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Mister Fixit · 12-02-2008, 11:55 AM

I am sad to say that one of the nicest teachers posting on Ajarn was killed last night.

The poster Ruaraidh was well-known on the forum for his positive, up-beat attitude and it's shocked everyone there, including me.

Rurys Passing - Ajarn Forum - Living and Teaching In Thailand

RIP.

Bexar County Stud · 12-02-2008, 12:17 PM

He took the time to share his life via the forum and made a good impression on a lot of people he didn't even meet. I feel very sad about it and I never met the guy.
My heart goes out to those who knew him, condolences.

machman · 12-02-2008, 12:18 PM

Thoughts and sympathy go out to his friends and family.

CSFFan · 12-02-2008, 12:49 PM

He's one of the few posters I've met in person and he was just a cool in person as on the forum. His love of his students showed everytime he spoke about them and wasn't shy at all to share his life with everyone.

My condolences to his wife and family. If there's anything the wife or I can do in this time of need, please let us know.

Mister Fixit · 12-02-2008, 01:00 PM

It was so shocking to read this morning. One of the most positive posters on Ajarn and a credit to the teachers in Thailand.

kingwilly · 12-02-2008, 01:01 PM

indeed.

Happyman · 12-02-2008, 01:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bexar County Stud

He took the time to share his life via the forum and made a good impression on a lot of people he didn't even meet. I feel very sad about it and I never met the guy.
My heart goes out to those who knew him, condolences.

Totally agree.

Had never heard of the chap but went into Ajarn and read some of his postings.

Always sad when someone passes on but even more so in this case it seems - someone who did what he wanted and did it right- enjoy life and help others to enjoy theirs!

R.I.P.

unkleblacky · 12-02-2008, 02:11 PM

sad new, RIP

good2bhappy · 12-02-2008, 02:19 PM

My thoughts and sympathies go out to his friends and family.
RIP

hillbilly · 12-02-2008, 04:54 PM

Heard the news early this morning. So sad.

Mister Fixit · 12-02-2008, 09:59 PM

Unfortunately, the bickering seems to have started already. I posted a thread suggesting a collection for his family to help them in the future days and weeks and was shouted down as 'blarting' about money.

Some people, eh? Think they have a monopoly on grief. It's also a sad reflection on them.

It looks as though he is going to have a rousing send-off though.

CSFFan · 12-02-2008, 10:05 PM

MF,

Me and the wife already thought about setting up a fund or something...but right now I think emotions are too high. Please keep us informed and let us know whats happening.

Thanks,
Topper

Mister Fixit · 12-02-2008, 10:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CSFFan

MF,

Me and the wife already thought about setting up a fund or something...but right now I think emotions are too high. Please keep us informed and let us know whats happening.

Thanks,
Topper

OK, will do. I think you are correct about the emotions - the poster who took a pop was a bit upset and also seemed to imply in a further post that only people who had met the chap should contribute. I am sure he wasn't thinking well.

However, I will continue report back here. I really do think 500 baht or a grand a person on Ajarn is not too much to ask for, but someone else said his family were OK for money. But we'll see.

Unfortunately, there seems to be some jockeying for position going on just now - 'I met him and you didn't' and 'I knew him better than you' type of stuff. I really hope it goes away soon.

dirtydog · 12-02-2008, 11:13 PM

As he was a teacher in Thailand i doubt he or his family were rich, a little bit of money always helps out.

Hootad Binky · 13-02-2008, 12:34 AM

Can't find the link, but isn't there a website that tracks farang deaths in Thailand?

Mister Fixit · 13-02-2008, 02:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dirtydog

As he was a teacher in Thailand i doubt he or his family were rich, a little bit of money always helps out.

That's exactly what I was thinking, and why I suggested the idea.

It is a few months down the line when people start to feel the pinch when the savings are nearing the end and there is no-one to earn the loot any more. That's when things REALLY hurt.

And then there are the unexpected expenses of a funeral, extra travelling and all the other unbudgeted-for things when someone dies suddenly.

Short-sighted to refuse, in my view.

Mister Fixit · 13-02-2008, 02:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hootad Binky

Can't find the link, but isn't there a website that tracks farang deaths in Thailand?

Wasn't aware of one. What about Thaivisa? Would it be there?

obsidian · 13-02-2008, 02:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mister Fixit

Unfortunately, there seems to be some jockeying for position going on just now - 'I met him and you didn't' and 'I knew him better than you' type of stuff.

missed this bit of insight over there.

Roxanne · 13-02-2008, 05:53 PM

he was a helluva fella. he injected some wit and enthusiasm into ajarn once more. i was looking forward to getting to know the guy a bit better, i only met him once. it was a pleasure tho.

Smeg · 13-02-2008, 07:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mister Fixit

Quote:

Originally Posted by dirtydog

As he was a teacher in Thailand i doubt he or his family were rich, a little bit of money always helps out.

That's exactly what I was thinking, and why I suggested the idea.

It is a few months down the line when people start to feel the pinch when the savings are nearing the end and there is no-one to earn the loot any more. That's when things REALLY hurt.

And then there are the unexpected expenses of a funeral, extra travelling and all the other unbudgeted-for things when someone dies suddenly.

Short-sighted to refuse, in my view.

From what I recall, he has a young child (assumption based on a photo). I would hope that anyone with a young child, especially if regularly riding a motorcycle in Thailand, had adequate life insurance to cover long-term financial parential obligations. I hope and pray for that child that he did.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mister Fixit

I really do think 500 baht or a grand a person on Ajarn is not too much to ask for

From people who never knew or met him, it probably is. However, using the forum as a trade union is a nice idea.

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12-02-2008, 12:17 PM	#2 (permalink)
Bexar County Stud Phra Pathom Chedi Last Online: 19-03-2010 11:27 PM Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 864	He took the time to share his life via the forum and made a good impression on a lot of people he didn't even meet. I feel very sad about it and I never met the guy. My heart goes out to those who knew him, condolences.

12-02-2008, 12:18 PM	#3 (permalink)
machman Udon Thani Last Online: Yesterday 06:38 PM Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 149	Thoughts and sympathy go out to his friends and family.

12-02-2008, 12:49 PM	#4 (permalink)
CSFFan Thailand Expat Last Online: 03-01-2010 06:53 PM Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Bangkok Posts: 1,024	He's one of the few posters I've met in person and he was just a cool in person as on the forum. His love of his students showed everytime he spoke about them and wasn't shy at all to share his life with everyone. My condolences to his wife and family. If there's anything the wife or I can do in this time of need, please let us know.

12-02-2008, 01:00 PM	#5 (permalink)
Mister Fixit Aranyaprathet Last Online: 27-02-2010 03:27 PM Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: You'd be amazed Posts: 273	It was so shocking to read this morning. One of the most positive posters on Ajarn and a credit to the teachers in Thailand.

12-02-2008, 01:01 PM	#6 (permalink)
kingwilly The Teakdoor Traitor Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 35,946	indeed.

12-02-2008, 02:11 PM	#8 (permalink)
unkleblacky Si Sa Ket Last Online: 05-03-2010 11:43 PM Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Guernsey, United Kingdom Posts: 236	sad new, RIP

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good2bhappy Thailand Travel Forum Last Online: 16-03-2010 10:45 AM Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Klong Samwa Posts: 11,818	My thoughts and sympathies go out to his friends and family. RIP

12-02-2008, 04:54 PM	#10 (permalink)
hillbilly Still trailer trash Last Online: Yesterday 06:47 PM Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: BKK & 'D&G Resort' Posts: 6,616	Heard the news early this morning. So sad.

12-02-2008, 09:59 PM	#11 (permalink)
Mister Fixit Aranyaprathet Last Online: 27-02-2010 03:27 PM Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: You'd be amazed Posts: 273	Unfortunately, the bickering seems to have started already. I posted a thread suggesting a collection for his family to help them in the future days and weeks and was shouted down as 'blarting' about money. Some people, eh? Think they have a monopoly on grief. It's also a sad reflection on them. It looks as though he is going to have a rousing send-off though.

12-02-2008, 10:05 PM	#12 (permalink)
CSFFan Thailand Expat Last Online: 03-01-2010 06:53 PM Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Bangkok Posts: 1,024	MF, Me and the wife already thought about setting up a fund or something...but right now I think emotions are too high. Please keep us informed and let us know whats happening. Thanks, Topper

12-02-2008, 11:13 PM	#14 (permalink)
dirtydog The Dog Last Online: Today 12:02 AM Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Pattaya Jomtien Posts: 44,956	As he was a teacher in Thailand i doubt he or his family were rich, a little bit of money always helps out.

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Roxanne Karon Beach Last Online: 14-02-2008 12:05 PM Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Sukh on the Kok Posts: 4	he was a helluva fella. he injected some wit and enthusiasm into ajarn once more. i was looking forward to getting to know the guy a bit better, i only met him once. it was a pleasure tho.

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