Investigators interviewed the manager of the hotel, Pricha Maijandaeng. According to him, Mr Hamilton and Mrs De Simone, who had been staying in the hotel since April 13, were due to check-out on the day their bodies were found.
    “Mr Pricha told us that he called the phone in room no. 3207 on the 2nd floor where the two were staying after they did not check-out at 12:00,” Pol Lt Col Mana said. “However, nobody picked up, so Mr Pricha asked a maid to go to their room.”




    After the maid’s knocks on the door also remained unanswered, she reportedly attempted to gain access to the room by using a spare key. As she opened the door, she found a piece of paper attached to a hanger reading “DO NOT ENTER – CALL POLICE”. She then found the lifeless bodies of Mr Hamilton and Mrs De Simone on the bed inside the room.

    An initial police report states that both tourists had plastic bags wrapped around their heads which were connected by a thin hose to a balloon filled with gas from a tank in the room. The valve of the 40-litre-tank, which police say most likely contained helium, was fully opened and the content already empty, leading police to conclude that the couple had committed suicide and died of inert gas asphyxiation.


    Forensic police briefly examined the bodies on the scene and said they were in full rigor mortis and therefore have been dead for at least 12 hours. They were dressed wearing white t-shirts and grey shorts. Both of them wore diapers, the police report stated. A note with contact information was also found in the room.


    “All the preparations they have made make it look like a well-thought-out double-suicide,” Pol Lt Col Mana interpreted the scene. The maid said that the two guests were a jolly couple and gave no indication they were going to commit suicide. Three days before the incident, they had greeted her in a friendly manner and asked not to be disturbed, police revealed.


    Volunteers of the Ruam Jai Chiang Mai Rescue Foundation took the bodies of Mr Hamilton and Mrs De Simone to Maharaj Nakorn Chiang Mai Hospital where a post-mortem examination will be conducted. The American authorities in Chiang Mai have been informed, police confirmed.

    https://www.farang-deaths.com/case/j...ewis-hamilton/

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    All love stories end with sorrow but their suicide spared one of them the grief.


    I wonder why this couple chose this time in their lives together to die. Were they both sick? Broke? Depressed because they were 75?

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    Reminds me a film called The notebook that we watched last month.

    I'm going to have to get writing soon because I wouldn't even believe my own story when I'm old and grey.

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    In 1940s South Carolina, mill worker Noah Calhoun (Ryan Gosling) and rich girl Allie (Rachel McAdams) are desperately in love. But her parents don't approve. When Noah goes off to serve in World War II, it seems to mark the end of their love affair. In the interim, Allie becomes involved with another man (James Marsden). But when Noah returns to their small town years later, on the cusp of Allie's marriage, it soon becomes clear that their romance is anything but over.
    Release date: June 25, 2004 (USA)
    Director: Nick Cassavetes
    Screenplay: Jeremy Leven
    Awards: MTV Movie Award for Best Kiss, Teen Choice Award for Choice Movie: Liplock, More
    Story by: Nicholas Sparks, Jan Sardi

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    I wonder if it's this Diane De Simone:

    https://www.amazon.com/Diane-de-Simone/e/B008HA3SX6

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    ^ Seems to be...

    the bodies of James Lewis Hamilton, 75, and his 70-year-old wife Diane Adele De Simone.
    About Diane de Simone

    Quote Originally Posted by Amazon
    Diane ..... currently lives with her partner, James Lewis Hamilton, an artist; remaining passionate about Thailand, "the force, the quantum field, transformation, and healing."

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    @fishlocker - I've watched watched The Notebook twice. Cried loads both of times. I bet if I watch it again, I'll fill buckets with tears. It's that kind of movie (for me anyway).

    Re: the OP, sad. Maybe one of them had a terminal illness and the other didn't want to watch his/her partner deteriorate and be left alone? IMO, they're not too elderly - my mom is older, and she's still sprightly, as are other seniors that I know.


    RIP to the couple...

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    Quote Originally Posted by misskit View Post
    All love stories end with sorrow but their suicide spared one of them the grief.


    I wonder why this couple chose this time in their lives together to die. Were they both sick? Broke? Depressed because they were 75?
    Reminds me of this beautiful Natalie Merchant song.

    Beloved Wife
    Natalie Merchant





    You were the love
    For certain of my life
    You were simply my beloved wife
    I don't know for certain
    How I'll live my life
    Now alone without my beloved wife
    My beloved wife
    I can't believe
    I've lost the very best of me
    You were the love
    For certain of my life
    You were simply my beloved wife
    I don't know for certain
    How I'll live my life
    Now alone without my beloved wife
    My beloved wife
    I can't believe
    I've lost the very best of me
    You were the love
    For certain of my life
    For 50 years simply my beloved wife
    With another love I'll never lye again
    It's you I can't deny
    It's you I can't defy
    A depth so deep
    Into my grief
    Without my beloved soul
    I renounce my life
    As my right
    Now alone without my beloved wife
    My beloved wife
    My beloved wife
    My love…

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    I was going to write some thing.... I think she covered it. The note on the door says a lot. A bit of class I would say to wear a diaper.
    When you hit the ground running just think of the folks that have to clean up after your mess.

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    I will let her do the talking......

    htts://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GGMHSbcd_qI

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    Quote Originally Posted by misskit View Post
    I wonder why this couple chose this time in their lives together to die. Were they both sick? Broke? Depressed because they were 75
    Doubt anything to do with their age. I am 75 and certainly have no intention to off myself. My guess poor health.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Norton View Post
    Doubt anything to do with their age. I am 75 and certainly have no intention to off myself. My guess poor health.
    Looking at her body of work, perhaps they timed it to be picked up by a passing alien ship or something.

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    Quote Originally Posted by harrybarracuda View Post
    Looking at her body of work, perhaps they timed it to be picked up by a passing alien ship or something.
    Possibly. No telling why folks do stuff like this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Norton View Post
    Possibly. No telling why folks do stuff like this.
    Well at least they picked one of the less messy and painful ways of moving on.

    Although the Thais might consider that room permanently haunted from now on.
    Last edited by harrybarracuda; 28-04-2019 at 06:47 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by harrybarracuda View Post
    I am a firm believer that if people wish to expedite their departure from this earth, it should be up to them.

    But why not do it at home?

    Exotic Oriental locale?

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    Hardly exotic.

    I can fully understand how an individual or a couple could come to a logical conclusion that they'd had enough.
    It intrigues me the way so many folk seem to think that such action is wrong.
    If one removes any of the farcical religious edicts, which any one with an ounce of common sense must reject, there seems to me to be no reason whatsoever to condemn their actions.
    Thinking people get tired of the nonsense world in which we strive to survive and exist.
    There comes a point when one really takes the time to assess, evaluate, and consider the point of it all.
    They were both, it seems, intelligent, thoughtful people, who decided to stop.
    They succeeded in a relatively mess less, trauma free way.
    Respect is due, IMHO.

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