Originally Posted by
taxexile
from what i have seen of the dying process and ones final weeks, both in thailand ( private hospital and government hospital) and the uk (hospice), i would say the uk option is much to be preferred to the thai option (moneyed or otherwise).
even after the terminal nature of the illness had been incontrovertibly diagnosed, the thais penchant for constant and invasive testing, attempts at curing, and general interfering meant that the final weeks were uncomfortable, painful and as distressing as possible, pain relief was virtually non existent and the arrogance and lack of compassion from the doctors and staff was selfish in the extreme, their concern was for themselves and their perceived duties only. the patient was a piece of meat, a guinea pig, and a cash cow.
finally entering into a comatose state was a relief both for the patient and the relatives, but did little to stop the medics from interfering.
by contrast, hospice care in the uk was dignified, compassionate and reassuring, the pain relief was excellent and the caring shown to both the patient and visitors by the doctors and especially the specialist end of life nursing staff was first rate. the patients comfort, both mental and physical, was their one and only concern...... (and hospice care in the uk is free.)
i would not like to die in a thai hospital.